Girlfriend or F.... Buddy?
06-09-2006, 10:47 AM
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Girlfriend or F.... Buddy?
I have been going out with this girl. I asked her how she felt about me and the dreaded "Friend" word came out. Later that night though we started to make out and now I am confused. I am pretty sure that it is only going to be a physical relationship, but I think that I may be falling for this girl. My friends tell me I just miss the sex since it has only been 3 months since I broke up with my ex. I think that they are right but.........
06-09-2006, 10:52 AM
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Probably a rebound since you're just looking for attention from a new chick to make up for the loss of the X.
My advise is to just roll with it. A lot of relationships come from friends with benefits. The catch is that being FWB may ruin the friendship down the road... so you'll need to weigh the pros and cons of each and go from there.
Personally if I was not that good of friends with her I'd go with the flow... If we have been friends for some rediculous number of years, then you need to decide if your friendship can handle that, and go from there. I had many girls I was friends with for years turn into physical stuff. When the physical stuff ended, we were still just as good of friends. So if you guys can handle that... go for it...
My advise is to just roll with it. A lot of relationships come from friends with benefits. The catch is that being FWB may ruin the friendship down the road... so you'll need to weigh the pros and cons of each and go from there.
Personally if I was not that good of friends with her I'd go with the flow... If we have been friends for some rediculous number of years, then you need to decide if your friendship can handle that, and go from there. I had many girls I was friends with for years turn into physical stuff. When the physical stuff ended, we were still just as good of friends. So if you guys can handle that... go for it...
06-09-2006, 11:57 AM
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Thanks... that is exactly what I was thinking too. But for some reason I have very strong feelings for this girl. I know that it would never work out in the long run but I am going to have fun now. When will girls and relationships ever be easy?
06-09-2006, 12:07 PM
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She explicitely said you are merely friends so don't expect anything serious to come out of the physical intimacy you guys have started.
06-09-2006, 12:55 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
She explicitely said you are merely friends so don't expect anything serious to come out of the physical intimacy you guys have started.
My sentiments exactly.
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Just be FWB and leave it at that. If you can't handle just being her friend and you get to into her, you'll likely push her away and you'll end up with neither. Not to mentiont, she probably doesn't see you as "dateable". That means, you may be FWB but as soon as she meets a guy who she feels is "dateable", you'll no longer be gettin' any. If you have feelings for her, THAT will hurt. My advise, is be ONLY friends with this girl unless you can handle her being with someone else right in front of you. 
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How old are you? Falling for a bitch usually happens at a young age. Sometimes i get this feeling that I like chicks that I fuck, but it usually goes away after I blow my load.
06-09-2006, 11:56 PM
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I have been going out with this girl. I asked her how she felt about me and the dreaded "Friend" word came out. Later that night though we started to make out and now I am confused. I am pretty sure that it is only going to be a physical relationship, but I think that I may be falling for this girl. My friends tell me I just miss the sex since it has only been 3 months since I broke up with my ex. I think that they are right but.........
06-10-2006, 02:10 AM
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Originally Posted by Titand19
How old are you? Falling for a bitch usually happens at a young age. Sometimes i get this feeling that I like chicks that I fuck, but it usually goes away after I blow my load.
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Originally Posted by Titand19
How old are you? Falling for a bitch usually happens at a young age. Sometimes i get this feeling that I like chicks that I fuck, but it usually goes away after I blow my load.
06-12-2006, 10:53 AM
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You guys were right. I was just missing the physical attention. We ended up having sex and my feelings for her are not the same. I guess I just need that to clear my head.
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Originally Posted by Titand19
How old are you? Falling for a bitch usually happens at a young age. Sometimes i get this feeling that I like chicks that I fuck, but it usually goes away after I blow my load.
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