friends with him, then dated him, now what?

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Oct 6, 2005 | 11:12 PM

#41

youngTL

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Originally Posted by mesmerize

i really don't think it was an issue of attractiveness... i don't like to bring up that kinda stuff because i don't want to come off seeming like i'm full of myself... but i've seen other girls that he's dated in the past, and they were pretty average looking. and he's fairly good looking, but not what most girls would consider "hot"... i just really liked him though.

and i *swear* he's not gay!! he's dated other girls and i know him pretty well...

I agree with DDT-TypeS, in my experience, if a cute guy is dating an ugly girl, and shows no interest in hot girls, it means his date is likely a "cover". What guy would turn down a hot girl?

In my experience, girls deceive themselves when they like a guy. They'll make up excuses for him and won't see the truth. Ask the girl who liked me for 2 years, finally got the courage up to ask me out, and ended up leaving the high school halloween dance in tears back in 2002.

Either that, or he doesn't want to ruin his friendship with you if it's that good...See VITEK's thread...https://acurazine.com/forums/dating-relationships-14/oops-i-effed-up-321064/

Oct 6, 2005 | 11:13 PM

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youngTL

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Originally Posted by DDT-TypeS

Most importantly is to stay away from guys on this board. Most are after your poon and most will not think twice about a hit and run.

I'm sure Caliadria would disagree from staying totally away from guys on this board! But I think we agree that a lot are just after poon.

Oct 7, 2005 | 10:11 AM

#43

Loopa

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Couldn't it be that the guy you had a crush on was just not ready to start a more serious relationship? Maybe he did/does like you he just isn't ready. Or maybe that is just girly thinking.....

Oct 7, 2005 | 12:26 PM

#44

spidey07

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Originally Posted by youngTL

I'm sure Caliadria would disagree from staying totally away from guys on this board! But I think we agree that a lot are just after poon.

Nah. I just want to be "friends"

You know. The loser who plays the "friend" route for a few years until he finally gets the balls to do something about it. Then when turned down whines about it. Then I'm sure I can convince her to love me. I mean I kiss her butt so much and am so nice that she has to love me. I'm sure she really respects me too!

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Oct 7, 2005 | 01:05 PM

#45

JJ4Short

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Meh I have female friends, would I fuck them? Most Likely, well except a few, they are hot but they are nuts and I dont want to deal with no nuts chick.

As for the getting pissed that she is leading you on? Grow a pair of nuts man. I flirt with my female friends and if I were to ask one out or if she was flirting hard and then I asked her out and she said no then whatever

Big fucking deal. Any guy who gets pissed that they are being led on needs to grow up.

BTW Chicks know a lot more then they admit to knowing. They know their male friends want to fuck.

Oct 9, 2005 | 09:31 PM

#46

Chopsie

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So Tony finally snagged ya eh ?

Oct 10, 2005 | 02:10 AM

#47

CL FWD SPEED

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move on....its the best way to avoid drama.....you've been there and done that with him and knowing the whole truth of him.....time will eventually heal......I'm sure you'll find somebody better than the dude your with....keep ya head up girl