So there is this girl, shes friends with one of my friends, and we've hung out once. I am going to see her Friday, any tips on making sure I end up with the good f-word?

 

the good f-word? you mean fuck? you want to get into her pants?

 

Well, that's the long and short of it, yes, I just don't want to end up her friend...she's a really cool girl and everything...seems down to earth, but telling girls this, and that I like them does not work...so I need to make her want me...you know? Sex is the ultimate goal with her, but I actually like her too...I just have to make her like me

 

you whore!

 

You're right...I am just a slut at heart... :P

 

hehe a handsome guy like you can get into anyone's pants..that is you in your avatar right

 

My best advice: go in there with the mindset that you WILL succeed. The guys who turn into friends are the guys who are kinda nervous, or TOO nice (I'm not saying to be an asshole, but don't be a doormat either). If you act from the beginning like you KNOW you're going to hit it, then you probably will.

 

be forward with what you want.

 

Go gettem tiger...

Be yourself, you'll be fine dude.

 

whatever bro.. to ask thi squestion and say what you said.. you are NO WHORE anywhere.. not at heart, not in mind.... some people can whore it up... but WHORES dont think... you think... sorry... you will hang with this girl and think of what you are doing right, what you are doing wrong and what she is thinking and you will be reading into signs... YOU ARE TOO ANALYTICAL!!! I can see in in you by your simply 1 sentence!!!! YOU WILL NOT GET LAID!!!

I dont mean to sound like an ass.. but I am tellling you how it woill be!!!!
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Bring her flowers and she'll know you don't want to just be a friend. If she acts uncomfortable around you, go back to the friend mode, but if she likes the flowers, start making your move.

 

No...he's way better looking than I am.

Thanks for the advice guys....Casper, I was getting at how to AVOID this type of thing...I know what my problem is...I already said that, I just need to figure out how to not have that problem anymore.

 

This is the best approach... otherwise, you are just a friend.

 

sorry I didnt get that... honrestly there is no way.. its who you are... be happy with that and work with what you got!!! My bro is like you.. I am complete opposite... he can try as much as he like sbut it doesnt worki for him.. the more you try NOT to be you.. the more foolish youwill look... be comfortable in your shoes!!!

 

That's actually a really good idea...

 

I'm sending you flowers right now.

 

Boy, it would be REALLY NICE to get flowers every once in a while. What is it about guys, once you're established, you don't think flowers are necessary? Like flowers are only part of the wooing phase, and once a girl's "caught" she suddenly doesn't like them?

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holy shit are you kidding me right now???? if i calculated the amount of money i've spent on flowers for my 7+ year relationship to the ex to the present day, i swear i could afford a ton of mods on my car...i buy flowers for my friends who are girls too just b/c

just bought flowers for my friend who's sick as a cheer-up...next day, bought her peach roses b/c she celebrates Chinese New Year

it's too bad girls don't appreciate nice gestures much anymore b/c they're so spoiled and used to getting stuff like flowers, jewelry, etc.


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I would totally appreciate flowers if I ever GOT them. Jewelry, too. I never get any of that stuff.

I got a t-shirt for Christmas. I guess he feels that he doesn't need to try anymore?

 

A T-shirt! I hope it was an A-CL shirt. Wow...I would never dream of getting an established girlfriend flower for Christmas, without something else added to them, but a t-shirt...kiss his ass goodbye...I have not been able to keep a girl around through any of the major holidays (part of why I don't like them so much) but I think that I would probably do more than this guy...

I may have to get her flowers, now the only way I have to do this is to get her address and send them, or do it in front of all her friends, which one would be preferred?

 

I used to get very nervous around the ladies, but then I got past that, just kept telling myself that they are one of the guys, I started doing much better with them (though not as well as I would like, just yet) the problem with me....is that I can't act like I don't want it if I do want it...and for some reason most women want to see that you don't want it to want to give it to you...

 

Yeah, we've been together for 2.5 years. It wasn't "kiss his ass goodbye" worthy, but it was annoying. Oh, well.

On a brighter note... Post #100!

 

listen for every ass there is a chair.. if a woman doesnt want you for you (whether you come off as ahorny lil bastard or not) then why bother with her.. there will bea woman that will apprciate you "wanting her"...

 

fawkin post whore!!!!

 

Ever play musical chairs? :sqnteek:

 

haha I hate when they fall into that "we've been together a while, I already have her, I can just sit on my lazy ass and cut this romance BS" hehe. Maybe it gradually slows down with time, but not to the point where the relationship becomes routine and the only thing discussed is how you should move because you're blocking the tv

 

ive been with my guy for 3.5 years. last year i got the engagement ring for xmas.. this year i got the cd-r/dvd drive for my computer

 

hahaha

 

absolutey!!!! but only one chair fits the curves of your ass JUST right!!! MOLDED JUST FOR YOU!

 

Be flirty, don't listen to her problems, stay aloof.

Also, ask her out sometime soon.