I was in a similar situation a few months ago when my best friend broke up with his g/f after he had been cheating on her for a while... (and he was totally busted) she called me and wanted to talk and get 'confirmation' that she was right and i refused to talk to her and told her that she should deal with him directly. I'm no middle man #1, and #2 noone knows what did/didn't happen other than the two (or more ) people involved so why talk shit?? unless you were physically in the room you dont' really know if he actually cheated or not...

 

Maybe he wants him not her?

 

I don't give a fuck if he lit the candles for them (his boy and his ex), so they could fuck all night...you don't go snitch on your man with his old lady! That is some foul shit no matter how you spin it! Why was she at his house anyway without HIM?? They fucking, that's why! It was probably just like that movie Casino where the guy puts Sharon Stone's face in his lap to give him a blow job as she complains about Robert DeNiro! Hahahahahahaha!

I mean, seriously, who gives a fuck if their boy is cheating on their wife or girl, so much that they go snitch on them? Only someone with an ulterior motive would do that...

 

Stay out of people relationsships, i got burned by a so called "best friends" after telling him mind your own business don't talk to her etc. he swore blah blah i find out he's going behind my back still trying to pull shit.....


I say the OP is fawking around with her, and could care less about his "boy"

 

or maybe his primary motivation was o fuck that chick. because that question has been asked a few times and still hasnt been answered. why was she there since she aint the primary friend. and does she have super hearing or what. i call bullshit on the OP.

 

There is no primary/secondary friend here. They are both very close friends. Just because I have known one longer than the other doesn't mean I have to have more respect or allegiance to that one. I'm not sure why people play a ranking game with their friends, it's ridiculous.

And I haven't answered the question because its ridiculous. It amazes me to find people are so incompetent to not understand that two people can have a friendship without an agenda.

My desk is next to the door, it isn't much of a problem for anybody walking by to hear my conversations. I always use speaker.