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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 04:49 AM
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Finding myself not wanting...

my life the way it is... Im lonely now... I thought I could go out and "HO" around but I have no desires to do that... I WANT A GF!!! and it has become really hard to find one thats worth having!!! Girls in NY are difficult and finding a GF here is tough...
What do I do?! More times then none, sitting home or out with the boys, all i think about is having someone to love and be with... someone i know will be with me and that can give me back the "feeling" i had...

It seems that all the "good" girls or girls i could be interested in are sooo far away from NY... I think I am need of a change of scenery and get the fawk outta here!!!
sorry... I guess I am just down on myself... just venting I guess...
Kinda makes me look pathetic, but oh well!
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 06:00 AM
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So you live in Westchester too huh? No wonder, all the girls from around here act like their shit don't stink. My advice is to hit up places in CT, girls are much more approachable there.
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 06:14 AM
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but in the tri-state they are all the same!!! (as to my experience)
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 06:23 AM
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Originally posted by Casper98CL
but in the tri-state they are all the same!!! (as to my experience)
Where do you try to meet these girls? Maybe that is the problem.
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 06:32 AM
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Originally posted by Casper98CL
but in the tri-state they are all the same!!! (as to my experience)
For me, it seems CT girls are nicer than the ones in NY, at least to the places I go to.
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 07:51 AM
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granted CT girls are nicer... but the all have the same issues!!! Maybe its everyone... maybe its just this area.. I have met women out of the TriState (northeast) area and they are unbelievable... nothing like thse girls!!!!

Fusion... I have met women everywhere: Clubs, bars, Cafes, Theaters, Street, Pool halls, school, through friends... all the same shit!!!

Maybe its me!?!?!?!
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 08:01 AM
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Originally posted by Casper98CL
granted CT girls are nicer... but the all have the same issues!!! Maybe its everyone... maybe its just this area.. I have met women out of the TriState (northeast) area and they are unbelievable... nothing like thse girls!!!!

Fusion... I have met women everywhere: Clubs, bars, Cafes, Theaters, Street, Pool halls, school, through friends... all the same shit!!!

Maybe its me!?!?!?!
westchester girls = high maintenance
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 08:44 AM
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Originally posted by Casper98CL
granted CT girls are nicer... but the all have the same issues!!! Maybe its everyone... maybe its just this area.. I have met women out of the TriState (northeast) area and they are unbelievable... nothing like thse girls!!!!

Fusion... I have met women everywhere: Clubs, bars, Cafes, Theaters, Street, Pool halls, school, through friends... all the same shit!!!

Maybe its me!?!?!?!
Maybe they too pretty, hahahaha very pretty = high maintenance. It not a pretty road and I don't suggesting going down there, I would never myself hahaha. Hmm maybe you should look into colleges where there is a large number of out of state girls. I just can't imagine all you meeting are just bitches in the Tri-state area.
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 11:26 AM
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wanna move to FL?
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 12:23 PM
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wanna move to FL?
Actually... It may be an option soon... seriously!
I always wanted to live in FL!!!
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 12:37 PM
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Originally posted by Casper98CL
Actually... It may be an option soon... seriously!
I always wanted to live in FL!!!
Nice warm weather and Plus katie is there.
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 02:30 PM
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Originally posted by fusionnv
Nice warm weather and Plus katie is there.
Atleast Ill have a good friend to chill with... right Katie?!??!
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 05:13 PM
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Originally posted by Casper98CL
...to chill with...
Yeah, right.
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 05:46 PM
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 07:17 PM
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Bring a friend!!!! "How you doin?!"
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 07:50 PM
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Originally posted by Casper98CL
Atleast Ill have a good friend to chill with... right Katie?!??!
yeah..."chill with" thats right Gianni

sure come on down. the weather is wonderful!!!!!
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 07:50 PM
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hehe I smell a hook up ! Go girl! Damn I wish some CL guy would move to HI to save me lol
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 07:51 PM
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Originally posted by GeishaGirl
hehe I smell a hook up ! Go girl! Damn I wish some CL guy would move to HI to save me lol
oh he's my boy...we go WAY back, like march of this year...sniffle, my 1st PM i think....awe..so cute
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 07:55 PM
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hehe firsts are always nice
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 09:01 PM
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just go a couple miles away... go to one of the upstate college towns... or over to connecticut.

shit come up to albany.
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 09:15 PM
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Originally posted by Katies99CL
oh he's my boy...we go WAY back, like march of this year...sniffle, my 1st PM i think....awe..so cute
aww... I was your first!?!?!?!

there will always be something special there Katie =)~

and shit... if there were a hook up there... i wouldnt be complaining!!!
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Old Nov 15, 2003 | 05:14 AM
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Originally posted by Casper98CL
Actually... It may be an option soon... seriously!
I always wanted to live in FL!!!
i'll move back to FL if u do!! i miss it there sooo bad. if i could afford it, i seriously think that's the first place i'd wanna go.
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Old Nov 15, 2003 | 05:19 AM
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Originally posted by soopa
...come up to albany...
Who in his right mind would willingly GO to Albany? :sqnteek: :P
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Old Nov 15, 2003 | 05:42 AM
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Hey Casper,

Just to let you know, you are not the only one in that situation. I feel exactly everything you said.

Florida is awesome, but the one thing keeping me here in NY is my job. No way, I'm gonna find something that pays me as much down in FL.
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Old Nov 15, 2003 | 06:01 AM
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yeah but the cost of living isnt as bad as in NY either.

Jebus, the prices up there were INSANE.
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Old Nov 15, 2003 | 06:52 AM
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HEY SARA... are we going?! lol

Silvia and CLDriver you are both 100% correct... good thing for me is That I am a Marketer, more specifically a graphic designer... I can not only hold my NY clients, but the rates for graphic artists is consist nationwide premiraly... so If i mkae $80k here in NY I will make the same there...

What are the great parts of FL?!?!?! I may have a place to live out there 20 mins outside of Orlando!!!! Let me know...
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Old Nov 15, 2003 | 07:19 AM
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casper, its just a drought, you'll get over it.

every guy goes through this, its not at all wierd. I've been having a lot of trouble finding a girl that i like. I'm extremly particular, so much that is worth a new thread for.

But anyway, don't worry. the way things are, you'll probably have 5 different numbers to call soon and will be deciding which one to choose.


ideally........
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Old Nov 15, 2003 | 08:52 AM
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Originally posted by Casper98CL
What are the great parts of FL?!?!?! I may have a place to live out there 20 mins outside of Orlando!!!! Let me know...
hey i'm down if u are i lived in st. pete before, right on the beach... *sigh*

it's just complete torture when my friends down there are like "oh yea i was at the beach all day today" and it's freakin snowing here in PA!! god help me
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Old Nov 15, 2003 | 10:30 AM
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Old Nov 15, 2003 | 03:46 PM
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Originally posted by mesmerize
hey i'm down if u are i lived in st. pete before, right on the beach... *sigh*

it's just complete torture when my friends down there are like "oh yea i was at the beach all day today" and it's freakin snowing here in PA!! god help me
oh yea... all we need now is a place to stay to get situated... rent free until we get JOBS and $$$... at least in Orlando suburbs, I have a place to stay for free! We will see... I am looking to go to FL in JUNE/JULY seriously... if things do not pick up for me personally and professionally!!!
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Old Nov 15, 2003 | 04:58 PM
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Hey im' 20 minutes outside of Orlando, i need a roomate, any takers??
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Old Nov 15, 2003 | 10:05 PM
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Originally posted by Casper98CL
aww... I was your first!?!?!?!

there will always be something special there Katie =)~

and shit... if there were a hook up there... i wouldnt be complaining!!!
well shoot, if you ever want to fly down to check places out, just let me know. I will be more than happy to be your escort for the time you're down here, drive you around, set us up in a hotel....errr...i mean set YOU up in a hotel room :P, hahhahahaha, it was a friendly offer, for my 1st

Orlando is cool, i have been there a few times to meet up w/ the CL guys and i had alot of fun. I think i'd move there if i could afford to, plus it's prolly got alot more business opportunities. Miami is too commerical for me, kinda like an east coast LA, seems like that shit would get old REALLY fast.

of course i hope things pick up for you there in NY, but hey, we always got room in FL !!!!
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Old Nov 16, 2003 | 09:10 AM
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katie.... ehhh... Im there already!!
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Old Nov 17, 2003 | 05:24 AM
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Originally posted by Katies99CL
well shoot, if you ever want to fly down to check places out, just let me know. I will be more than happy to be your escort for the time you're down here, drive you around, set us up in a hotel....errr...i mean set YOU up in a hotel room :P, hahhahahaha, it was a friendly offer, for my 1st

Orlando is cool, i have been there a few times to meet up w/ the CL guys and i had alot of fun. I think i'd move there if i could afford to, plus it's prolly got alot more business opportunities. Miami is too commerical for me, kinda like an east coast LA, seems like that shit would get old REALLY fast.

of course i hope things pick up for you there in NY, but hey, we always got room in FL !!!!
I just found out the name of where I may initially move to until I get situated...

Players Point Ridge... APOPKA, FL
On Players Ave...


LMAO.... I LOVE THE NAME SO I MAY TRY AND LIVE THERE PERMENANTLY!!!
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Old Nov 18, 2003 | 02:06 PM
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Originally posted by Casper98CL
I just found out the name of where I may initially move to until I get situated...

Players Point Ridge... APOPKA, FL
On Players Ave...


LMAO.... I LOVE THE NAME SO I MAY TRY AND LIVE THERE PERMENANTLY!!!
playa playa!! well hmm i will have to do a search, find out how far from jax we are talking here later babe........
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Old Nov 18, 2003 | 03:20 PM
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damn casper, apopka is like 15 min from me, its just a lil bit northwest of orlando
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Old Nov 18, 2003 | 08:14 PM
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back on topic:

i was the same way... weird tho... when i dont have a girlfriend, i want a gf and have no drive to ho myself around. when i have a girlfriend, all i wanna do is ho myself around.... like i'm not allowed, so i do it anyway....
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 04:43 AM
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ohh man, not anouther Yankee implant here in Fla, j/k, Fla nice, hot chicks, some bitchy but some nice, but thats like most places, Id try to hook u up but I cant even hook myself up, not to popular with the ladies
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 04:52 AM
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lol.... yea you FL guys and gals will have to help a brother out when I get there... Hope a hardcore Italian fr9om NY fits in OK!!!

although there is now a slight chance that a change in jobs might send me to Virginia for alil while and then a move to Washington!!! FLORIDA seems so much nicer, but this may be an opportunity i CANNOT pass up!!!!
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