just to clear it up. i did NOT have sex. so that is that

mods can now delete this thread as that guy went off completely on me and i dont appreciate it. i simply made a thread about something simple and he responded with a lecture left and right that i don't want to hear. let me live my life. damn

 

OK, MR. RIGHT. You don't need to fix him. If he's happy, what matters to you? Is he doing anything wrong? No. Is he seeking any advice? No.

 

Sig, give us an update when you catch her cheating on you.

 

To tell you the truth, out of all of the guys who usually post here, it is the ones who claim they are always in charge, the man of the town, or who otherwise flaunt every escapade with all the women they've ever met, who are, in real life, probably the weakest, most insecure, and miserable. There are three people who come to mind... The OP is not one of them.

Your macho, controlling "front" just screams of insecurity, anxiety, low self-esteem, and being afraid of getting close to someone decent, who is interested in more than being your maid or a one night stand. You are the one truly missing out.

I don't know who hurt your feelings so bad or who led you down a path of women = misery... But I wish you much happiness.

 

 

i'm done with replying to this thread. i'll keep my personal life to myself and i just won't even bother checking this section! i will continue to post, just not in this section! mods can delete and/or lock this thread!

/end

 

As per OP's request.

 

Sig86....

Amisconception had a response to my previous post, so once he has the chance to get that off his chest (to be fair), I will close it as per your request.

 

Umm, you agree with amisconception and then you argue against him?

 

I totally agree with you here and while i didn't want to respond to this thread i just had to. Sig, do your thing and don't let anyone here tell you otherwise. I am sure you are smart enough to figure stuff out for yourself. Don't let someone with one bad experience spoil it for you. If you are into older woman then go for them!

Amis, why so serious?

 

lol @ op's myspace picture.

 

Well, I'm none of those things you mentioned. However I find your attack full of shameful rhetoric that does nothing to rebut any of the specific problems with the OP's mindset. You simply accept what he says. I however have an opinion.

You can't attack me on any of those aforementioned fronts either because 1.) I don't claim to always be in charge 2.) I don't claim to be the "man of the town" and 3.) I don't brag about women I've slept with or am currently sleeping with.

Like I said, shameful rhetoric. It's male-bashing 101. You don't know where I'm coming from because you make no attempts to understand my beliefs on positive masculinity and why exactly they are so important.

The OP is weak and prime for manipulation. Here is a list of reasons why:

The OP has a defeatist attitude,
is incapable of leading a woman,
doesn't have much of a life outside of this girl,
does things he doesn't want to do (then justifies them),
is clingy,
is scared of his sexuality,
incapable of recognizing red flags,
has idealistic and impractical romantic notions,
spineless,
compromises his standards,
overly compliant,
lives his life apologetically,
approaches women with a scarcity mentality,
is immature,
and has a fragile ego.

You can argue back and forth with me about this list, but the fact of the matter is that he's inexperienced with women and too weak to even protect himself from a manipulative and damaging bitch. (Yes I used the dreaded B-word).

You sit here and post as if supposing that some women are potentially toxic, manipulative, and selfish, is blasphemy. Like it never happens. Like women are faultless angels sent down from above to rescue men from their miserable existences. Like the woman the OP is referring to is not one of them. Like the fact that women are truly not as unique or unknowable as popular culture would have you believe.

I know you fear masculinity. Maybe it's penis-envy? I'm not sure, you should talk to a psychologist about it because you're projecting your bad experiences here. I mean I know you feel a certain bit of Girl-Power when you use shameful, castrating rhetoric like that, but it doesn't work on me. It never will.

You wish me much happiness? lol. Whatever. I'm happy as a peach without your wishes. Pardon me for not taking you seriously on this.

I attack guys like him because I'm morally obligated to bitch-slap girly boys and help turn them into men. Whether they like it or not.

This "I don't know who hurt your feelings so bad" or "led you down the path of woman = misery" is more shaming garbage you have no evidence to back up. Every man who has dated more than one girl in his life has been hurt by a woman. That's the norm. And I've never said that women are the path to misery. I love women. I just don't think that having a vagina automatically qualifies them to be innocent and perfect angels.

You can close the thread now. I'm satisfied. When I originally your post I posted a much more passionate reply but because the thread was closed I was unable to post it. I don't really care anymore because Sig is on a suicide mission and I'm not here to save morons who don't even want, nor care, to be helped. But thanks anyway for opening the thread back up for lil ole me.

 

Running away scared?

Do you still sleep with a night light?

 

congrats man.

 

go fuck yourself amis

i see you are the definition of an e-thug and you get off on thinking you are mr tough guy on a forum, hence the 12,000+ posts. get a life douchebag

 

Can't you see the quote??? One agreeing is his original opinions to the OP. The second is his comment to the guy who had 41 yr old ex you dumb dumb