finally met someone!
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finally met someone!
i know most of you dont know me, who i am, etc. etc. but since none of the other forums i am on have this section i thought i'd post on here just because i am very happy that i met this girl...oddly enough i met her through myspace. we chatted on there for a bit...then started texting...then called and talked a few times and she wanted to get together to get a drink...when she first said that, that kinda bothered me b/c i'm not a big clubbing type of guy..i'll go to a bar w/ friends to chill but thats it. and meeting her at that type of place makes me think if i go to meet her and she doesnt like then its easy for her to ditch me and find another guy lol. i met her this past saturday night at Carolina Alehouse down here in south fl. i use to live around her area and this place was new. we had dinner then went outside to finish our drinks. talked some more and went home. the next night we went to another new place in that area called Bar Louie...this place was nice as hell! flatscreens EVERYWHERE and all different types of seating...full bar, etc....
here's the interesting part...we go out to her car that night and she sits inside so i thought she was leaving...but then i walk around to check out the inside of her car (08 accord coupe NHBP 4cyl, pretty funny that we both have black on black accords)...so i talk to her some more and finally shes like "well i keep yawning so i'm gonna go home to sleep" so i hugged her (i kinda wanted to kiss her but sometimes i get nervous around girls i am starting to like)...i stand outside her car to say bye, look at her again and she says "come here"...i get back in and i go to hug her again and she starts kissing me....about the best kiss(es) i have ever had. soft lips, slow kisses (no crazy making out or tongue, etc)...and after she goes "so i bet your REAL nervous now" i was like "no not NOW" lol.....so we talk some more and then we both agree to go home, i lean in to kiss her and she pauses and is like "ahh now i see you really aren't, now you DO want to kiss me!" i'm like "heck yes!"...we hang out the next night and go to the same bar b/c it was really nice. they had 5 for 5 bucket specials and we also sat outside (she smokes but for some reason hers doesnt really bother me)...then this time when we walked to the parking lot she said "lets sit in your car tonight" so we did....earlier in the night i was telling her about my friend thats a cop that works a little south of her so she goes "hey is your friend working?" i said yeah ill text him...he wrote back so she wasnt tired so she said "oo lets go see him i wanna meet him" (he's my best friend so i wanted him to meet her sooner or later)...we meet up, he's bored as shit as usual, not doin anything (he works in a small town)...talk for a little bit then leave..bring her back to her car then go home
we were both off today and i said i'd like to see her today if possible b/c it probably would be a little bit before we could hang out again as my coworker goes on vacation (moving) and i am most likely gonna be workin 10 days in a row so ill be tired as shit. she said shed be hangin w/ her mom during the day and maybe around 7-8 i could come over.
i got nervous b/c she told me the 2nd night that she normally doesnt have guys over she meets until at least 3 weeks or so til she knows them better. she said she really likes me, as i like her too. so i go over and we have a few beers, make out, the usual nothing crazy. when i was about to leave she said she was really nervous and had a weird feeling in her stomach. i asked why and she said she didnt know. i felt a little weird b/c i didnt know what she meant. then she said "well i didnt think you'd be the type of guy that wants a relationship and that u just want sex so i thought i would just make u happy and then thats it" i said no no no i want more than that and she said "i think thats why i have this feeling b/c i really wanna date you"...i had the biggest smile on my face and said i want to date her too....
i joked w/ her before i left sayin "so does this mean i can change my relationship status on myspace--are you my girlfriend?" she says "we'll talk about that" ...i'm not EXACTLY sure what she means about that but i really do like her and want something meaningful and long-relationship w/ her.
not that it matters to me or her but i just turned 24, she is 31. she said she usually goes for older guys but on our convo on the phone on my way home she said she likes me so much b/c i am very mature, very nice & sweet to her and i make her feel so good when she talks to me..that just puts the biggest smile on my face knowing that!
well that is what i had to get off my chest b/c i feel really good right now
any comments are welcome. please keep the negatives to yourself as i do tend to get sensitive sometimes..
www.myspace.com/signal63 if you want to friend me and/or see who i am!
goodnight
here's the interesting part...we go out to her car that night and she sits inside so i thought she was leaving...but then i walk around to check out the inside of her car (08 accord coupe NHBP 4cyl, pretty funny that we both have black on black accords)...so i talk to her some more and finally shes like "well i keep yawning so i'm gonna go home to sleep" so i hugged her (i kinda wanted to kiss her but sometimes i get nervous around girls i am starting to like)...i stand outside her car to say bye, look at her again and she says "come here"...i get back in and i go to hug her again and she starts kissing me....about the best kiss(es) i have ever had. soft lips, slow kisses (no crazy making out or tongue, etc)...and after she goes "so i bet your REAL nervous now" i was like "no not NOW" lol.....so we talk some more and then we both agree to go home, i lean in to kiss her and she pauses and is like "ahh now i see you really aren't, now you DO want to kiss me!" i'm like "heck yes!"...we hang out the next night and go to the same bar b/c it was really nice. they had 5 for 5 bucket specials and we also sat outside (she smokes but for some reason hers doesnt really bother me)...then this time when we walked to the parking lot she said "lets sit in your car tonight" so we did....earlier in the night i was telling her about my friend thats a cop that works a little south of her so she goes "hey is your friend working?" i said yeah ill text him...he wrote back so she wasnt tired so she said "oo lets go see him i wanna meet him" (he's my best friend so i wanted him to meet her sooner or later)...we meet up, he's bored as shit as usual, not doin anything (he works in a small town)...talk for a little bit then leave..bring her back to her car then go home
we were both off today and i said i'd like to see her today if possible b/c it probably would be a little bit before we could hang out again as my coworker goes on vacation (moving) and i am most likely gonna be workin 10 days in a row so ill be tired as shit. she said shed be hangin w/ her mom during the day and maybe around 7-8 i could come over.
i got nervous b/c she told me the 2nd night that she normally doesnt have guys over she meets until at least 3 weeks or so til she knows them better. she said she really likes me, as i like her too. so i go over and we have a few beers, make out, the usual nothing crazy. when i was about to leave she said she was really nervous and had a weird feeling in her stomach. i asked why and she said she didnt know. i felt a little weird b/c i didnt know what she meant. then she said "well i didnt think you'd be the type of guy that wants a relationship and that u just want sex so i thought i would just make u happy and then thats it" i said no no no i want more than that and she said "i think thats why i have this feeling b/c i really wanna date you"...i had the biggest smile on my face and said i want to date her too....
i joked w/ her before i left sayin "so does this mean i can change my relationship status on myspace--are you my girlfriend?" she says "we'll talk about that" ...i'm not EXACTLY sure what she means about that but i really do like her and want something meaningful and long-relationship w/ her.
not that it matters to me or her but i just turned 24, she is 31. she said she usually goes for older guys but on our convo on the phone on my way home she said she likes me so much b/c i am very mature, very nice & sweet to her and i make her feel so good when she talks to me..that just puts the biggest smile on my face knowing that!
well that is what i had to get off my chest b/c i feel really good right now
any comments are welcome. please keep the negatives to yourself as i do tend to get sensitive sometimes..
www.myspace.com/signal63 if you want to friend me and/or see who i am!
goodnight
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Three Wheelin'
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It really is a great feeling. I kind of am wiery sometimes during the week, cause I pretty much only get to see my "friend" on the weekends, and monday and yesterday, her cell has been off (needs to pay her bill) so we've only been communicating through email ONLY, and thats very little. But on the weekends, when we're together, and things are right...wow....
Congrats man I hope things go well
Cool dude. Older women are the best. My wife is a couple years older than I am. They are usually a bit less dramatic. They know what they want.
So, I wish you luck.
And WTF....Other forums.
So, I wish you luck.
And WTF....Other forums.
werd
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Well, I hate to burst your happy-bubble, but you're prime for being manipulated. And the worst part is that I think she knows it. I'll elaborate...
The emotional state that you're in is absolutely telling of your inexperience with women. You haven't even had sex with her and you're talking about making her your girlfriend? You barely know this woman and you're considering a long-term relationship? Do you see what you're doing here? You're fabricating an idealized relationship from a couple of kisses and some sweet words.
She's older than you and is absolutely more experienced than you.
That line about her thinking that you only wanted sex was an absolute lie. Sorry brother, but it is. You are the anti-man-whore. Let me ask you this, how many casual sexual partners have you had in your life? Zero?
When you brought up the MySpace relationship-status change, and she said "we'll talk about it" - that means she's not ready to claim you as her boyfriend. There's a reason for that. She very likely has other guys she's playing the field with.
She's 31. Women at that age tend to want to settle down with guys who are capable of providing for them. Who better to satisfy her agenda than a guy who is incredibly "nice" to her?
Do you see how she's the one making all the major moves? She kissed you first. She brought you into her. She chased you.
And why don't you want to hear anything "negative" because of your sensitivities? Be a man! Don't act like a pussified little boy. Your feelings might get hurt? Are you serious?
I'll wait for your reply to see more of where you are in your head...
The emotional state that you're in is absolutely telling of your inexperience with women. You haven't even had sex with her and you're talking about making her your girlfriend? You barely know this woman and you're considering a long-term relationship? Do you see what you're doing here? You're fabricating an idealized relationship from a couple of kisses and some sweet words.
She's older than you and is absolutely more experienced than you.
That line about her thinking that you only wanted sex was an absolute lie. Sorry brother, but it is. You are the anti-man-whore. Let me ask you this, how many casual sexual partners have you had in your life? Zero?
When you brought up the MySpace relationship-status change, and she said "we'll talk about it" - that means she's not ready to claim you as her boyfriend. There's a reason for that. She very likely has other guys she's playing the field with.
She's 31. Women at that age tend to want to settle down with guys who are capable of providing for them. Who better to satisfy her agenda than a guy who is incredibly "nice" to her?
Do you see how she's the one making all the major moves? She kissed you first. She brought you into her. She chased you.
And why don't you want to hear anything "negative" because of your sensitivities? Be a man! Don't act like a pussified little boy. Your feelings might get hurt? Are you serious?
I'll wait for your reply to see more of where you are in your head...
werd
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You think just because you fucked you're absolved of your pussy behavior?
Where's your dad? Did your mom strangle him with obnoxious feminist behavior to the point that he left you and her? Did your mom raise you to be a little supplicating boy-bitch intent on never having control over his life in regard to women?
This girl's biological clock is ticking and she's intent on finding someone to provide her with the financial/economic/provisioning security she biologically desires. She's hedging her bets with you!
Her having sex with you and divulging how she "feels" after two weeks is of "real" dating is her way of sealing the deal on your commitment to her and her security goals. You're being USED.
You were too much of a pussy to even go for a kiss (you even made her YAWN from boredom) - she doesn't know you outside of a few MySpace messages and a couple of dates. Well, save for the fact that you're a pussy.
It's sad that you're so desperate for pussy that you're willing to do anything for it.
I wonder how long it'll be before you stop using condems and get her pregnant.
Let me ask you this, what do you do? What's your career/job/etc.?
Suzuka Master
Joined: Aug 2003
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From: MD
Amis normally I agree with you but I don't know about now. Why would a 31 yr old woman look to a 24 yr old guy for financial/economic support? If that's all she wanted I think she could do a bit better. Maybe she actually likes him 
That said, I don't think you're totally off base because OP seems a bit inexperienced to say the least.
That said, I don't think you're totally off base because OP seems a bit inexperienced to say the least.
werd
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Maybe this analysis will help put things in perspective:
Finally met someone DESPERATE LIKE ME!
i know most of you dont know me, who i am, etc. etc. but since none of the other forums i am on have this section i thought i'd post on here just because i am very happy that i met this girl...oddly enough i met her through myspace BECAUSE I AM ALWAYS AT MY COMPUTER. we chatted on there for a bit...then started texting...then called and talked a few times and she wanted to get together to get a drink...when she first said that, that kinda bothered me b/c i'm not a big clubbing type of guy..i'll go to a bar w/ friends to chill but thats it. and meeting her at that type of place makes me think if i go to meet her and she doesnt like then its easy for her to ditch me and find another guy lol BECAUSE I HAVE VERY LOW CONFIDENCE AND THIS ALWAYS HAPPENS TO ME. i met her this past saturday night at Carolina Alehouse down here in south fl. i use to live around her area and this place was new. we had dinner then went outside to finish our drinks. talked some more and went home. the next night we went to another new place in that area called Bar Louie...this place was nice as hell! flatscreens EVERYWHERE and all different types of seating...full bar, etc....
here's the interesting part...we go out to her car that night and she sits inside so i thought she was leaving...but then i walk around to check out the inside of her car (08 accord coupe NHBP 4cyl, pretty funny that we both have black on black accords, MUST BE FATE)...so i talk to her some more and finally shes like "well i keep yawning BECAUSE YOU'RE BORING ME so i'm gonna go home to sleep" so i hugged her (i kinda wanted to kiss her but sometimes i get nervous around girls i am starting to like AND I AM A HUGE CHUMP)...i stand outside her car to say bye, look at her again and she says "come here YOU OBVIOUSLY DON'T KNOW A HORNY GIRL WHEN YOU SEE ONE"...i get back in and i go to hug her again (HUGS ARE MY TRADEMARK) and she starts kissing me....about the best kiss(es) i have ever had AND THE ONLY ONES IN THE LAST FIVE YEARS. soft lips, slow kisses (no crazy making out or tongue, etc...GROSS!)...and after she goes "so i bet your REAL nervous now" i was like "no not NOW" lol.....so we talk some more and then we both agree to go TO OUR RESPECTIVE home, i lean in to kiss her and she pauses and is like "ahh now i see you really aren't, now you DO want to kiss me! I HAVE YOU RIGHT WHERE I WANT YOU." i'm like "heck yes!"...we hang out the next night and go to the same bar b/c it was really nice. they had 5 for 5 bucket specials and we also sat outside (she smokes but for some reason hers doesnt really bother me BECAUSE I'LL PUT UP WITH ANYTHING TO GET SOME ACTION RIGHT NOW)...then this time when we walked to the parking lot she said "lets sit in your car tonight" so we did....earlier in the night i was telling her about my friend thats a cop that works a little south of her so she goes "hey is your friend working?" i said yeah ill text him...he wrote back so she wasnt tired so she said "oo lets go see him i wanna meet him, BECAUSE COPS ARE HOT AND I BET HE'S NOT A WUSS LIKE YOU" (he's my best friend so i wanted him to meet her sooner or later FOR APPROVAL)...we meet up, he's bored as fuck as usual, not doin anything (he works in a small town)...talk for a little bit then leave..bring her back to her car then go home
we were both off today and i said i'd like to see her today if possible b/c it probably would be a little bit before we could hang out again as my coworker goes on vacation (moving) and i am most likely gonna be workin 10 days in a row so ill be tired as fuck. she said shed be hangin w/ her mom (ACTUALLY MY COP BUDDY) during the day and maybe around 7-8 i could come over.
i got nervous b/c she told me the 2nd night that she normally doesnt have guys over she meets until at least 3 weeks or so til she knows them better. she said she really likes me, as i like her too. so i go over and we have a few beers, make out, the usual nothing crazy, JUST SOME HUGS. when i was about to leave she said she was really nervous and had a weird feeling in her stomach. i asked why and she said she didnt know, PROBABLY JUST ANNOYED THAT YOU HAVEN'T TRIED TO HAVE SEX WITH ME YET. i felt a little weird b/c i didnt know what she meant. then she said "well i didnt think you'd be the type of LAME guy that wants a relationship WITHOUT KNOWING ME and that u just want sex so i thought i would just make u happy and then thats it" i said no no no i want more than that and she said "i think thats why i have this feeling b/c i really wanna date you (READ: I'M TESTING YOU TO SEE HOW DESPERATE YOU ARE)"...i had the biggest smile on my face and said i want to date her too....BECAUSE AFTER TWO DATES, I'VE MADE UP MY MIND.
i joked (BUT WAS ACTUALLY SERIOUS) w/ her before i left sayin "so does this mean i can change my relationship status on myspace--are you my girlfriend?" she says "we'll talk about that" ...i'm not EXACTLY sure what she means about that (PROBABLY, GROW A PAIR) but i really do like her and want something meaningful and long-relationship w/ her, EVEN IF IT'S JUST A FRIENDSHIP.
not that it matters (IT SHOULD) to me or her but i just turned 24, she is 31. AGAIN, I'LL TAKE ANYTHING RIGHT NOW. she said she usually goes for older guys but on our convo on the phone on my way home she said she likes me so much b/c i am very mature, very nice & sweet to her and i make her feel so good BY COMPLIMENTING HER CONSTANTLY AND HUGGING HER, I'M TOO SCARED TO RISK LOSING HER WITH ANY SEXUAL ADVANCES, AND I DON'T FEEL WORTHY ENOUGH TO KEEP HER AROUND SO I HAVE TO COMPLIMENT HER TO WIN FAVOR WITH HER when she talks to me..that just puts the biggest smile on my face knowing that BECAUSE MY LIFE IS SO EMPTY RIGHT NOW!
well that is what i had to get off my chest b/c i feel really good right now
any comments are welcome. please keep the negatives to yourself as i do tend to get sensitive sometimes..AND I DON'T LIKE TO HEAR THE TRUTH ABOUT WHAT A WUSSBAG I AM.
goodnight
Finally met someone DESPERATE LIKE ME!
i know most of you dont know me, who i am, etc. etc. but since none of the other forums i am on have this section i thought i'd post on here just because i am very happy that i met this girl...oddly enough i met her through myspace BECAUSE I AM ALWAYS AT MY COMPUTER. we chatted on there for a bit...then started texting...then called and talked a few times and she wanted to get together to get a drink...when she first said that, that kinda bothered me b/c i'm not a big clubbing type of guy..i'll go to a bar w/ friends to chill but thats it. and meeting her at that type of place makes me think if i go to meet her and she doesnt like then its easy for her to ditch me and find another guy lol BECAUSE I HAVE VERY LOW CONFIDENCE AND THIS ALWAYS HAPPENS TO ME. i met her this past saturday night at Carolina Alehouse down here in south fl. i use to live around her area and this place was new. we had dinner then went outside to finish our drinks. talked some more and went home. the next night we went to another new place in that area called Bar Louie...this place was nice as hell! flatscreens EVERYWHERE and all different types of seating...full bar, etc....
here's the interesting part...we go out to her car that night and she sits inside so i thought she was leaving...but then i walk around to check out the inside of her car (08 accord coupe NHBP 4cyl, pretty funny that we both have black on black accords, MUST BE FATE)...so i talk to her some more and finally shes like "well i keep yawning BECAUSE YOU'RE BORING ME so i'm gonna go home to sleep" so i hugged her (i kinda wanted to kiss her but sometimes i get nervous around girls i am starting to like AND I AM A HUGE CHUMP)...i stand outside her car to say bye, look at her again and she says "come here YOU OBVIOUSLY DON'T KNOW A HORNY GIRL WHEN YOU SEE ONE"...i get back in and i go to hug her again (HUGS ARE MY TRADEMARK) and she starts kissing me....about the best kiss(es) i have ever had AND THE ONLY ONES IN THE LAST FIVE YEARS. soft lips, slow kisses (no crazy making out or tongue, etc...GROSS!)...and after she goes "so i bet your REAL nervous now" i was like "no not NOW" lol.....so we talk some more and then we both agree to go TO OUR RESPECTIVE home, i lean in to kiss her and she pauses and is like "ahh now i see you really aren't, now you DO want to kiss me! I HAVE YOU RIGHT WHERE I WANT YOU." i'm like "heck yes!"...we hang out the next night and go to the same bar b/c it was really nice. they had 5 for 5 bucket specials and we also sat outside (she smokes but for some reason hers doesnt really bother me BECAUSE I'LL PUT UP WITH ANYTHING TO GET SOME ACTION RIGHT NOW)...then this time when we walked to the parking lot she said "lets sit in your car tonight" so we did....earlier in the night i was telling her about my friend thats a cop that works a little south of her so she goes "hey is your friend working?" i said yeah ill text him...he wrote back so she wasnt tired so she said "oo lets go see him i wanna meet him, BECAUSE COPS ARE HOT AND I BET HE'S NOT A WUSS LIKE YOU" (he's my best friend so i wanted him to meet her sooner or later FOR APPROVAL)...we meet up, he's bored as fuck as usual, not doin anything (he works in a small town)...talk for a little bit then leave..bring her back to her car then go home
we were both off today and i said i'd like to see her today if possible b/c it probably would be a little bit before we could hang out again as my coworker goes on vacation (moving) and i am most likely gonna be workin 10 days in a row so ill be tired as fuck. she said shed be hangin w/ her mom (ACTUALLY MY COP BUDDY) during the day and maybe around 7-8 i could come over.
i got nervous b/c she told me the 2nd night that she normally doesnt have guys over she meets until at least 3 weeks or so til she knows them better. she said she really likes me, as i like her too. so i go over and we have a few beers, make out, the usual nothing crazy, JUST SOME HUGS. when i was about to leave she said she was really nervous and had a weird feeling in her stomach. i asked why and she said she didnt know, PROBABLY JUST ANNOYED THAT YOU HAVEN'T TRIED TO HAVE SEX WITH ME YET. i felt a little weird b/c i didnt know what she meant. then she said "well i didnt think you'd be the type of LAME guy that wants a relationship WITHOUT KNOWING ME and that u just want sex so i thought i would just make u happy and then thats it" i said no no no i want more than that and she said "i think thats why i have this feeling b/c i really wanna date you (READ: I'M TESTING YOU TO SEE HOW DESPERATE YOU ARE)"...i had the biggest smile on my face and said i want to date her too....BECAUSE AFTER TWO DATES, I'VE MADE UP MY MIND.
i joked (BUT WAS ACTUALLY SERIOUS) w/ her before i left sayin "so does this mean i can change my relationship status on myspace--are you my girlfriend?" she says "we'll talk about that" ...i'm not EXACTLY sure what she means about that (PROBABLY, GROW A PAIR) but i really do like her and want something meaningful and long-relationship w/ her, EVEN IF IT'S JUST A FRIENDSHIP.
not that it matters (IT SHOULD) to me or her but i just turned 24, she is 31. AGAIN, I'LL TAKE ANYTHING RIGHT NOW. she said she usually goes for older guys but on our convo on the phone on my way home she said she likes me so much b/c i am very mature, very nice & sweet to her and i make her feel so good BY COMPLIMENTING HER CONSTANTLY AND HUGGING HER, I'M TOO SCARED TO RISK LOSING HER WITH ANY SEXUAL ADVANCES, AND I DON'T FEEL WORTHY ENOUGH TO KEEP HER AROUND SO I HAVE TO COMPLIMENT HER TO WIN FAVOR WITH HER when she talks to me..that just puts the biggest smile on my face knowing that BECAUSE MY LIFE IS SO EMPTY RIGHT NOW!
well that is what i had to get off my chest b/c i feel really good right now
any comments are welcome. please keep the negatives to yourself as i do tend to get sensitive sometimes..AND I DON'T LIKE TO HEAR THE TRUTH ABOUT WHAT A WUSSBAG I AM.
goodnight
werd
Joined: Feb 2002
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I will for you Dom 
I just think he needs to get his butt kicked a bit. It's obvious to me his dad didn't do it. I mean well, even if I do come off as really abrasive.
Sorry about the P-word! But is wuss really that bad?
I just think he needs to get his butt kicked a bit. It's obvious to me his dad didn't do it. I mean well, even if I do come off as really abrasive.
Sorry about the P-word! But is wuss really that bad?
Last edited by amisconception; Sep 17, 2008 at 02:46 PM.
lol at amisconception 
But yeah I have to agree a little. Don't commit yourself till you know her better. 31 single & no kids is usually a sign of someone wanting to settle down. If your not ready for that it's not going to work. Your only 24 remember that.
But yeah I have to agree a little. Don't commit yourself till you know her better. 31 single & no kids is usually a sign of someone wanting to settle down. If your not ready for that it's not going to work. Your only 24 remember that.
GEEZER
Joined: Jan 2003
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From: Dunedin, Fla.
Since you're not going to tell me shit because you're obviously a big wuss I'm going to tear you a new asshole.
You think just because you fucked you're absolved of your pussy behavior?
Where's your dad? Did your mom strangle him with obnoxious feminist behavior to the point that he left you and her? Did your mom raise you to be a little supplicating boy-bitch intent on never having control over his life in regard to women?
This girl's biological clock is ticking and she's intent on finding someone to provide her with the financial/economic/provisioning security she biologically desires. She's hedging her bets with you!
Her having sex with you and divulging how she "feels" after two weeks is of "real" dating is her way of sealing the deal on your commitment to her and her security goals. You're being USED.
You were too much of a pussy to even go for a kiss (you even made her YAWN from boredom) - she doesn't know you outside of a few MySpace messages and a couple of dates. Well, save for the fact that you're a pussy.
It's sad that you're so desperate for pussy that you're willing to do anything for it.
I wonder how long it'll be before you stop using condems and get her pregnant.
Let me ask you this, what do you do? What's your career/job/etc.?
You think just because you fucked you're absolved of your pussy behavior?
Where's your dad? Did your mom strangle him with obnoxious feminist behavior to the point that he left you and her? Did your mom raise you to be a little supplicating boy-bitch intent on never having control over his life in regard to women?
This girl's biological clock is ticking and she's intent on finding someone to provide her with the financial/economic/provisioning security she biologically desires. She's hedging her bets with you!
Her having sex with you and divulging how she "feels" after two weeks is of "real" dating is her way of sealing the deal on your commitment to her and her security goals. You're being USED.
You were too much of a pussy to even go for a kiss (you even made her YAWN from boredom) - she doesn't know you outside of a few MySpace messages and a couple of dates. Well, save for the fact that you're a pussy.
It's sad that you're so desperate for pussy that you're willing to do anything for it.
I wonder how long it'll be before you stop using condems and get her pregnant.
Let me ask you this, what do you do? What's your career/job/etc.?
amisconception, you really gangtackled this kid for no reason. He DID have sex, so why you are so down on him is baffling. You are also the only one who reacted like this. Most of us actually complimented the kid, and moved on. Rethink it bro, it aint right.
werd
Joined: Feb 2002
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I didn't even see this.
Water seeks its own level pal. You would go for the hot 21 year old girls if you could. But you can't, so you justify your behavior with ego-invested delusions. It's like the guys who "always" go for "thick" (fat) girls. You're one of the guys who "always" goes for the "older" (old) girls.
You're too scared to accept your fair market value and deal with rejection. So you go for the easier kill. You're eating Taco Bell because you think it's better than nothing and you're starving. You don't realize that you could be eating filet mignon if only you tried.
Don't fool yourself, it's the ones that have gone beyond their use-by date that are choosing you, not the other way around. Don't come here pretending you're a stud with options because you're clearly not.
werd
Joined: Feb 2002
Posts: 15,079
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and why do you place such a high premium on sex? are you desperate too? you think that just because you're having sex all else is irrelevant? i mean if that's the case would you have sex with a girl who stole from you, burned your house down, killed your dog, and called your mom a two-cent whore? if all that matters is sex
i'm on his case because i think he needs to re-evaluate what he's doing and where he's coming from. i don't believe he's being honest with himself and i'm calling him out on it.
it's the internet, it's ok, all will be fine. just grab your blanky and hold tight.
