Well I have been persuing this one girl now for a month or so from work. She is really into me and I am her. But she is hot and cold like every weekend.

Basically she doesn't know if she wants to be in a relationship and is having issues with commitment and stuff. She wound up going to Vegas for a week and when she came back she said she really likes me but she has to be fair and tell me that she isn't looking for a commitment but wants to see me still. We went out to dinner the next night never spoke of anything and have been really good since.

She even came over and slept at my house one night during the week and we slept together.. She said it has been a really long time for her so I know she isn't a ho and must really like me.

Anyway things are getting better and better and she has another trip to Florida this past week. So we were going to try to meet up before she left to see each other. Friday didn't pan out. Saturday afternoon didn't pan out but the at 5:30 she calls me and invites me to go as her date to the engagement party for the girl that is getting married in Florida. But I decline b/c I didn't think it was my place to go and the party was in an hour. She said no prob but she will meet me out later for a drink.

9:30 I text her and said after the party just go to Ed's house and I will pick you up there and get a drink (4 people were sleeping at ed's b/c they are all going to the airport in the morning together) She writes

Wish I could see you but I don't htink it is going to work out...i'll explain later
Is something wrong...is it me
No I will explain later
can you call me i am kinda worried is everything ok
Don't worry
ok just call me later if you can
of course I will

So she calls me at 11:30 on her way to ed's and is like all blunt and nasty. So I ask what was the eal from before...Oh ed said his dad was home and didn't want people going in and out of the house. BULLSHIT ed is a party animal...huge excuse....then I said then swing by the bar I am only 1 1 mile from ed's. NO WE ARE GOING TO SLEEP AND I AM NOT HAVING THIS ARGUMENT NOW....WHOH who is arguning. And she says..well have a good time at the bar...umm you too...bye click and hangs up

She was in Florida till today and I never even heard from her once. I don't get what could have happened in 3 hours at an engagement party. The only thing I can even think of is that Ed talked shit to her about me (b/c he did to me about her but I brushed it off) and now she bought it and wants nothing to do with me....

I texted her in Florida once and said How are you and never heard anything.

Don't know what to think of this...I will see her tomorrow morning at work and I don't know how to react.

 

She's quite obviously banging or thinking of banging someone else. Move on dude.

 

Now how would you assume that?

 

I severly doubt it b/c I takl to her everyday and she is insecure and got really hurt in a past relationship so it takes her like a long time to trust someone and let them in. Plus she made plans with me for this Saturday to go with her to meet all of the college girlfriends b/c they are dying to meet me b/c she talked me up so much to them.

But I have no idea if she was just in a bad mood that night and too busy with the wedding to call or she really doesn't like me all of a sudden. I did NOTHING in those 3 hours to scare her....

guess i will just have to see tomorrow but of course I am assuming the worst.

 

1. You banged her

2. She's now going to Florida on vacation :bananahump:

3. ED's house???? I think Ed is delivering the beef dude.

4. All of a sudden she gets all pissy with you for no reason? She doesn't have the balls to break it off, so she's pulling the "I'll just be a bitch until he gets the hint" treatment.

 

1) yea i did....but it had been more than a year since she even gave a guy a BJ

2) Florida was for a wedding and thats it...it was at Disney world and she was a brides maid. 3 days

3) Ed is dateing her best friend, I have know ed since high school and he works at my company too. It was Her Ed ed's gf and jills other Gf all sleeping over that night. But ed has openly said to me and others that he really doesn't like jill very much through getting to know her through his GF

4) Yeah she got pissy and that is the only problem. Right before she left she wanted to start thinking about where we wanted to take this relationship (and yes in a good way) and that was HER idea.....

 

All valid, if not questionable, points. However, generally, when things are supposedly "going well" and then all of a sudden the chick gets all fucked up, there's a different sausage in the bun...that's all I'm saying. I mean judging by your reaction in your conversation with her of "What's wrong, is it me?....." you seem to know this broad is fi'n to kick you to the curb.

 

well other then that 1 instance there is no way you would ever come to that conclusion......but you could be right

 

..now go get some!!! :P :lickit:

 

maybe shes pissed that you didnt accept her invitation, you made her go alone to the party.

 

acutally you are the 3rd person to say that to me but I really don't think that is it. I couldn't see her getting mad that I didnt' want to go to an engagement party that she sent back as a single with no guest and it was an hour away. But a few people did say that to me.

 

Nail on the head.:o

 

Vegas, Florida, she sure travels to a lot of party places. There is definately someone else, been in your shoes before. She sounds like a pain in the ass, high maintenance, and un-trust worthy. Since when did we start believing everthing a woman says, by the way??

 

Well you were all wrong which I am glad about! It was nothing more then a mis communication. SHe was mad that I was drunk and said what are you making an excuse not to see me when she had a bad day and didn't want to deal with that shit. So I said I was sorry for being so accusing and she was for snapping. All is cool

 

The guy she was banging probably ended it. :P

 

 

 

for future reference, dont ask questions and then not be open minded with the answers, we aren't going to tell you what we want you to hear but what we think is really true. most of the time what is true you dont want to hear anyway

 

don't make yourself that available.


those comments will make the chick think that you're saving yourself for her, a big no no.

 

Oh gimme a break.....you obviously didn't even assess the information at hand. Look how quick you were all to say "oh she is sleeping with someone else" blah blah blah. You don't say what you think is really true. The only guy that did was the one that said maybe she was mad I didn't go to the party with her.

The sleeping with another guy is sooo unrealistic after all the info I provided to you. Seriously, I ask a ? looking for possible solutions not to get "she is playing hide the salami with another guy, move on"

She already apologized yesterday and told me we have some making up to do. So don't be so quick to always make someone feel worse for your amusment. Just don't respond then. F-ing childish

 

On the flip side of your argument...why ask for advise if you are just going to do what you want anyway?

You posted the thread...be prepared for the responses.

 

Do what I want???? WTF does that mean hahahahhaha. I had no say in how she was feeling. And of course I am going to do what I want. B/c if I did what you wanted I would have ruined everything. I was prepared for the answers just not childish 5th grade 'in your face' answers with no real analysis. Every single post like mine has some jack@ss responding this way.

 

You could always quit posting...maybe it's just you?

 

Nah no need for me to quit. I may have overreacted to my situation and thats all cool now, my bad. But in the long run I am the one still laying pipe while you are here wasting your time on a guy you don't know trying to be a tough guy over the internet. Sounds like a good time to me.....

So just keep :wackit:

and oh yeah :pfawk: :pfawk: i'm out!

 

Now that is truly funny...If you knew what or who you were talking to, you would have already known how wrong you actually are.

I am married to a woman almost 12 years my junior. She is a tall and very attractive woman and we have been married for 7 years now.


Beter Luck next time. Oh...might wanna think about what you are posting a little bit more next time.

 

Hahah so she is only with you b/c of $ and she is boning younger studs....seems pretty obvious to me !!!

Reality check...sorry to inform you

And the fact that you feel you need to "prove" yourself to me over the internet......well....nuf said

 

<---Not Rich, she actually makes MORE $$ than me.


You need to grow up. I am sorry you have no game but..if you are lucky that will come with age.

 

HAHAHAHHAHA you have no idea the game I have friend......

NO IDEA.. you need to stop talking out your ass for a change.

This was just a girl I was very much into for real

 

Ya sure..

 

if you have so much game why are you getting advise from people you dont know on the internet



loser

 

B/c when it comes to actually liking a girl it is different then just getting laid fool. If you got it you would understand

ouch loser ohhhhhhh hahahah another tough guy

 

Exactly my point.

 

so you have so much game that you can get laid but the second they see what a jackass you really are they start running...

i get it

 

Not to seem like we're picking on you, but this isn't exactly a text msg a guy with "game" would be typing to his girl.

Anyway, maybe if you told us you were drunk when you were at the bar, things would have made more sense. The less info you give us, the less we can tell you how to run your life
And you shouldn't get pissy by the advice...you're a 2001, you should know how this place is by now

 

I didn't even read the original post and I don't like this mblock guy :shakehd: