Do your S/O's get jealous....
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Do your S/O's get jealous....
....when you talk to them about about someone of the opposite sex? Just about any time I tell my wife about anything, whether it's meeting up with a female for business purposes, or just talking to someone who's a mutual friend, she gets annoyed at me. I asked her again today if she feels threatened by them, she said no, I asked her what the problem is then? She couldn't answer other than tell me that it makes her feel uncomfortable. So I figure stop telling her these things, but this happens almost daily, and would pretty much count out most of the things I talk to her every day about how my day went... 
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Originally Posted by Shoofin
....when you talk to them about about someone of the opposite sex? Just about any time I tell my wife about anything, whether it's meeting up with a female for business purposes, or just talking to someone who's a mutual friend, she gets annoyed at me. I asked her again today if she feels threatened by them, she said no, I asked her what the problem is then? She couldn't answer other than tell me that it makes her feel uncomfortable. So I figure stop telling her these things, but this happens almost daily, and would pretty much count out most of the things I talk to her every day about how my day went...
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Originally Posted by KaMLuNg
u better not tell her about your basketball encounter.. she may freak with that ass bumping into you during your game...
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I happened to meet up with a customer of mine today, one whom i've never met before. She's from westchester county and wanted to show me her car today because she was in my home area and wanted to trade her car in. I met up with her for a few minutes, looked over the car and left. Just as I was leaving the gym tonight, I told my wife I "bumped" into her (the girl I met up with earlier) as I walked out of the locker room and she was walking into the locker room. She was like "you actually bumper in to her?" I said no, I happened to see her, not physically bumped into her... geeeeez I just found it funny to have seen her there considering she lives up north, what would the possiblity of meeting someone for the first time earlier in the day and bumping into them again only a few hours later...
I just found it funny to have seen her there considering she lives up north, what would the possiblity of meeting someone for the first time earlier in the day and bumping into them again only a few hours later...
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You're TOO talkative. Firstly you say cutting out the details would cut out most of your conversation, so that must mean you have TOO much encountering. If my wife did that all day I'd probably feel a little uneasy. Aren't there ANY guys in your life?
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Put yourself on the other side. This happened to me recently when i was at a week long training class. I went to lunch everyday with this late-20's or so married girl. She was ok looking, nothing special. well my gf obviously had issues with it, nothing serious, but she kept saying "so did you eat lunch with your new girlfriend today?" i'd probably act the same way though.
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Doesn't every woman get somewhat jealous? My girl gets jealous cuz some of my best friends are females, who I've known 5 times as long as her. I only get jealous when she talks to her ex and tries to hide it 
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I think maybe a little jealousy is healthy. It shows she still likes you enough to care about what you think is attractive. It's also a way that a woman sort of "asks" you to tell her about the things you like about her ("e.g., oh honey, while her ass is so tight you can bounce a quarter off of it, I love your squishy round apply booty the best.").
FWIW, Ed, maybe a lot of things she has been through lately may have caused her self-esteem/perception to erode a bit.
I get a tinge jealous and vice versa, but we do a good job of using humor to diffuse the jealousy.
FWIW, Ed, maybe a lot of things she has been through lately may have caused her self-esteem/perception to erode a bit.
I get a tinge jealous and vice versa, but we do a good job of using humor to diffuse the jealousy.
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Originally Posted by Shoofin
....when you talk to them about about someone of the opposite sex? Just about any time I tell my wife about anything, whether it's meeting up with a female for business purposes, or just talking to someone who's a mutual friend, she gets annoyed at me. I asked her again today if she feels threatened by them, she said no, I asked her what the problem is then? She couldn't answer other than tell me that it makes her feel uncomfortable. So I figure stop telling her these things, but this happens almost daily, and would pretty much count out most of the things I talk to her every day about how my day went...
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I had an ex that would get jealous if another girl would be checking me out, like if I was in a store or in a car or whatever. She would go "That girl's checking you out". I'd look, then she'd go "DON'T LOOK!!"
that didn't last long obviously
that didn't last long obviously
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