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Old 03-20-2005, 12:33 PM
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Do you fall asleep in each other's arms?

My wife finds it hard to fall asleep if I'm holding her. At some point she'll wake up and move over. I sort of find it tough to do it too, but it depends on the circumstance. In some cases I'd be the one to roll over and go to sleep because our body heat under the cover gets a bit stuffy so I'd go to my side and pass out. But in all, I think it was only once that we both fell asleep with me holding her and woke up separated. What about you?
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No. I move around a lot before I get comfortable (even though I'm usually out in 5 mins) and its like someone is trying to hold me down otherwise.
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no to friggin hot for me, she doesn't seem to mind.
Old 03-20-2005, 01:06 PM
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me and my girl have done it once and were really suprised. Usually it gets too hot and I roll over but for some reason once we did do it.
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I've done it plenty of times. The problem was the bed was a single, so it was too small for both of us together. We're both not that small. And it got really warm under the covers, but that was good cause it was winter and it was so awesome. We woke up like that too, except my arm was asleep.
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Originally Posted by youngTL
I've done it plenty of times. The problem was the bed was a single, so it was too small for both of us together. We're both not that small. And it got really warm under the covers, but that was good cause it was winter and it was so awesome. We woke up like that too, except my arm was asleep.

.................and she had your nuts in her purse.
Old 03-20-2005, 01:27 PM
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.................and she had your nuts in her purse.
What the eff are you talkin about man? I ain't never slept with anyone who owned a purse
Old 03-20-2005, 01:42 PM
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What the eff are you talkin about man? I ain't never slept with anyone who owned a purse



I didn't know you were a chick.
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I didn't know you were a chick.

He isn't he just loves the dick
Old 03-20-2005, 01:59 PM
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I never tried sleeping holding a girl until just recently. I always just though that it was silly and just made it uncorfortable for both people. But the girl that Ive been with for the past few years, I have done it numerous times, and have grown to love it. Im convinced that you must really love the girl to want to do it. My whole life I have slept on my back perfectly, almost like I was in a coffin. So it took a while to be able to spoon with my girl and get comfy enough to fall asleep, but I did!! It is a wonderful feeling, to be all snuggled up close, you can fall asleep feeling their heartbeat from your arms that are wrapped around them!! One arm is drapped over her and resting on her chest, and the other is spread out underneath her pillow, which does result in your arm falling asleep sometimes. Sometimes it gets a little warm, but all in all I love doing it now!!
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Originally Posted by JesusJuice
He isn't he just loves the dick


Wow took long enough. Anyway, let's stop talkin about me and get back on the thread topic eh
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Originally Posted by Rodney
I never tried sleeping holding a girl until just recently. I always just though that it was silly and just made it uncorfortable for both people. But the girl that Ive been with for the past few years, I have done it numerous times, and have grown to love it. Im convinced that you must really love the girl to want to do it. My whole life I have slept on my back perfectly, almost like I was in a coffin. So it took a while to be able to spoon with my girl and get comfy enough to fall asleep, but I did!! It is a wonderful feeling, to be all snuggled up close, you can fall asleep feeling their heartbeat from your arms that are wrapped around them!! One arm is drapped over her and resting on her chest, and the other is spread out underneath her pillow, which does result in your arm falling asleep sometimes. Sometimes it gets a little warm, but all in all I love doing it now!!
If you shift the bottom arm near your body folded up, it won't fall asleep. Just have your other arm draped over her and your legs wrapped up with hers.
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i love to cuddle, but when it's time to sleep, it's time to sleep. i usually turn my back to him on my side (depending which side of the bed i'm on) or lay on my stomach. I can't fall asleep any other way.
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Originally Posted by youngTL


Wow took long enough. Anyway, let's stop talkin about me and get back on the thread topic eh

I'm confused

Are you a guy, girl, or gay?
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Originally Posted by Red-CL
I'm confused

Are you a guy, girl, or gay?
Judging by that avatar it's either him, or its a chick who like guys who look like that, or its a dude who likes dudes like that. So theres your answer
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We usually fall asleep holding each other but we separate at some point. There was one girl who I'd roll away from during the night but she'd keep moving closer and closer until I had about six inches of space on the bed, and I have a queen bed.
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Originally Posted by JesusJuice
Judging by that avatar it's either him, or its a chick who like guys who look like that, or its a dude who likes dudes like that. So theres your answer
He is a dude who likes dudes like that. He is gay and does not understand the meaning of the word "closet" and chooses not to live there.
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I do it until my arm falls asleep......
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My boyfriend likes to, I don't. And I kick in my sleep.
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Sometimes. Since we haven't seen each other in a month the last few nights we have. But when we lived together we didn't that often. Once we got a king bed, very rarely


However, I wake up a bunch in the night and would often then grab her and fall asleep
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Originally Posted by ric
He is a dude who likes dudes like that. He is gay and does not understand the meaning of the word "closet" and chooses not to live there.

why should he have to
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Most of my ladies charge too much to stay the night.
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Originally Posted by Zapata
no to friggin hot for me, she doesn't seem to mind.

same w/ me, it can be 50 degrees in the room and i'll sleep w/ no sheets and in my boxers w/ the fan on me high, she'll be all bundled up if it's 80
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Originally Posted by CLpower
same w/ me, it can be 50 degrees in the room and i'll sleep w/ no sheets and in my boxers w/ the fan on me high, she'll be all bundled up if it's 80
Yeah, what's up with that. Why are women ALWAYS cold, and guys are hardly ever cold unless it's like lower than like 35 degrees?
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Originally Posted by JesusJuice
Judging by that avatar it's either him, or its a chick who like guys who look like that, or its a dude who likes dudes like that. So theres your answer

Thank for clearing that up.
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i have to be alone when i am sleeping

or else i wouldn't be able to sleep if she has her hands over me
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Too hot and uncomfy.
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Originally Posted by 98CLChick
And I kick in my sleep.
I do the same thing! (apparently) I picture myself looking like a dog when it's jerking around in its sleep.
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Originally Posted by CLpower
same w/ me, it can be 50 degrees in the room and i'll sleep w/ no sheets and in my boxers w/ the fan on me high, she'll be all bundled up if it's 80

I'm the same way....and she's always cold..
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Originally Posted by Dan Martin
Most of my ladies charge too much to stay the night.
It's okay, I'd refuse to pay your mom that much either

(sorry I couldn't help myself)
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We usually cuddle for awhile, then when I want to fall asleep for good we'll separate. We've fallen asleep together numerous times, but after awhile one of us will wake up and want to get comfortable.

Here's a better question. Who here has fallen asleep directly after having sex? And I mean like still on top. We have, and my inside of my legs were so sore when I woke up haha
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Originally Posted by youngTL
It's okay, I'd refuse to pay your mom that much either

(sorry I couldn't help myself)
so are you a guy or a girl?
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Originally Posted by wakeboardfusion
so are you a guy or a girl?

I'm glad I'm not the only one that confused.
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he/she/it keeps avoiding the subject
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I do, but it rarely lasted allnight. Uaslly if it's an allnight type thing, my arm ends up her pillow and I lay behind her.
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That's one of the things I miss the most when I am single...like I am now...
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Originally Posted by Red-CL
I'm glad I'm not the only one that confused.
You guys are incredibly thick. Enough clues have been left in this thread to draw an accurate conclusion. However, that concusion is still somehow eluding you. I know you get it, nobody is that thick. It just sounds like you dont want to believe it so you're assuming there must be more to it. There IS NOT. It is what you think it is so leave it be.

It's 2005. [He] should'nt have to directly explain himself countless times to strangers.


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