Is it just me,
Once I have slept with a girl, I feel like Mike Jordan "there is nothing left to prove."
Even if I know I could have the girl I am not into it, Yet the one girl I have been almost in love with for the past three years who won't see anything past bullshit "friends" I still continue to chase.

Umm any reason for this, Am I as fucked up as I think, or is this common.



Also how come like 6 bitches call my cell wanna come over, wanna get split, wanna go out, but the one that I want to doesn't call. If I didn't want her to call you think she would, ha

Do I only want her, and she seems so special because I can't have her?

Eddie Murphy skit.
It's like starving someone and then giving them a cracker, they'd be like "shit, that's a damn good cracker, that shit is good, GOD DAMN." Then after a while you realize you just got an ordinary cracker.

 

I feel the same way sometimes...

I just think that the girl you really want is super fly... that's the case with me... the one(s) I want are all super duper fly... I could give a damn about a ho I banged on the first night... but a girl who hasn't given it up, that I see something more in, seems unattainable and I don't get it either

 

most guys aren't trying to take a ho seriously.

 

Haha man I love that line.

But ya, you can only chase what you can't have. And it seems the one you can't get is the only one you really want.

 

im all about the chase.

and i tend to only REALLY LIKE girls who i have trouble getting or keeping.

that doesnt mean their `better` girls..... it may mean their bigger hos who like to play games. or their good girls. either way... if they give me a hard time... i sweat them.

its the hunt.

 

yep... unless I am into the girl... once we sleep together once or twice I kinda don't find myself wanting to "hang out" anymore... There are exceptions to the rule of course (the really chill ass girls, extremely HOT ones and the ones that are just unbelievable in bed!) but on average... I'd rather move on myself!

 

I dont know what my deal is, Ill like eb diggin on a girl, and once I got her, I get borde and really dont want her anymore, but these girls think I like the perfect guy, they all start talkin about marrage after a couple of dates, and they fall for me too hard to quick, but I just get tired of them and I stay cool with them cause I dont want them to hate me, its weird, I think Im encapable to love someone of the oposite sex,

 

You want that which you cannot have.

 

hell yeah... same here....

add "bitch" to personality types i'm attracted to as well... i can't have a sweet girl, she's gotta have flare.... otherwise i'd step all over her...

 

see I love a sweet girl... but theres gotta be balance... a pushover is never good in any situation.. but a BITCH is somethig I CANNOT / WILL NOT DEAL WITH!!!!

 

def.

but how about this.. (true situation for me) what if after a yr and a half u finally get what you cant have. and then you date her for 5 months and then she breaks up with you and you cant have her anymore? its even worse than before cuz you actually somehow got what you wanted and got to experience how badass it was to be with that person and then its all gone. i didnt think it could suck anymore than not bein able to get who you really want, but i was wrong!