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Old Mar 20, 2007 | 03:31 AM
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confused?

hey, im only 16 and yeah young`n but lets see..

i've been missing and thinking about my ex a lot lately. when i was locked up in juvenile hall i was really missing her more than my recent girlfriend. my recent girlfriend is a WAY much better than a girlfriend than my ex was. she was my actually very first girlfriend that was actually a real relationship. all the other girls that i messed around with didnt mean nothing. but i lost it to my ex and all that good stuff and she's my first love. when we were going out she didnt treat me right she cheated on me and always broke promises and always would hit me even though i dont do nothing back i still stuck around for her .. but my recent girlfriend now HELPED me set my life straight and still going through and todays our 6th months btw also im not sure what im feeling because i get jealous when i see pictures of my ex girlfriend with her new boyfriend. also im not sure what im really feeling. but i know for sure that i have strong feelings for my recent girlfriend and my recent girlfriend lost it up to me also and all that good stufff ... im just confused about what im feeling.
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Old Mar 20, 2007 | 06:40 AM
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1. You need suto-proper writing skills, because a jumble of text like that is on the verge of unreadable, and gives me a headache.

2. What in the hell is it that you need? Advice, sympathy, what? You need to forget the ex, get your deliquent ass out of jail, and move on.

3. YOU ARE 16, you still haven't lived up your teenage years yet.

4. Sounds like your current girl isn't that great, that or you are stuck like a lost puppy to your ex. Either way, get over her, and get rid of the current before you hurt her.










Sorry for the dickhead rant, I need to go to bed soon.
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Old Mar 20, 2007 | 07:22 AM
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Originally Posted by daicacharco
hey, im only 16 and yeah young`n but lets see..

i've been missing and thinking about my ex a lot lately. when i was locked up in juvenile hall i was really missing her more than my recent girlfriend. my recent girlfriend is a WAY much better than a girlfriend than my ex was. she was my actually very first girlfriend that was actually a real relationship. all the other girls that i messed around with didnt mean nothing. but i lost it to my ex and all that good stuff and she's my first love. when we were going out she didnt treat me right she cheated on me and always broke promises and always would hit me even though i dont do nothing back i still stuck around for her .. but my recent girlfriend now HELPED me set my life straight and still going through and todays our 6th months btw also im not sure what im feeling because i get jealous when i see pictures of my ex girlfriend with her new boyfriend. also im not sure what im really feeling. but i know for sure that i have strong feelings for my recent girlfriend and my recent girlfriend lost it up to me also and all that good stufff ... im just confused about what im feeling.
You're 16... you're young. You're immature and you'll go thru plenty more relationship before you realize what "Love" is. It's natural for a guy your age to feel that way. Your current girlfriend will not be the last girl you'll date... have fun with what you got and enjoy it while it last.

that's my best advice. I'd also say don't look back at your ex. She's not worth it.
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Old Mar 20, 2007 | 07:33 AM
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You'll have many more relationships you will be in!!.....take the advice from the older crowd

Like BoostedJack said, "have fun with what you got and enjoy it while it last"
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Old Mar 20, 2007 | 10:45 AM
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You're 16....YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO BE CONFUSED. That's what we older folks call growing up. You learn from it.

As for what I would do....walk away from both of them. Neither seem to be any good. Maybe bang their best friends....that should make you feel better. If you go back to your ex, then you have little self respect. She's a teenager and cheating on you. You're either going to end up broken hearted again, or with a nice thing called AN STD. Or maybe both.
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Old Mar 20, 2007 | 10:57 AM
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hahahah alright thanks
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Old Mar 20, 2007 | 10:59 AM
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Originally Posted by daicacharco
hahahah alright thanks
No, no, no....you don't get off that easy....there are going to be some other people posting replies about your age. And at least one guy is going to ask for pics of said gf and ex.

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Old Mar 20, 2007 | 11:06 AM
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if your ex cheated on you and treated you like shit, pretend she's dead
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Old Mar 20, 2007 | 11:06 AM
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post pics too
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Old Mar 20, 2007 | 11:08 AM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
No, no, no....you don't get off that easy....there are going to be some other people posting replies about your age. And at least one guy is going to ask for pics of said gf and ex.




Originally Posted by SG81
post pics too
good call on that RaviNJCLs
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Old Mar 20, 2007 | 11:15 AM
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Originally Posted by saiko_cl_duck
good call on that RaviNJCLs
that was dedicated to Ravi :wink:
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Old Mar 20, 2007 | 11:21 AM
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hell, you were in before Whiskers. Now that's dedication right there.
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Old Mar 20, 2007 | 01:18 PM
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There is a reason they are called an ex right.. Dont look back in life becuase you will miss whats happening right now. You're only 16 and have quite a bit of growing up to do. Sometime life will be great and sometimes life will suck. Its all apart of life. Its what you take away from those situations that really matter
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Old Mar 20, 2007 | 10:04 PM
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It's ok to sometimes look back, but always remind yourself why your ex is not good for you. Her cheating on you should be enough driving force for you to forget her.
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Old Mar 21, 2007 | 03:28 AM
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Originally Posted by sasha
It's ok to sometimes look back, but always remind yourself why your ex is not good for you. Her cheating on you should be enough driving force for you to forget her.

but it doesnt .. i dont have any pictures of my ex girlfriend but ill try to find some on the disc i burnt it on and will post pictures.
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Old Mar 21, 2007 | 03:34 AM
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me and my ex


me and my recent girlfriend ;]
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Old Mar 21, 2007 | 05:47 AM
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Is it just me, or do those two look amazingly similiar?
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Old Mar 21, 2007 | 07:10 AM
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can you please post pics of ex-gf wearing bandana?
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Old Mar 21, 2007 | 09:13 AM
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Originally Posted by saiko_cl_duck
Is it just me, or do those two look amazingly similiar?
Well he definately have a consistant type.
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Old Mar 21, 2007 | 09:25 AM
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The current girlfriend looks better, IMO. And even looks nicer. Even the fact that your EX cheated on you, I don't know what would make you feel like getting back with her. Stick with Kimmy.
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Old Mar 21, 2007 | 11:27 AM
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Old Mar 21, 2007 | 02:31 PM
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welps .. it looks like me and kimberly broke up today .. just a few minutes ago ..
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Old Mar 21, 2007 | 02:44 PM
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Originally Posted by daicacharco
welps .. it looks like me and kimberly broke up today .. just a few minutes ago ..
do whatever you think is best for you. remember, you are really young and will hook up with a lot more chicks before settling down, so don't worry about past chicks.

Btw, the recent girl looks a lot better
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Old Mar 21, 2007 | 03:18 PM
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hahaha yeha thanks ;]
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Old Mar 21, 2007 | 03:37 PM
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should i try and get her bakc ? i mean she is the reason why im not still lokc'd up ..
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Old Mar 21, 2007 | 03:42 PM
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Originally Posted by daicacharco
should i try and get her bakc ? i mean she is the reason why im not still lokc'd up ..
do you actually care about her?

by all the things you've said about her (how she has helped you a lot), i would. but don't be with her JUST b/c she helped you. be with her b/c you want to.........plus she's hot


what is she? Spanish?
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Old Mar 21, 2007 | 03:44 PM
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hell, you were in before Whiskers. Now that's dedication right there.
My Internet has been down....
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Old Mar 21, 2007 | 03:45 PM
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so why do you guys break up?
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Old Mar 21, 2007 | 07:28 PM
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My Internet has been down....
:BS: poor excuse, we all know the wife has had you doing housework all day




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Old Mar 21, 2007 | 08:18 PM
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My Internet has been down....
if that was true the AZ servers must have got a much needed break
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Old Mar 21, 2007 | 08:36 PM
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Originally Posted by SG81
so why do you guys break up?
He wrote her a love-letter
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Old Mar 22, 2007 | 12:12 AM
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Originally Posted by furious1smitul
He wrote her a love-letter

hahah actually i did write her a 8 page letter front and back but .. it doesnt matter she told me that she dont want me to be wiht me because she said " i think its better for us to end it" iunno its what evers i want to be with her because she makes me happy and makes me feel appreciated and all the things i do for her .. but i just dont know ..
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Old Mar 22, 2007 | 12:14 AM
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Originally Posted by SG81
do you actually care about her?

by all the things you've said about her (how she has helped you a lot), i would. but don't be with her JUST b/c she helped you. be with her b/c you want to.........plus she's hot


what is she? Spanish?

shes Guamanian, portugese, flip


she motivates me to achieve my goals, make me feel good inside about myself, always there for me when i need someone to talk to .. she appreciates the things i do for her even though i dont buy her things i make it for her like the things i drew for her and yehas .. iunno what else is there to do when she wants to end it you know ?
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Old Mar 22, 2007 | 05:35 AM
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Originally Posted by daicacharco
hahah actually i did write her a 8 page letter front and back but .. it doesnt matter she told me that she dont want me to be wiht me because she said " i think its better for us to end it" iunno its what evers i want to be with her because she makes me happy and makes me feel appreciated and all the things i do for her .. but i just dont know ..
Ahh makes sense, she probably had major head trauma after reading 16 pages. In all seriousness, take a writing skills course, or listen/participate in your English composition classes (If you're back in the classroom). It will help you immensely in the future.

As for the relationship, don't stress kid... You're 16, you'll find another girl that makes you feel the same way, does the equivalent of what she did for you and probably more. Just appreciate her for the time and don't turn what you've had as a negative experience because it ended.
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Old Mar 22, 2007 | 08:50 AM
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Ahh makes sense, she probably had major head trauma after reading 16 pages. In all seriousness, take a writing skills course, or listen/participate in your English composition classes (If you're back in the classroom). It will help you immensely in the future.

As for the relationship, don't stress kid... You're 16, you'll find another girl that makes you feel the same way, does the equivalent of what she did for you and probably more. Just appreciate her for the time and don't turn what you've had as a negative experience because it ended.

haha yeah i know its just the way i type thats why but when i write letters its understandable haha but umm i didnt give her the letter just ripped it up because it doesnt mean nothing ..
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Old Mar 22, 2007 | 09:40 AM
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so she didn't read the letter? you should've gave it to her. you never know, it might have changed her opinion of you............but then again, if you don't want to be with her, then there's no use
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Old Mar 22, 2007 | 09:49 AM
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Originally Posted by SG81
so she didn't read the letter? you should've gave it to her. you never know, it might have changed her opinion of you............but then again, if you don't want to be with her, then there's no use

He should have. Writing 16 pages worth of a letter for someone you don't want to be with? I think he's in denial, but then again he's 16, he may just be reacting the only way he knows to a situation (sub-consciously).
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Old Mar 22, 2007 | 10:35 PM
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Originally Posted by furious1smitul
He should have. Writing 16 pages worth of a letter for someone you don't want to be with? I think he's in denial, but then again he's 16, he may just be reacting the only way he knows to a situation (sub-consciously).

WE GOT BACK !!! the reason why she broke up with me is because "you deserve better" hahah
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Old Mar 23, 2007 | 07:42 AM
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Originally Posted by daicacharco
WE GOT BACK !!! the reason why she broke up with me is because "you deserve better" hahah
the youths of today confuse me. i hope everything works out for you
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Old Mar 23, 2007 | 08:00 AM
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Originally Posted by SG81
the youths of today confuse me. i hope everything works out for you



Although I think this also stuff happens in adult relationships with one or more insecure individuals.
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