Can't stop checking out my gf's sister
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Can't stop checking out my gf's sister
Ok guys this is a serious post and looking for serious advice or tips...
I have a girlfriend that I am physically and mentally attracted to. Nothing wrong with the relationship right now and the relationship is everything I am looking for.
My girlfriend is 27 and has a sister that is 18. The sister looks pretty close to my girlfriend, except with longer legs and bigger... you know.
I don't harbor any illusions or fears that I'm going to end up cheating with the sister or anything. That's not going to be a problem for me.
The problem is that I just spent almost the entire long weekend with the two of them doing a lot of outdoorsy (read: swimming pool) stuff, and I could not stop checking out the sister.
I am generally pretty good about not checking out other girls because I am satisfied with my girlfriend. But I guess with the sister, there's a physical familiarity in addition to the shapelier and more youthful physique. I found it absolutely irresistible to not look.
I dunno. Any advice? I don't even know what kind of advice I am looking for. Should I even feel bad for looking? Maybe I just needed to get this off my chest.
Oh yes I'm not posting any pics. It's too big a risk.
I have a girlfriend that I am physically and mentally attracted to. Nothing wrong with the relationship right now and the relationship is everything I am looking for.
My girlfriend is 27 and has a sister that is 18. The sister looks pretty close to my girlfriend, except with longer legs and bigger... you know.
I don't harbor any illusions or fears that I'm going to end up cheating with the sister or anything. That's not going to be a problem for me.
The problem is that I just spent almost the entire long weekend with the two of them doing a lot of outdoorsy (read: swimming pool) stuff, and I could not stop checking out the sister.
I am generally pretty good about not checking out other girls because I am satisfied with my girlfriend. But I guess with the sister, there's a physical familiarity in addition to the shapelier and more youthful physique. I found it absolutely irresistible to not look.
I dunno. Any advice? I don't even know what kind of advice I am looking for. Should I even feel bad for looking? Maybe I just needed to get this off my chest.
Oh yes I'm not posting any pics. It's too big a risk.
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Sister is a skinny cute Asian girl about 5'3" with above average frontal airbags for the class.
My girlfriend is a skinny cute Asian girl about 5'2" with average to below average frontal airbags for the class.
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Say it with awe when turning back to your GF, or as if you were spellbound, and you'll be fine.
If you say anything different from that, or continue looking at the sister instead of at your GF while talking, .
You shouldn't feel bad about looking at the sister, just like we don't feel bad asking for pics.
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you can just do what my friend did with his wife and his wife's sister....he drilled both of them and when confronted by his wife, he said and I QUOTE "What's the problem? It's all the same"
His wife was and still is HOT and her sister is like the ugly duckling of the family........
now on to the advice part of the post..... QUIT LOOKING at your G/F's sister otherwise you are going to get some trouble you do NOT WANT......
<- married to vietnames girl
His wife was and still is HOT and her sister is like the ugly duckling of the family........
now on to the advice part of the post..... QUIT LOOKING at your G/F's sister otherwise you are going to get some trouble you do NOT WANT......
<- married to vietnames girl
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My wife's sister flashed me once.
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I think it is human nature. I am happily married and if an attractive girl is in front of me I would enjoy the view. I am sure I am not alone on that. That is why most of the people that post in the Pretty Girl and Just Body threads are married on in relationships.
The thing is you need to decide if that attraction is worth your relationship. And from what I have read it is probably not. You're going to have to condition yourself to not constantly check her out and you need to come up with a great answer for the following question:
"DO YOU THINK MY SISTER IS PRETTY?"
You know that question is going to come up.
The thing is you need to decide if that attraction is worth your relationship. And from what I have read it is probably not. You're going to have to condition yourself to not constantly check her out and you need to come up with a great answer for the following question:
"DO YOU THINK MY SISTER IS PRETTY?"
You know that question is going to come up.
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Human nature, just don't stare or act on it. You're normal.
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If you find yourself looking at her more than you look at your gf...put yourself out of temptation. Avoid having her in your line of sight. Spend more time with your gf privately and not with the sister present. And I'm in NYC, so I don't know you, your gf or her sister...can I have pics please?
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In my case, the last 2 serious relationships that I've been in, the older sister was married and hotter than my gf, but I agree that I think it's the familiarity more than anything that really draws you to them.
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Hit it before you get older and it's too late to bang 18 year olds. Seriously, just don't stare and you'll be fine, it's normal. That being said, I'm willing to bet she is 16 and you dont want to be called out
Oh, I dont know her, in for PM pics of both for comparison.
Oh, I dont know her, in for PM pics of both for comparison.
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I had an ex with a twin sister. I was excused.
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When you get caught looking at the sister, say to your GF, "Wow, she's almost as beautiful as you are!"
Say it with awe when turning back to your GF, or as if you were spellbound, and you'll be fine.
If you say anything different from that, or continue looking at the sister instead of at your GF while talking, .
You shouldn't feel bad about looking at the sister, just like we don't feel bad asking for pics.
Say it with awe when turning back to your GF, or as if you were spellbound, and you'll be fine.
If you say anything different from that, or continue looking at the sister instead of at your GF while talking, .
You shouldn't feel bad about looking at the sister, just like we don't feel bad asking for pics.
Exactly why I can't post the pics. Too many people from Houston. All it takes is one person who recognizes her.
I think it is human nature. I am happily married and if an attractive girl is in front of me I would enjoy the view. I am sure I am not alone on that. That is why most of the people that post in the Pretty Girl and Just Body threads are married on in relationships.
The thing is you need to decide if that attraction is worth your relationship. And from what I have read it is probably not. You're going to have to condition yourself to not constantly check her out and you need to come up with a great answer for the following question:
"DO YOU THINK MY SISTER IS PRETTY?"
You know that question is going to come up.
The thing is you need to decide if that attraction is worth your relationship. And from what I have read it is probably not. You're going to have to condition yourself to not constantly check her out and you need to come up with a great answer for the following question:
"DO YOU THINK MY SISTER IS PRETTY?"
You know that question is going to come up.
She just turned 18 not too long ago. I've known her for over a year, so I did know her when she was 16. And she was good looking then too. But this was the first time I saw her in a bathing suit.
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:sigh:
Here's a video of a guy touching 1,000 pairs of boobs in 20 minutes (skip to 1 min).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fNa7tNFB7c4&t=56s
Here's a video of a guy touching 1,000 pairs of boobs in 20 minutes (skip to 1 min).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fNa7tNFB7c4&t=56s
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Is that really what you want?
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It sounds like your gf has a cool attitude about stuff. I would hold on to someone like that. She may not have all the "attributes" you are looking for, but it sounds like something more on your wish list than a requirement.