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Old Sep 5, 2011 | 11:58 PM
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Can't stop checking out my gf's sister

Ok guys this is a serious post and looking for serious advice or tips...

I have a girlfriend that I am physically and mentally attracted to. Nothing wrong with the relationship right now and the relationship is everything I am looking for.

My girlfriend is 27 and has a sister that is 18. The sister looks pretty close to my girlfriend, except with longer legs and bigger... you know.

I don't harbor any illusions or fears that I'm going to end up cheating with the sister or anything. That's not going to be a problem for me.

The problem is that I just spent almost the entire long weekend with the two of them doing a lot of outdoorsy (read: swimming pool) stuff, and I could not stop checking out the sister.

I am generally pretty good about not checking out other girls because I am satisfied with my girlfriend. But I guess with the sister, there's a physical familiarity in addition to the shapelier and more youthful physique. I found it absolutely irresistible to not look.

I dunno. Any advice? I don't even know what kind of advice I am looking for. Should I even feel bad for looking? Maybe I just needed to get this off my chest.


Oh yes I'm not posting any pics. It's too big a risk.
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 12:01 AM
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pm pics?
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 12:02 AM
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Ive been in the same boat before though, its just human nature, we cant help looking at attractive things
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 12:11 AM
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We would need pics of this sister to advise you properly on your next course of action.
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 12:24 AM
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Originally Posted by tommystyle86
pm pics?
Originally Posted by Gfaze
We would need pics of this sister to advise you properly on your next course of action.
Believe me, I'd love to share. If I were lurking in this thread, the first thing I'd think of is, "I hope the OP posts pics." But I can't. Just this risk somebody knows her.

Sister is a skinny cute Asian girl about 5'3" with above average frontal airbags for the class.

My girlfriend is a skinny cute Asian girl about 5'2" with average to below average frontal airbags for the class.
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 01:00 AM
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Well Im in san diego so I promise i dont know her
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 02:31 AM
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Originally Posted by wackjum
...I found it absolutely irresistible to not look.

I dunno. Any advice? I don't even know what kind of advice I am looking for. Should I even feel bad for looking?
When you get caught looking at the sister, say to your GF, "Wow, she's almost as beautiful as you are!"
Say it with awe when turning back to your GF, or as if you were spellbound, and you'll be fine.
If you say anything different from that, or continue looking at the sister instead of at your GF while talking, .

You shouldn't feel bad about looking at the sister, just like we don't feel bad asking for pics.
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 04:41 AM
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you can just do what my friend did with his wife and his wife's sister....he drilled both of them and when confronted by his wife, he said and I QUOTE "What's the problem? It's all the same"

His wife was and still is HOT and her sister is like the ugly duckling of the family........

now on to the advice part of the post..... QUIT LOOKING at your G/F's sister otherwise you are going to get some trouble you do NOT WANT......

<- married to vietnames girl
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 06:05 AM
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Old Sep 6, 2011 | 08:13 AM
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My wife's sister flashed me once.
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 08:13 AM
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Hey, I'm in Houston.

Hook me up with the sister!!!!!!
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 08:14 AM
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I think it is human nature. I am happily married and if an attractive girl is in front of me I would enjoy the view. I am sure I am not alone on that. That is why most of the people that post in the Pretty Girl and Just Body threads are married on in relationships.

The thing is you need to decide if that attraction is worth your relationship. And from what I have read it is probably not. You're going to have to condition yourself to not constantly check her out and you need to come up with a great answer for the following question:

"DO YOU THINK MY SISTER IS PRETTY?"


You know that question is going to come up.
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 08:15 AM
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Originally Posted by justnspace
Hey, I'm in Houston.

Hook me up with the sister!!!!!!
As long as you promise to post pics.
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 09:24 AM
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Human nature, just don't stare or act on it. You're normal.

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Old Sep 6, 2011 | 09:38 AM
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If you find yourself looking at her more than you look at your gf...put yourself out of temptation. Avoid having her in your line of sight. Spend more time with your gf privately and not with the sister present. And I'm in NYC, so I don't know you, your gf or her sister...can I have pics please?
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 09:58 AM
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
Human nature, just don't stare or act on it. You're normal.

/thread


In my case, the last 2 serious relationships that I've been in, the older sister was married and hotter than my gf, but I agree that I think it's the familiarity more than anything that really draws you to them.
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 09:59 AM
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We're all just proud its not your sister you're thinking of.

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Old Sep 6, 2011 | 10:34 AM
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ok so you say she looks like your gf...pics of gf then? we can probably infer from that.
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 10:37 AM
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Hit it before you get older and it's too late to bang 18 year olds. Seriously, just don't stare and you'll be fine, it's normal. That being said, I'm willing to bet she is 16 and you dont want to be called out

Oh, I dont know her, in for PM pics of both for comparison.
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 10:42 AM
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Like others have said just don't act on it.

but we can't tell till you post pics or give us a link to the FB..

Old Sep 6, 2011 | 10:50 AM
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In my case, the last 2 serious relationships that I've been in, the older sister was married and hotter than my gf, but I agree that I think it's the familiarity more than anything that really draws you to them.
Were you just hoping that they would eventually become hotter with age?
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 10:54 AM
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I had an ex with a twin sister. I was excused.
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 11:12 AM
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I had an ex with a twin sister. I was excused.
Hell....if you got drunk and nailed the wrong one you can almost talk your way out of that one.
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 11:32 AM
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Originally Posted by Will Y.
When you get caught looking at the sister, say to your GF, "Wow, she's almost as beautiful as you are!"
Say it with awe when turning back to your GF, or as if you were spellbound, and you'll be fine.
If you say anything different from that, or continue looking at the sister instead of at your GF while talking, .

You shouldn't feel bad about looking at the sister, just like we don't feel bad asking for pics.



Originally Posted by justnspace
Hey, I'm in Houston.

Hook me up with the sister!!!!!!
Exactly why I can't post the pics. Too many people from Houston. All it takes is one person who recognizes her.


Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
I think it is human nature. I am happily married and if an attractive girl is in front of me I would enjoy the view. I am sure I am not alone on that. That is why most of the people that post in the Pretty Girl and Just Body threads are married on in relationships.

The thing is you need to decide if that attraction is worth your relationship. And from what I have read it is probably not. You're going to have to condition yourself to not constantly check her out and you need to come up with a great answer for the following question:

"DO YOU THINK MY SISTER IS PRETTY?"


You know that question is going to come up.
The question already came up. I said yes. But gf already knows the sister is what I like. She teased me about it because she knows I like boobs.


Originally Posted by 1StGenCL
Hit it before you get older and it's too late to bang 18 year olds. Seriously, just don't stare and you'll be fine, it's normal. That being said, I'm willing to bet she is 16 and you dont want to be called out

Oh, I dont know her, in for PM pics of both for comparison.
She just turned 18 not too long ago. I've known her for over a year, so I did know her when she was 16. And she was good looking then too. But this was the first time I saw her in a bathing suit.
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 11:36 AM
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exactly why it would be awesome if you hooked up your fellow acura/houston member with your GF's Sister!
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If u post a picture, Justin can do the work himself.

Then you would be def helping the community out.
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 11:50 AM
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Originally Posted by Flipster23
If u post a picture, Justin can do the work himself.

Then you would be def helping the community out.

Old Sep 6, 2011 | 11:50 AM
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:sigh:

Here's a video of a guy touching 1,000 pairs of boobs in 20 minutes (skip to 1 min).

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fNa7tNFB7c4&t=56s

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Old Sep 6, 2011 | 11:54 AM
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Originally Posted by Flipster23
If u post a picture, Justin can do the work himself.

Then you would be def helping the community out.
Right now she's single. If I hook her up with somebody, I won't be able to look at her (a natural process according to this thread) without starting something. And if its a forum member, there will be an asskicking/callout thread.

Is that really what you want?
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 11:57 AM
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Justin will not call you out, you can still look you just don't say anything.
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 12:02 PM
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Oh yeah and thanks everybody. I'm glad its not as big a deal as I made it out to be in my mind.
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 12:06 PM
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I'm a boob man myself.

A asian girl in HS had some huge ones which really surprised me. Very firm

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I dated a Korean chick in college that has a size C chest and a nice ass. We didn't seem to leave my dorm room a lot.
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 12:23 PM
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Yea the Asian chick I was talking had D cup, nice ass, and bought me video games
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 12:35 PM
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Yea the Asian chick I was talking had D cup, nice ass, and bought me video games
I still win....we wouldn't have had time for video games.
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 12:38 PM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
I still win....we wouldn't have had time for video games.


yes you do, we were only in HS and only had time to do shit from 7am-8am then after school from 3-5
Old Sep 6, 2011 | 12:45 PM
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yes you do, we were only in HS and only had time to do shit from 7am-8am then after school from 3-5
Yeh....we were in college, I was an RA so I had my own room and she came over to spend the night in November and didn't really leave til May.
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The question already came up. I said yes. But gf already knows the sister is what I like. She teased me about it because she knows I like boobs.
It sounds like your gf has a cool attitude about stuff. I would hold on to someone like that. She may not have all the "attributes" you are looking for, but it sounds like something more on your wish list than a requirement.
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Oh yeah and thanks everybody. I'm glad its not as big a deal as I made it out to be in my mind.
It's not a big deal. I think people that say that they don't notice other women because of their gf are lying....both to us and to themselves.



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