Can a relationship work if the sex stops???
#41
no. for me, i don't think it would work.
if she had such strong beliefs against sex before marriage, she shouldn't have done it in the first place. it's just not right to give a taste and then lock it up. as others mentioned, there is something else going on here. does your friend refuse to wear a condom or something else that might have turned her off from the idea? anyone have an std? maybe she fucked someone else on the side and caught herpes and doesn't want to give him it unless he really wants to be with her.
:ibhefucksahookerduringthebachelorparty:
if she had such strong beliefs against sex before marriage, she shouldn't have done it in the first place. it's just not right to give a taste and then lock it up. as others mentioned, there is something else going on here. does your friend refuse to wear a condom or something else that might have turned her off from the idea? anyone have an std? maybe she fucked someone else on the side and caught herpes and doesn't want to give him it unless he really wants to be with her.
:ibhefucksahookerduringthebachelorparty:
#42
No way i would get married to someone like that.....sex is something men really NEED in a relationship. Once women realize that most men wont stray....
I bet your friend strays ...or ends the relationship if she continues in her ways
I bet your friend strays ...or ends the relationship if she continues in her ways
#43
Originally Posted by PimpCL23
thats it!
she doesnt wanna do it till shes married.... and they werent planning to do that for another 2 YEARS!
she doesnt wanna do it till shes married.... and they werent planning to do that for another 2 YEARS!
#44
Originally Posted by mypoorTSX
Female here...
I agree that it is wrong of her to cut him off all of a sudden and it could be some of the things below.
1) She's insecure and wants to know how much he loves her and to see if he can hold out to prove it. (This is the man she wants to marry, so she wants to be sure).
2) It seems as though she wants to get married sooner then they planned and is forcing him to do so. (Faster they get married, the sooner he gets laid).
In my opinion, a year is too long to go without...I would've been gone a long time ago. Emotional connection is one thing, but BOTH men and women have physical needs which need to be satisfied in a timely manner.
I agree that it is wrong of her to cut him off all of a sudden and it could be some of the things below.
1) She's insecure and wants to know how much he loves her and to see if he can hold out to prove it. (This is the man she wants to marry, so she wants to be sure).
2) It seems as though she wants to get married sooner then they planned and is forcing him to do so. (Faster they get married, the sooner he gets laid).
In my opinion, a year is too long to go without...I would've been gone a long time ago. Emotional connection is one thing, but BOTH men and women have physical needs which need to be satisfied in a timely manner.
female from socal?! wow! lol
#46
Originally Posted by PimpCL23
good advise from u guys!
we'll see what happens.
pray for me that he doesnt hump my leg!
we'll see what happens.
pray for me that he doesnt hump my leg!
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#47
Originally Posted by Whiskers
Good luck...On the bright side, your friends problems are nowhere near as bad as this poor guys.....
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Damn, and I thought I had problems that time I left the cap off the toothpaste.
#48
If she cant be mature and communicate on why she doesnt want sex then he should just move on.
Then again indian chicks are weird that way when it comes to sex.
Then again indian chicks are weird that way when it comes to sex.
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#49
Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
If she cant be mature and communicate on why she doesnt want sex then he should just move on.
Then again indian chicks are weird that way when it comes to sex.
Then again indian chicks are weird that way when it comes to sex.
#55
I believe the indian culture is stricter about these kinds of things. Probably shouldnt have had sex to begin with. Perhaps getting caught in the act shamed/embarrassed her into going cold turkey, so tell him its your fault.
#56
My uncle was married for 15 years. At year 12 because of some woman sex drive problem his wife lost all her sex drive. He made it 3 years without then looked elsewhere & was caught by his wife. She divorced him & took half his money. Almost bankrupting him.
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Originally Posted by v6cord2k5
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Originally Posted by leedogg
I believe the indian culture is stricter about these kinds of things. Probably shouldnt have had sex to begin with. Perhaps getting caught in the act shamed/embarrassed her into going cold turkey, so tell him its your fault.
i backed out slowly.. didnt see a thing... didnt want to...
LOL!
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Originally Posted by fuzzy02CLS
My uncle was married for 15 years. At year 12 because of some woman sex drive problem his wife lost all her sex drive. He made it 3 years without then looked elsewhere & was caught by his wife. She divorced him & took half his money. Almost bankrupting him.
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Originally Posted by fuzzy02CLS
They both were in their 40's. It was some medical condition she had.
#63
Originally Posted by PimpCL23
well i didnt see anything.... i opened the door and heard a lil moaning and then he said "huh!"
i backed out slowly.. didnt see a thing... didnt want to...
LOL!
i backed out slowly.. didnt see a thing... didnt want to...
LOL!
#64
Originally Posted by PimpCL23
if she felt that way.... then she shouldnt have done it with him in the first place....rite????
#66
Originally Posted by v6cord2k5
if you didnt even feel like getting a small glimpse of her bare tatas or other such things then either something is wrong with you or she is not worthy... I will assume the latter.
why does something have to be wrong with him maybe hes not a piece of shit and sees it as disrespect.....
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Originally Posted by v6cord2k5
if you didnt even feel like getting a small glimpse of her bare tatas or other such things then either something is wrong with you or she is not worthy... I will assume the latter.
plus.... i didnt kno who was on top... sooo... i really didnt wanna see my friend's wang or anything
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Originally Posted by BoostedJack
Yes. She cannot lead someone on and decide no more sex. That is manipulation and entrapment
#69
I knew they were Indian by the title of the thread. So obvious growing up with a lot of them.
I'm not sure how the brown guys can put up wtih it.
A relationship can work if sex stops or has never begun. For me personally it really means nothing to a relationship. As long as I'm getting my nut off somewhere with some decent hole rated 6 or above. It's easier like that because from my experiences, women seem to think I am only using them for sex, which is Not always the cases, but sometimes is.
In your friends cases, he can either fuck other hoes, and when he gets married he can start to bang her and eventually fuck other hoes, just masturbate until his hand falls off.
Is your friend dumb enough to make such an investment as to marry a broad before seeing it's previous performance or without getting a sample of the merchandise?
Why doesn't he just flush his money down the toilet. Cause that's what it sounds like he's doing right now.
I'm not sure how the brown guys can put up wtih it.
A relationship can work if sex stops or has never begun. For me personally it really means nothing to a relationship. As long as I'm getting my nut off somewhere with some decent hole rated 6 or above. It's easier like that because from my experiences, women seem to think I am only using them for sex, which is Not always the cases, but sometimes is.
In your friends cases, he can either fuck other hoes, and when he gets married he can start to bang her and eventually fuck other hoes, just masturbate until his hand falls off.
Is your friend dumb enough to make such an investment as to marry a broad before seeing it's previous performance or without getting a sample of the merchandise?
Why doesn't he just flush his money down the toilet. Cause that's what it sounds like he's doing right now.
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I relationship can work without sex, its just hard! my gf and I stopped in July because we are "religious" quote unquote. He will find out if he reallt loves her or not. and it is hard to give up after you got it even with Jesus, but if I can do it he can do it. GODSPEED
#71
Originally Posted by supaman8118
I relationship can work without sex, its just hard! my gf and I stopped in July because we are "religious" quote unquote. He will find out if he reallt loves her or not. and it is hard to give up after you got it even with Jesus, but if I can do it he can do it. GODSPEED
#72
Originally Posted by 97BlackAckCL
I know I'm late, but no it's called marriage
yes LOL, I agree with that. I experienced that 1st hand. From observation, most long relationships (whether married or not), dwindle down to be friends livng together. That is no fun. Totally suck to go to bed at night, kiss each other good night and that is that.
Now, when I am with someone, when we turn in, there is no question about playing "hide the salami". The older I get, the more fun sex seems to be since both parties get so uninhibited...
#73
the only way a relationship can work w/o sex is if both parties are fine with this. since your friend obviously isn't, the relationship will eventually fail, even though he's trying his hardest for it to work (waiting a year already! dang, props. he's a better man than most).
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Originally Posted by supaman8118
...no.... because have sex w/o marriage isn't right.
u guys already did the deed so arent u "FUCKED" in the eyes of god anyway??
im not very religous or anything.... but doesnt most religon teach forgiveness? soooo... even if u did do it... and continue to do it, shouldnt u be forgivin in the end?
i say get ur nut on with the one u love!
#76
Originally Posted by PimpCL23
well it seems like ur in the same position as my friend....
u guys already did the deed so arent u "FUCKED" in the eyes of god anyway??
im not very religous or anything.... but doesnt most religon teach forgiveness? soooo... even if u did do it... and continue to do it, shouldnt u be forgivin in the end?
i say get ur nut on with the one u love!
u guys already did the deed so arent u "FUCKED" in the eyes of god anyway??
im not very religous or anything.... but doesnt most religon teach forgiveness? soooo... even if u did do it... and continue to do it, shouldnt u be forgivin in the end?
i say get ur nut on with the one u love!
#77
Maybe...it just depend on how long the sex stop. 1 yr is long and he has to wait for 2 yrs...that's 3 yrs. It doesnt matter how much you love the girl, if you aint having sex.....the more you couldnt have something you want, the more you will do what it takes to get it. He's going to be cheating soon...
#78
She seems like she's hiding something if her initial reaction to him asking is so aggressive. She's saying that this is how she feels, and he needs to accept it, end of discussion. (selfishness - the exact opposite of what marriage stands for) If this is how she really feels and its for the right reason, she should be able to have a civil conversation about it.
How does your friend feel about games? Marrying this girl guarantees a lifetime of them. This is a sneak preview of what his marriage will be like.... the signs are all around him, he should stop and look at one every once in a while.
How does your friend feel about games? Marrying this girl guarantees a lifetime of them. This is a sneak preview of what his marriage will be like.... the signs are all around him, he should stop and look at one every once in a while.
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