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Old 11-25-2003, 08:39 AM
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Being blunt and straight forward

Has it worked for you guys? I just straight up ask them if they wanna go out or not. Its worked a few times, got some digits, and sometimes it hasn't. Do women prefer to hear a guy be blunt and straight up about things, or be all smooth and come up with a good line or someshit? I hate having that "what if" bullshit feeling, so I say fuck it, and ask. If nothing happens, at least I knew what was the outcome of it. How about you guys and playas out there? And ladies, all comments/questions are ALWAYS welcomed.
Old 11-25-2003, 08:53 AM
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I'm always blunt about everything as you can tell. That's my attitude.
If I see a girl somewhere and want her number I usually just ask. Walk up, introduce and BS.
Old 11-25-2003, 10:33 AM
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Being smooth does not include a "good line."

Girls would rather you flirt a bit, but if you're no good, just ask directly.
Old 11-25-2003, 11:24 AM
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i am always straight forwrad and brutally honest... It works for tose who appreciate it.. those are the girls i like.. I doesn't work for the girls that are selfcentered and couldnt give a shit about anything but themselves...
thats my experience!
Old 11-27-2003, 08:00 PM
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the things that eclipse23 and Casper said are most effective on me...i dont have time for lines or games...if you're interested say so, honesty will get you alot further than a cute pick-up line.
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I've nver bullshat with I have been interested in a girl, though its usually backfired for me for some reason Whe it does work its sweet.

My problem is where/how to meet new women and not come off as a creep/psycho, I have a hard time deciding when to progress form friendly banter (if I can even get that going, I can in class, what have you but I can never make that happen with a random chick in a bar or at a club or party) to asking for her phone number or if she wants to get together. Most of the women I have dated made it clear to me that they were interested before I asked for their number, if they didn't just offer it.
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im always blunt and straight forward, so i appreciate the same.

i hate people who play games and cant say whats on their mind.. its annoying
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Just ask them..tell them how you feel. Lately I've been telling guys what I think of them, and if they're feelin it GREAT..if not, time to bounce!

That you you don't get stuck wondering how the other person feels, or trying to decypher their behavior!

So far it's been working really well for me!
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be blunt but in a nice way....being rude and blunt wont do a damn thing for ya
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Originally posted by Miss iVTEC
Just ask them..tell them how you feel. Lately I've been telling guys what I think of them, and if they're feelin it GREAT..if not, time to bounce!

That you you don't get stuck wondering how the other person feels, or trying to decypher their behavior!

So far it's been working really well for me!

HOLLA! being blunt with guys is the way to go, fuck all this "oh he doesnt like me"
..pshhhh...if a guy/girl isnt feeling you peace out...there will be one out there that is...
Old 11-29-2003, 05:38 PM
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it either works REALLY well and you're in.... or you crash and burn
Old 11-29-2003, 08:00 PM
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Originally posted by esCarbonie
it either works REALLY well and you're in.... or you crash and burn
yea but thats with everything in life...
Old 11-30-2003, 09:22 AM
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Yet again, I wish you girls were the norm and not the exception to the rule. Not to sound chauvinistic but it would save me so much headache and money...
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