Hey everyone, this is my first post, but I have been reading on this site for a while. Anyway, here is my situation. I have been with my girl for 5 years now, but looks like we haven't been communicating to well. Our love life is deterioating (sp?) and frequently we have a lot of fights.

Anyway, since last month her cousin has been spending some time with me. We don't do anything intimate. Just go out and talk most of the time. We also have met to play tennis since we had warm weather. Anyway, she is become more and more attractive. Needless to say, she is pretty hot. Beautiful long hair and toned body and a great booty.

Anyway, last night we went out for a drink and I am telling her about my problems about my girl (her cousin). And all of a sudden, she got up and kiss me in the lips. I didn't know what to do... stunned, surprise, happy, horny.. ... She then, told me that she really like me and want to give me a "good" time at her place.

The alcohol is really working now and I went back to her place and we kiss some more and start touching each other and when she start unzipping my pants and kneeling down, that's when I had to stop. I couldn't do it, but I really wanted to since it has been a while that I didn't get some.

Sorry for the long post, but what should I do, need some advise.

 

This belongs in the "Sex and Relationships" forum, not here.

You gotta do what makes you happy man. Also, be aware, it could be a set-up.

 

Riiight.

Wrong forum...

 

Another first post in D&R
I'll never figure this stuff out

 

:ibrenametodatingzine:

 

Sounds like you need to break up with your GF.

Also sounds like you GF and her cousin are about to go to war.

Enjoy.

 

Threesome????

 

If you weren't gay, you would have let her give you head.

 

And since your not yet married, its technically not a Sin.

 

Isn't pre-marital sex a sin? Might as well not stop now. 1 or 20, it's all the same.

 

Could your girl be using her cousin to bait you to see what you would do?


Forgot to ask, did you choose your username based solely on your current situation?

 

But its Oral sex.

 

Right. That doesn't count. Just like anal. We had this discussion a couple weeks ago.

 

Yes, but if his "love life is deteriorating" and "it has been a while since he got some" I would think he's already committed that sin.

Seems like he thinks he was about to commit another sin... but, since he's not married... no other sins will occur. Just the same one over and over and over...

Oh, and my advice for the OP is to talk with your girlfriend, and if you can't work it out, move on. If you kissed another chick and even entertained going any further there are issues... and if you can't work them out then it may be time to break up.

 

Sorry mods posting in the wrong forum. Anyway, I don't think it is a setup because if I didn't stop we would've gone all the way. Anyway, she just called me saying that she wants to see me tonight and she send me a few pics of her in skanky lingerie. Should I share with everyone here??

 

:ibtheban:

IP check on its way.

 

This guy has to read the rules.

Of course you're supposed to show us the pics. You just can't post them. They have to go through PM. :ibthisturnsintoanother30pagethreadofpmrequests:



Might it be Whiskers playing around?

 

Not whiskers but there are a couple of members he shares an IP with, so.....

 

Where is when you need him?

 

Who?

 

wow, what a 1st post.

Sounds better than the idiot the other day looking for a hook-up

 

end yourself.

 

We know who you are.

 

?

 

We still don't

 

We? We? No we don't.

 

out him

 

We havent been communicating = Im bored and want new booty.

Oh stfu and go for it. You might as well break it off with your current g/f...but I think the cousin thing is going to be major drama.

 

It's ok. He's the brother of a current member. If he wants to say who that is, that's his perogative.

 

I hate to break it to you but if you made out with her cousin then you have already cheated on her, which means that there is nothing to contemplate. You have to break up with your girlfriend and since you have already cheated....do her cousin.

 

Obviously, you have already cheated. And please don't tell me it was the alcohol, because the fact that you even responded meant you were sober enough. You already found her attractive from the very start but you were in denial and just didn't do anything out of guilt.

Make a decision. Break up with your girl or tell her about what happened and see if she's willing to stay with you (which is very unlikely).

 

I still think we have a poster, but we might as well take off he mask.



If this isn't the guy already screwed around. He might as well come clean to the gf (accept the consequences and her fury) and persue the cousin. Things have fallen apart with the gf and there seems to be mutual attraction and interest with the cousin. I do agree that this cousin might open up a whole 'nother can of worms, but it seems like he may think it's worth it.

 

I am not here to fuck around, but obviously so people think so. That's alright. I respect all your opinions and will take some of them into consideration. I think I am done with this post. Mods, please closed. Thanks.

 

Then the only thing left to say is....

 

You're not getting out of this one that easily.

I definately call unless:

 

teh ban yet?

 

IP Lookup FTW!!

edit - ooops, just realized it was locked.