I was just thinking about an awkward situation I was in when I was with my girl. She had a really flirtatious friend I hated being around because she would do stuff like tickle and poke me while I was driving. Now my girl never got mad because she would say "Oh that's just how she is" but it made me feel weird because most girls who touch me have some kind of crush or something on me.

So here was one of the situations. I sit down across from my girl and we are waiting for said friend. I put the 3rd set of silverware over on my girls side so when her friend came she would sit there. So the girl shows up, grabs the silverware, and sits next to me. Then throughout the dinner she tickles me a couple of times...which was weird.

Anywho you guys ever get into those situations? Do any of your girls friends do this and your girl not care? What do you do to get out of them? I am bored leave me alone.

 

3some ??

 

Words right out of my head.


Mention it to the GF JJ. Bring it up jokingly somehow.

 

dont bring it up, we know exactly what youre doing when you 'jokingly' bring it up. I dont have any good advice on what to do with said flirty friend, but bringing up a threesome with a girl youre dating and like, will only cause a bunch of problems.

 

Dammit.

Wait, so is this GF serious?

 

Her friend is being an attention whore. Tell your girlfriend it weirds you out. She doesnt need to act on it and tell her friend to quit it or anything, but at least she knows where you stand.

 

But I bet he enjoys the attention.

 

Who wouldnt?

 

Exactly, thats why he won't say anything and has only started this thread to brag about how he has women all over him.

 

I dont know about the 3-some. On the surface the situation definately seems to have 3-some potential, but the problem is the gf is a virgin right? This really makes the 3-some almost impossible, at least at first.

Unless, in some werid way she would feel more "comfortable" with her friend there to take some pressure of her. Its unlikely, but possible. If this is the case though, there may be a very small window of opportunity here. Maybe her friend can "show her" how to give you head, etc. Ease into it and then if you are lucky, you are banging them both. But its a very tricky situation of course.

You could blow the whole thing and lose your gf. BUT ... if you pull it off ... you will be an AZ legend. Keep us posted. Dont let us down.

 

lol, i think dom nailed it

 

Some girl flirting with you "who does it all the time" isnt exactly something to get excited over.

Its like boasting girls were hitting on you in a strip club.

 

Hey, I didn't start the thread.

 

I always love it when I hear guys do this.

 

/thread`

 

What kind of girl doesnt care when another girl (friend or not) is flirtin with her man?


JJ bring up the 3some idea to the friend first and see where she stands.

 

How do you recommend bringing up a threesome then?

 

Suite
that's what D&R is for, that or completely embarassing yourself and getting your name changed.

PS-This is my ex girl, it is no longer a problem except her friend is going to start coming to my school next year but she is annoying and an attention whore so no way that's working. Just wanted to know if others have dealt with it. Not how I need to deal with it.

 

Oh.

I don't see a problem.

And why did you break up with the virgin? Or has that already been covered in another thread?

 

No this wasn't the virgin, this was my ex I broke up with in January. The virgin is still cool chillin. I just wanted some other folks to post stories....you guys are always entertaining so I couldn't just ask without posting a storie of my own.

 

Just slap her in the tit. She'll get the hint.

 

Not necessarilly the same as you but I have the "random dude has crush on my friend" awkwardness all the time....and its FUCKING annoying.

Since I moved to Arizona all of my friends are girls. It's just easier to pick up girls in bars and around town than it is guys I guess Anyway, two girls in particular have become my best friends and we hang out and treat each other like brother and sister. Well, whenever a 3rd dude enters the mix, he naturally wants to hook up with one of them or both and starts flirting relentlasly.

The two girls and I flirt constantly as it is so when he starts laying on the game, its usually just annoying and awkward. It's happened a few times where we'll invite an acquaintance from work out with us and he tries to play and joke like we do. When he does though the girls just shy away and cling to me so I get stuck with the awkward "sorry dude" look on my face as they ignore him the rest of the night. Not to mention now I have to entertain him because the few times it has happened, they've totally locked up around the dude and now I gotta figure out how to make him feel welcome.

 

Bring one of your guys friends out with you to be your buffer...Dont bang the best friend, as consequences will follow, people will say blah blah blah, you dont respect your g\f and you need to tell her the truth...which will only lead to more problems. But seriously...if shes NOT your friend, just tell the bitch to quit, and she should get the point...but if she is your friend...your gonna have to tell her that you're in a commited and respectful relationship with your girlfriend, and that nothing can come between you and her for the moment...If you break up with the current g\f sometime soon...then you already have this broad on backup.

 

gawd you make me so horny...

 

OHHH GOD the awkward Join in
I seriously hate that.
I am guessing its the same as when a guy tries to add into your joke and its already over. I am like that with my female friends because I am allowed to say dirty shit because I am "michael" and they expect it so when a guy joins it is just weird because he isn't me or established that kind of relationship yet.
It goes hand in hand with the double date one upper. Where just by some off chance I would make a silly comment to my girl, my boy will try to make a sillier comment which ends up being awkward. So I have learned just not to try to joke.

If I am ever in Arizona I am hanging out with you

 

Wait, so you're saying that girl DIDN'T really like me???

Mother fuckers...

 

what about me

Good thing you still aren't dating your ex, because no matter how you try to explain how her friends actions are affecting you. From my experience, no matter what you do, you will be in the wrong according to GF.

If you say you don't like the attention, your GF would think you hate her friends and then be mad at you.

If you say you don't mind, then the GF thinks you are trying to bang her friend and then be mad at you.

If you avoid the issue, same as above, she will get mad at you. Good thing you aren't dating that chick anymore.



and finally, nothing beats the "cool guy" aka the new schmoe who tries way too hard. Arizona is full of those kids.

 

LOL at your friend tickling you.. what are you a big teddy-bear girls luv to mess /touch you~