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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted by zeroday
isnt there a forum with a bunch of gay dudes you can talk to that understand this crap. seems strange asking a bunch of straight people about this. kinda grossing me out too to be honest...the whole man on man kissing etc etc...yuk.
You don't have to think about it. Just pretend that one of the guys involved is a girl in your mind.

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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 02:16 PM
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isnt there a forum with a bunch of gay dudes you can talk to that understand this crap. seems strange asking a bunch of straight people about this. kinda grossing me out too to be honest...the whole man on man kissing etc etc...yuk.
WTF is wrong w/ you man, if you're offended by the lifestyle choice of Y, then STOP READING the fawking thread. If there's one thing that I like about this forum is that its members comprised of people w/ different backgrounds, cultures, religions and even sexual orientation. I don't even know why I bother to response to your idiotic comments.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted by zeroday
isnt there a forum with a bunch of gay dudes you can talk to that understand this crap. seems strange asking a bunch of straight people about this. kinda grossing me out too to be honest...the whole man on man kissing etc etc...yuk.
This kind of question has the same response no matter if it's a straight or homosexual relationship. Your opinion of whether it's right or wrong shouldn't be based on their sexual orientation.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 02:20 PM
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Originally Posted by zeroday
isnt there a forum with a bunch of gay dudes you can talk to that understand this crap. seems strange asking a bunch of straight people about this. kinda grossing me out too to be honest...the whole man on man kissing etc etc...yuk.
Yeah, you better watch out. Homosexual cooties can be spread over the Internet.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 02:24 PM
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Originally Posted by youngTL
You don't have to think about it. Just pretend that one of the guys involved is a girl in your mind.

I'm surprised/glad that you weren't offended by his comments, even I were offended by the close-minded attitude that was behind the comments.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 02:27 PM
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I'm surprised/glad that you weren't offended by his comments, even I were offended by the close-minded attitude that was behind the comments.
I was also playing on the fact that in every single thread I post, people think I'm a girl. So I found it funny
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 02:33 PM
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Originally Posted by jt24yo
WTF is wrong w/ you man, if you're offended by the lifestyle choice of Y, then STOP READING the fawking thread. If there's one thing that I like about this forum is that its members comprised of people w/ different backgrounds, cultures, religions and even sexual orientation. I don't even know why I bother to response to your idiotic comments.
oh no, i've pissed off the PC police.

fuck you. its a gay relationship. my point was, since it's obviously not ok for a 21 year old girl to date a 16 yr old guy, maybe some gay forum somewhere will have useful input since this situation. i dont give a fuck if everyone here is gay.

and yes, guys fucking/kissing guys grosses me out. i just dont want to hear about it. if that makes me ignorant, then so be it. i have no problem with gay people, i just dont want to hear about the sex crap that goes on between them. my first reaction is to be offended by it. im not going to apologize for that.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 02:35 PM
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Originally Posted by TLover
This kind of question has the same response no matter if it's a straight or homosexual relationship. Your opinion of whether it's right or wrong shouldn't be based on their sexual orientation.
totally diagree. a 21 year old guy shouldnt date a 16 yr old girl. A 21 year old girl shouldnt date a 16yr old guy. since the 'rules' might be different for gay people, i just suggested he shouldn't be making decisions by what you heterosexual idiots are telling him.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 02:36 PM
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OMG i said heterosexual idiots...i must hate heterosexual people too.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 02:36 PM
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Originally Posted by youngTL
To clarify things, he's the friend of the guy who's like a little brother to me. He's gay just because he is. He met me though Brock (the guy who is like a brother). He's a year older than him. Brock is 15, Sam is 16, almost 17. The age of consent in Canada is 14 ( ). The sad thing is, Sam is more sexually experienced than I am. He had his first date when he was 13! I was 17 before I even kissed a guy. We can hold an intellectual conversation, he's been through a lot and has aged in his mind a lot more than other people his age. BUT it still feels weird. I have until wednesday to give him my answer, because that's when he's going to call me back. I think I'm going to tell him that because he's not in the same "section" of life as me, I don't think it would be a good idea to date him. Things would just fall apart too fast (I'm not sure they would but I'm going to say they would). To clarify, Sam is the one who wants to date me.

man i waited until 18(almost 19) to got the taste of it
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 02:40 PM
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Originally Posted by zeroday
totally diagree. a 21 year old guy shouldnt date a 16 yr old girl. A 21 year old girl shouldnt date a 16yr old guy. since the 'rules' might be different for gay people, i just suggested he shouldn't be making decisions by what you heterosexual idiots are telling him.
What rules are you referring to? So you're saying it isn't OK for a 21-year-old to date a 16-year-old in a heterosexual relationship. OK. So in a gay relationship, YOUR opinion about a 21-year-old dating a 16-year-old would change?
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted by zeroday
totally diagree. a 21 year old guy shouldnt date a 16 yr old girl. A 21 year old girl shouldnt date a 16yr old guy. since the 'rules' might be different for gay people, i just suggested he shouldn't be making decisions by what you heterosexual idiots are telling him.
The "rules" are almost the same. The only difference is that guys are more agressive and persistent. Let me tell you what else happened. We were all out at a dance for all ages (no alcohol was served there), and one of Sam's friends made a bet with Brock that he could score someone out of my group of friends. (In other words, a different 16 year old, chris, made a bet that he could score either me, or one of my friends, most of who are 19 or older). I hope that gives you an idea. I'm glad that Sam wasn't part of that betting thing, but it doesn't matter anyway because I've decided I shouldn't give him a piece of me either way.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 02:42 PM
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 02:53 PM
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It's just funny that Zeroday found the discussion to be "digusted" and yet he couldn't stay away. Com'on Z, come out of the closet and play w/ the boys, it's OK, it's 2005 now. Most normal open-minded people are accepting of the alternative lifestyle of the G.L.T.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 03:05 PM
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Originally Posted by jt24yo
It's just funny that Zeroday found the discussion to be "digusted" and yet he couldn't stay away. Com'on Z, come out of the closet and play w/ the boys, it's OK, it's 2005 now. Most normal open-minded people are accepting of the alternative lifestyle of the G.L.T.

are you illiterate? i said i dont like to hear about details of their sexual activity.

it grossed me out in 1980 and it still grosses me out in 2005. im so tired of you liberal politically correct fucks trying to tell me how i should feel about something. try not being such a sheep once and a while you oprah watching lemming.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 03:06 PM
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Originally Posted by jt24yo
It's just funny that Zeroday found the discussion to be "digusted" and yet he couldn't stay away. Com'on Z, come out of the closet and play w/ the boys, it's OK, it's 2005 now. Most normal open-minded people are accepting of the alternative lifestyle of the G.L.T.
I'm grossed out by all things pussy, but that doesn't mean I can't handle reading about it.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 03:08 PM
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Originally Posted by youngTL
I'm grossed out by all things pussy, but that doesn't mean I can't handle reading about it.

I think pussy is pretty nasty also, and I am straight

but ass is nastier...so I take the lesser of two evils.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 03:08 PM
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Originally Posted by youngTL
I'm grossed out by all things pussy, but that doesn't mean I can't handle reading about it.
You fuck guys in the ass. I find that disgusting. Even MORE disgusting than i think it is for a guy to fuck a girl in the ass.

Sorry but i dont care if you're gay/straight, ass fucking is gross.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 03:10 PM
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Originally Posted by zeroday
You fuck guys in the ass. I find that disgusting. Even MORE disgusting than i think it is for a guy to fuck a girl in the ass.

Sorry but i dont care if you're gay/straight, ass fucking is gross.
Well, I believe YoungTL has said that he finds anal sex disgusting, too.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 03:11 PM
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Well, I believe YoungTL has said that he finds anal sex disgusting, too.
That's right, I did say that. I'm NOT down with teh
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 03:15 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
I think pussy is pretty nasty also, and I am straight

but ass is nastier...so I take the lesser of two evils.
I don't think people can help what turns them on. I'm guessing muff diving isn't your cup of tea either.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 03:29 PM
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Soopa summed up my feelings about homosexuality here. If you don't like it, tough shit. :

https://acurazine.com/forums/ramblings-12/im-home-work-youre-all-grounded-299590/
I think it's a safe assumption that the vast majority of us... no matter what race... aren't too thrilled with homosexuality.

Let's face it... it is NOT an accepted form of behavior no matter what GQ, MTV, or uh TMK might have you believe.

However, this IS only a community of car owners. This isn't the place to draw a line in the stand or make some political stance.

Unlike racism, I do not expect you to ACCEPT homosexuality. I don't expect you to respect it either.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 03:32 PM
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Originally Posted by zeroday
Soopa summed up my feelings about homosexuality here. If you don't like it, tough shit. :

https://acurazine.com/forums/showthread.php?t=299590
Nobody is expecting you to accept or embrace homosexuality. But if it turns you off so much, why the fuck do you keep posting in this thread? It's tough shit for us that you don't like gay people or their lifestyle. So let me be the first to say: Go the fuck away.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 03:37 PM
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Originally Posted by TLover
Nobody is expecting you to accept or embrace homosexuality. But if it turns you off so much, why the fuck do you keep posting in this thread? It's tough shit for us that you don't like gay people or their lifestyle. So let me be the first to say: Go the fuck away.
ill post wherever and whenever i want. and let me be the first to say, eat a dick.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 03:39 PM
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ill post wherever and whenever i want. and let me be the first to say, eat a dick.
No problem. But you're a walking contradiction. Gay people turn you off, but you keep posting in a thread about a gay relationship. Sounds to me like it doesn't turn you off as much as you think.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 03:48 PM
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Guys, guys. No need to get all heated about it. I'm not some sensitive pussy who can't handle WORDS OVER TEH GODDAMN INTERNET!!!!1
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 03:57 PM
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I am starting to have no problem with the gays, as long as they keep to themselves.

Which is what he is doing, he is just bringing up a D & R topic like anyone else would. In his case it is just homosexual. He isn't trying to "convert" anyone, or make them accept what he does.

I still think what they do its rather nasty, but they obviously think what we do is nasty.

and I hate eating the box...like I said, I think I have only gone down on 8-10 girls. Girls that I actually liked and wanted to keep around.

The one-nighters don't even get a licking.

Just like I said earlier. thats what I'd do if I had a 16 year old girl.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 04:00 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
... I hate eating the box...The one-nighters don't even get a licking.

Just like I said earlier. thats what I'd do if I had a 16 year old girl.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 04:01 PM
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Guys, guys. No need to get all heated about it. I'm not some sensitive pussy who can't handle WORDS OVER TEH GODDAMN INTERNET!!!!1
Sorry but people like him bug me. Not that he doesn't like gay people, but that he says he doesn't like them, is turned off by them and finds them generally disgusting but manages to keep hanging around the discussion.

BTW, I don't think it be right to date the 16-year-old when you're 21.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 04:12 PM
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I agree that you should stay away from the 16 year old.

Personally, I like women and hope to give this a shot with my gf:
https://acurazine.com/forums/acurazines-hall-fame-284/method-71855/

If you ever decide you want to try it, that thread seems like good advice (just substitute gender where appropriate)
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 04:33 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
I am starting to have no problem with the gays, as long as they keep to themselves.

Which is what he is doing, he is just bringing up a D & R topic like anyone else would. In his case it is just homosexual. He isn't trying to "convert" anyone, or make them accept what he does.

I still think what they do its rather nasty, but they obviously think what we do is nasty.

and I hate eating the box...like I said, I think I have only gone down on 8-10 girls. Girls that I actually liked and wanted to keep around.

The one-nighters don't even get a licking.

Just like I said earlier. thats what I'd do if I had a 16 year old girl.

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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 04:38 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
I am starting to have no problem with the gays, as long as they keep to themselves.

Which is what he is doing, he is just bringing up a D & R topic like anyone else would. In his case it is just homosexual. He isn't trying to "convert" anyone, or make them accept what he does.

I still think what they do its rather nasty, but they obviously think what we do is nasty.

and I hate eating the box...like I said, I think I have only gone down on 8-10 girls. Girls that I actually liked and wanted to keep around.

The one-nighters don't even get a licking.

Just like I said earlier. thats what I'd do if I had a 16 year old girl.
Thanks. This is more of the type of conversation I was expecting.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 04:41 PM
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I agree that you should stay away from the 16 year old.

Personally, I like women and hope to give this a shot with my gf:
https://acurazine.com/forums/showthread.php?t=71855

If you ever decide you want to try it, that thread seems like good advice (just substitute gender where appropriate)
It is good advice for something I don't think I'll be doing. Besides, I can always watch Sue Johanson on the Sunday Night Sex Show
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 04:43 PM
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 04:46 PM
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Thanks. This is more of the type of conversation I was expecting.
Good, let's keep it that way on all fronts.........if we can keep the complete sexual orientation bashing to a minimum that would be appreciated.

I'm guilty of throwing the gay term around quite a bit, but don't hate on any gay individuals.

Because frankly, I fucking hate mostly everyone in some form or another.

But I'm rather fair around these parts (in most cases).
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 04:49 PM
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Good, let's keep it that way on all fronts.........if we can keep the complete sexual orientation bashing to a minimum that would be appreciated.

I'm guilty of throwing the gay term around quite a bit, but don't hate on any gay individuals.

Because frankly, I fucking hate mostly everyone in some form or another.

But I'm rather fair around these parts (in most cases).
Good. I don't go bashing on straight people.

As long as someone doesn't yell "fag" to my face in a derogatory way in person, then I'm fine. Otherwise, someone is gonna get their ass kicked.
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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 04:54 PM
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[QUOTE=Beltfed]Good, let's keep it that way on all fronts........Because frankly, I fucking hate mostly everyone in some form or another[QUOTE]

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Old Apr 25, 2005 | 04:56 PM
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Nice to know Belfed, and to think that I almost voted for you in the fav mod thread,
Relax, I like you.......and in any regard, you "almost" voted for me.

The last time I checked, "almost" doesn't count.

Those that I have issues with, I'm sure know it.
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