So the beginning of soph year (this year) I started dating this girl. We went out for 3 weeks and I just kinda dont like her anymore. I broke up with her and now shes crying and begging me to come back but I dont want to. And its only been 3 weeks and shes making such a big deal out of it. Should I give it another try or just move on?

 

If you don't want to get back together with her, don't. Plain and simple.

 

i wouldnt go back. I mean if she is being this needy after you two broke up just imagine what she would be like if you to got back together. She needs to move on.

 

yeah and there are a bunch of things that really annoy me. For example, I can tell that she is partially going out with me cause I am from scarsdale, and I can also tell that shes not comfortable with the fact that my roommate has a lot more money than me and her friend is going out with him.

I know that I cant get back together with her but shes done nothing wrong so I feel bad breaking up

 

if it's not there, it's just not there...can't force it...

if she can't deal with it, that's her problem....she needs to get out of 8th grade mode....

 

be an asshole and force her to leave you alone

 

She'll get over it

 

you shouldnt feel bad, you just done feel that way towards her that is it. nothing else to be said about it. she has to grow up and get over it.

 

If you're in Music City, and she's all over you being from Scarsdale, then you must be going to Vandy !

If so, then she's just giving you standard fare Southern Belle drama - don't take it too seriously. Southern girls are a different breed.

If you want to test this out, tell her your parents are moving to a townhouse in Murfreesboro, then watch her run.

 

Did you yet?

 

very good question.

 

hit it one more 'gain, then quit it, its the right thing to do

 

the entire basis of our relationship

 

If you've had enough of it, move along. But if its stick around a little longer.

 

Sounds like she just wants someone to be with, suga daddy or something. Shouldn't matter who has what if she was really into you.

Don't feel bad if its not working out for you. I mean you can be nice about this - tell her she really is a great girl, blah blah add in some more bullshit but just not working out for you. Then stick in the parents moving to town part and she'll run for the hills.

 

Thanks for the advice guys, I just needed some support from people outside of my group of friends (they all agree with you).

I dont think she gets that we are broken up even though I specifically said "its done" a bunch of times because she keeps asking me to hang out. Im just like

 

I second that!

 

don't be a wuss. move on. if you take her back your will regret having to deal with her.

 

"going out" I havent heard that since junior high. Did you also "ask her out?"

no offense of course, just brings back memories

 

:PIITB: then punch her in the head for being stoopid.

 

well yes all of this dumb drama brings me back to high school, one reason i WONT go back.