So some of us just dont have it with the ladies, others we choose to stand back for lack of a better word..more money, and others..well we want the one. But since all of us...are out looking...you might as well have some fun! A girl likes a guy with confidence..but remember..they can spot a playa.(unless they are a slut)

So grab a nice cold one and take a lesson..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IShHOub-PO0

 

1.) there's no such thing as "the one" - that is a myth. but compatibility and attraction on a physical/emotional/spiritual level? yes. that can be offered by many women. not just by one.

2.) yes women like men with confidence (strength) but that confidence has to be real confidence. not falsified cocky/arrogant b.s. conversation sprinkled with insults.

3.) a "playa" is just a man that enjoys women and makes no excuses for his actions. women don't really hate these guys, they simply look at that behavior as a threat and thus these social contrivances exist.

4.) you can increase your success with women exponentially. thinking you're stuck in the same ruts you've been in your whole life is absolutely 100% false. however, it takes effort. for some guys it takes a major effort and a complete change of life.

5.) and yes, fun is the key

 

the girl that will smith gave the $ to is

 

that movie was aight

 

These two things describe me, except I don't use the term playa. I merely stay single so I can enjoy my life and sex life at this time, the way I see fit with no "deserved" drama. Drama will always come, but they can't say I violated. They can only say they don't like it.

I don't like to think of myself as arrogant. I merely have an awareness and love of self that radiates confidence to the onlooker (woman). I have my shit together and they like that. My sense of humor, overall congeniality, and innate charm promotes the gregarious effect with most women. It also helps to be dark and handsome with the gift of gab! And I love to get up in dem guts!!