CRL

::sigh::

There's this chick at work (Very good smile, nice body, girly attitude) that has had a crush on me since my first day of work (i've been there for 5 months now) but I didnt like her (not my type). She was too shy to tell me that she liked me so she got one of the coworkers to ask me if I had or wanted a girlfriend and i said no. The coworker went back and told her what I said but then the coworker came back and asked for my number so she could give it to the chick that liked me so I did. She used to call me almost everyday and about 90% of the time I'd just let the phone ring or tell my sister to tell her that i wasnt there. When were at work she holds my arm, gives me love taps, stares at me, and other things that a couple would do and to this day I've never hugged, kissed, or did anything "romantic" to her. She even told ALL OF THE COWORKERS that her and I were a couple. I didnt like that at all but I went along with it just to keep things moving smoothly. They would say, "Dude, you gf was looking for you." and I would just smile and continue working.

For the past 3-4 weeks she hasnt called me but continued to do those things mentioned above when im at work. But 2 days ago, one of the coworkers told me that she had quit so she could go to college because she doesnt have a car, the school is far away, she had to move in with her grandma because it was close to the school. She did this out of the clear blue without even telling me. (I think i heard her say something about college a few days ago but I wasnt listening)

Now, im pissed. I can't eat, sleep, or do anything without thinking about her. I dunno wtf is wrong with me, this is the first time I've ever behaved this way about a chick. Im a very tough-layed back-confident guy and I think I could get ANY chick if I really tried but this chick just broke me down to a little bitch and I didnt see it coming. I can't believe this shit. Why am I behaving like this? I feel like crying. Am I in love? WTF should I do.

Thank you,
CRL

cM3go

You lived off the attention and now that you don't have it, you crave it again. It wasn't her that you necessarily are thinking about, its the attention you got from her that you are thinking about.

NEVERaDuLLmoment

I agree with this statement 100%. Also, could you possibly be feeling guilty for not paying attention to her??

btsilver

I mad you didnt get any after all that. You are just suffering from the lack of Attention. AW

ccannizz11

you don't have a number to call her at?

It could be the attention, but it could be her that you miss. That's really something for you to figure out. Did you ever hang out away from work?

virtualbong

at this thread

That's what you get!

cM3go

Interesting first post I must say

JimmyCarter

She sounds crazy, you sound desperate, and this whole thing sounds retarded. Get over it/her/whatever.

65 Fury Convert

Is there a "You Hit the Nail Right on the Head" smiley?

Mike 350Z

You said you didn't like her, you repeatedly ignored her, didn't care about her advances, you are obviously disinterested in her. But you crave the attention. So realize that and find someone else that you actually like to give you attention.

youngTL

As Adrienne would say, Karma is a bitch, bitch!


But seriously, you need to figure out, like others have said, whether it's HER or THE ATTENTION that you miss.

sasha

You just miss the attention. Give it a few weeks and the memory will just fade.

amisconception

Ya, but, come on... not being able to eat and sleep because you miss some attention?!

I think he developed feelings BEYOND just attention and he should call her up and see if she wants to hang out, especially now considering she doesn't work with him anymore. Give it a shot.

CRL

But I got attention from the other chicks at work (not as much) and some of them quit and i didnt feel this way about them.

Dude, I think she wanted sex and even talked about stripping for me if I take her out but at the time I was getting sex from other chicks and I really didnt care. Now, I can't even have sex with those chicks without thinking about her. About 5 hours before posting this I was planning on going to this chick's house (I go there once a week for sex) and I didnt even want it because all I could think about was "her" (Joyceln).

I do feel kinda guilty about it because guys would hit on her and she'd give them the cold shoulder and just come to me like we were married or something. Plus her dad walked out on her when she was born and her mom has a serious mental problem so she raised by her aunt and stuff.

I don't even want to go back to work anymore.

CRL

I had the number to the place that she was living at before she moved in with her grandma but I don't know the number to where she lives now. But WHEN i get it I will do.

Count Dracura

UH OH!!!!!!!

Yumcha

Weird. A guy joins a forum about Acura cars and his first post is about relationships.



But, back OT, , , and to cTLgo's comment.

Time For Sleeep

... Wow. Get over it. Or get some professional help.

fdl

And get over yourself.

dom

Call her, go out, see if there's anything there outside of work.

mr.motoring

At first, it sounded like this "girl" was named Alicia, Alicia Silverstone. And the situation seemed reminiscent of a certain B-rated movie, namely "The Crush". Anyone remember that movie, or even watched it?

At least she wasn't psycho-obsessed with you, that would be scary. Ahh, but now the tables have turned, eh? She played you for a fool. Now she's gone, and you feel psycho-obsessed over her.

By the way, does the 'C' in CRL stand for Cary, as in Cary Elwes?

CrockPot

sounds like she's not the only one that could use some "help."

SDCGTSX

Tell her that you love her and run towards her to inspirational music in the background.

CRL

^^lol

Im not a crazy obsessed type of guy or anything but I've never felt this way about a chick before. I had a couple girlfriends before but I didnt love them, I treated them like sh!t and just used them for sex...why? Because I was raised by a bunch of beer drinking-pot smoking-fuck a bitch-punk-thug-slap you in the face for no reason type of guys. But this chick makes me want to quit my job, it sucks. Its almost like im the bitch now.

I'll go to the club on fri & sat and try to forget about this but i know as soon as I go back to work its going to come back.

Titand19

This a sign. Stay away from this one. This is not UPS damaged goods, this is hit by a train damaged. You're first instinct was correct in not getting involved. let it blow over. Man I'm sure you're a normal guy and all, you're just phased cause you've never been in this situation before. Forget about it, it can only be problems.

Tunaboy

Shit man, if you're the hit-and-run type then don't go anywhere near this girl. If you're willing to get into a relationship with a fragile girl like that without any experience with a "true" girlfriend it will blow up in your face. A chick like this is good in many ways, but I can guarantee she's a leech. If you're devoted enough to spending a lot of time with her, then do it.