Well guys any of you accomplished this yet?? And I mean like having 2 serious GF's at one time, not 2 hos, or 1 GF and 1 ho. I had a friend who pulled this off for 2 years before he went to college and dumped them both.

Reason I'm interested is cause I think I'm about to try it. I've been dating this girl who lives like 45 min. away from me for a few months now and we really like each other. Only problem is we're both really busy. She's even busier than me (college golf, school, work, fishing) so I only get to see her like once a week. Definately not enough sex for me

So I started banging the old X again. Dated her for 3 years off and on, been apart for 6 months. Now the other night I got back together with her, so I guess I'm kinda with 2 girls right now. I like em both and don't want to break up with one or the other, so I'm gonna try this out for a while and see how it goes.

Pros: the one who lives 40 min away is dumb as a rock.

Cons: X is smart, sneeky, and crazy.

Give me any advice you guys have, and I'll keep you updated on how it goes.

 

not two but I have dated 3 at once

although one was 2500 miles away so that doesnt' really count.

I am trying to help a buddy with girl issues right now, I will have to ellaborate more tomorrow.


Just remember, when you lie to a girl...it's all in your eyes. and act nonchalant, if it looks like you are trying to make something up she will catch you.

 

Hmmm depends on what you want to accomplish here. I don't know what kind of "serious" relationship you can have with someone you are knowingly going to cheat on. If you're going to be unfaithful, how meaningful and real can those feelings be? If you're just planning to follow your friend's example and cut them loose after a certain period of time you're better off with two whores. Don't lead them to believe you want to be "serious" when apparently you're not. Also, its beyond me why you'd want any type of serious relationship with someone who is as dumb as a rock

 

I agree. Find someone you respect, I think you'll find it to be the best long term solution.

 

doesn't it always seem like when you're with a girl, other girls just start becoming interested...........and interesting

 

One is plenty.

 

it's true

 

 

it will never work. maybe for a little bit.. but

youre going to end up with either one or two women seriously hurt, and you better pray theyre not the type who seek vengance.

 

^ werd, thats so true about the seeking vengance.

 

I dated two at once but for a short period of time. It got tooo complicated for me.

 

yea man i bet its complicated, it takes enough just to date 1

 

just dont be serious w/ the ex... and keep it vague w/ the 45 min away chick...

but be prepared for it to backfire. as long as ur ready to lose both of them... have fun and as for the ex... it doesnt matter if u tell her ur fawkin w/ another chick cuz she is your EX

 

I've done it when I was younger but wouldn't have the balls to even try it now.

 

:boinkugh:

 

choose one...drop the other...

 

Heres my story;
I go to OSU and i currently have 3 serious girlfriends. I pretty much live with my girlfriend who goes to OSU(i only stay there monday-thursday), then i always go out with my girlfriend from work on thursdays or friday nights; after that i head to Ohio University which is about 1 1/2 away and hang out with my other girlfriend on saturday and sunday. I pretty much do that on a weekly basis, all three of them buy me gift and i do the same. It kind of suck to pay for all that shit, but dippin into 3 vaginas each week i can't complain about.

 

^^^I'm still not sure what you guys mean about having a "serious" relationship with someone you cheat on I can't see anything serious/meaningful about it if so many people are getting played.

 

Depends on what you call serious. Serious means meet your parents. All 3 of these girls met your parent? I didn't think so.

 

So I rarely post in here, but the topic caught my eye. Like Red, I did it once when I was younger and it was tough. Everyone here who says the other girl is far away or it's an ex-g/f, that doesn't count, meaning that's not difficult to accomplish (you asked the question). You're dating someone, how difficult is it to go back to one of your ex's and say let's start back. Out of a dozen, 2 or 3 might. I could be dating 4 girls at once.

That's silly. If you have a place of your own and a pretty unique car and a regular job and a cellphone, no way you're going to date 2 or 3 women and call them serious. So I did and I can't tell you how ugly it got sometimes. There were benefits but it wasn't worth it.

 

The Punisher is dating 2 girls

 

i cant see what you plan to accomplish, seems like a stupid idea. Also, I'm broke enough with just one girlfriend, i couldn't imagine having two

 

i dont think you really want to have two girlfriends..

i think youre more intrigued with the possibility of pulling this off so you can say later in life.

yeah i had two gf's at once!

 

The fact that you can't let go of one and you cannot choose implies that you don't really like both girls. Because if you really like someone, you would be perfectly content and happy to be with her and you would not have the urge to see other girls anymore.

 

One is all you need man. If you can't decide dump them both and move on.

 

Exactly why I did it (there's no real benefit to having 2 g/fs). And why I did the other two things I did, too. But I'm 39, a guy has gotta be able to say he did some things earlier in life.

 

I have two girlfriends. One knows I have another girlfriend and doesn't really mind. We schedule dates, if you will, on pre-set days. I'm sure others have been in this scenario at one point or another. it seems to be a common trend amongst my friends. We don't hang out as much, maybe 2-4 times a month as opposed to 6-8 times with my main. I take one girl certain places and the other to other places. I'm working on a third, some blonde 24y/o from work. She has a boyfriend who she insists she just "dates" on occassion and could have "fun" with other people. We'll see how that plays out.

I think the question should be can you get away with 2 girlfriends at once that dont know about each other at all.