So I purchased the y-splitter (http://honda.autowebaccessories.com/...4_127_5510.php) and got the dension ice-link today.

<this is for my '04 tsx w/ navi>

Problem tho - the connection from the ice-link does not fit into the harness plug. The ice-link connector is blue, slightly smaller, and has different notches than the harness. Is there somethign else I need?

The ice-link I bought (today) is a I20-HONDA-R2.

*okay as I am writing this I noticed something...*
On the dension website, they have an R3 now?? In the picture, the connection looks like the one on this y-harness. Fantastic, so I have to return my icelink..