you know when you press the hands free link button and tell your car to call <name> and such. is there a way to make it state that name or any name of a person you might have stored when you receive a call? instead of just a beeping or a ringing tone, you'll hear something like "mom calling" or "you are receiving a call from mom." and does anyone know where i can view the full list of commands for our bluetooth system?

 

With a quick search, I found this: Voice Prompts

About the distinct incoming ring, I highly doubt that you can customize the HFL ring. Its easier to set a different ringtone for each caller on your phone.