girls dont see the bigger picture.
all they see is 'right now'

keep calm and continue to do you.
keep biking!!

 

Wait, ex fiancé? Why are you still around and still so available for her?

Am I missing a critical tid bit of information or are you just being a suck up to her?

My completely uneducated guess is that you're being twisted around her little finger.

 

I'll explain more on my lunch break or after work. As of last week, she is my ex.

I've been riding the shit out of my bike, it's been a good way to decompress

 

Ah okay, my bad.


Good luck with all that. Can't say I've been extremely successful in my love things. I'm single at the moment.

 

Digging your new bike crazy. Hope the trails up in SLO treat you well! I found biking to be a great destressor whenever I just needed to clear my head, bad work day, etc etc. Good luck!

 

I bought the bike to ride in SLO.. that's where I was about to move.. what a beautiful area..

I've just been riding in Fresno

 

ouch


Move down to socal ! Much better road bike trails :P

 

For sure. Used to MTB all the time, now I'm staying on the road. Both are equally destressing to me though. MTB is great for the reflexes but road bike is nice because of the speed and taking every curve as fast as possible.

 

It could definitely be external as I alluded earlier. I don't mean to get shit in you head, but my bro's fiance of 4 years started getting really needy all of a sudden and wanted extra attention. He was like, wtf is going on. She broke down and admitted she had cheated on him, and was needy for that safety blanket that she felt with him. FTB! (he's happily married to a another girl now).

Not saying that's the case at all, but if someone is giving her unwarranted attention or bubbling certain emotions to the surface like family / friends, it could definitely have that effect. Could there be a health issue she hasn't disclosed? Could be several reasons, all of which, she doesn't feel the need to discuss with you it seems.

B, you really turned down the job up there. That means you put the stake in the ground. Not saying you shouldn't have, but damnnn.... you have a set on you. How do you put on pants? lol. I must say though, turning down SLO / Morro Bay / Pismo Beach area transfer from Fresno.. c'mon man. Fresno isn't as bad as Bakersfield, but that's a sweet ass transfer. And seriously, as a close eFriend, check out dem tittays mang!

I really hope it works out B! Like I said in SWEDT, her emotions are valid too, even though they seem crazy as fuck and illogical as fuck. I've had close friends go through up and downs in their relationships, and I can tell you that if it's meant to be, it'll be. Just be cool and it'll be fine, don't focus on her emotions or irrational feelings, focus on talking it through (no raised voices or frustration), and do it in person.

I know first hand that my guy thinking has put blinders on me at certain points and the wife lets me know. Then I'm like.. shiett.. I'm sorry hon. Back massage!! Me first!!

 

Can one of you guys massage my shoulders, thanks, that would be great!

Srs tho.. some 16 yr old kid neck cranked the shit out of me yesterday in class. I gave him chance, I shouldn't have. I escaped, took his back, and...

Neck is sore AF right now. petergriffen.jpg

 

Cum on over Maj, I'll massage ya

 

I'm loved.

 

 

I told her last night that I was considering taking a day trip to ride the bike out there, and that I'd like to see her and talk.

she said the thought of seeing me makes her nervous. Why she said that, I don't know. I told her that I wouldn't touch her, and she said that's not what she meant.

She said that she's said everything that she needs to say. I just need some sort of rational explaination, but I'll get more into the back story later. I gotta get clocked in.

 

Say what!? Nervous.. hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.........

 

There's definitely more to the story on her end... *puts on sherlock holmes hat*

 

ya'll were my favorite couple on az.

tyler and mitzi are runner up.

 

Relationships are so tough.. I'm almost 9 years (in November) in with my current GF but you never know with these things...


Just like all things in my life, I run by the motto, "Hope for the best, but plan for the worst".

 

taco and n1h1h1l1ty are cute too.

 

This.

 

A guy told me one time, "Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner."

 

9 years?!..

Horre shit.. you need to get on that.




Was that guy Robert De Niro?

 

9 years with you current gf... seriously, have you had 2 dogs, graduated jr high, high school, college, PhD, taken off in a space shuttle, orbited Jupiter, returned, did two tours in Iraq and three in Afghanistan in that time.

If you like then you better put a ring on it.

 

9 years = both of us in HS; then me in college, her in HS; then both of us in college; then me graduating and her in college; and now finally both of us have graduated and she will start working.


The ring thing is inevitable.. everyone and their mother has been waiting for me to pop the question.. I'm the type that wants it to be just right: all the stars to the align, all our ducks in a row..etc..

I'll be waiting a while i think..

 

mayhaps.

he also told me this;

"Sometimes in the heat of passion, the little head tells the big head what to do, and the big head should think twice about what you are doing."

 

 

The saddest thing in life is wasted talent.. C should have listened.

 

Oh shizz.. he's out of prison. I thought they sent him up the river for good.

 

Fuck.. looks like prison took it's toll.



At least he's gotten work..

 

We Maj, we aint gwai-los or messicans


your analogy is irrelevant.



Prus, she's two years younger than I am.

 

Reported.

trololololo

 

Only two years.. amateur hour here.

Next you're going to tell me you aren't getting dowry.

 

took it's toll on his hairline.

 

bruh.. he's had that hairline since he was 9.

 

that perma curly from the 3 stooges!

 

When I turned 18, the ongoing joke was cops were going to get me for dating a 15/16 year old.

I live on the edge

COME AT ME PIGS!

 

I'm hoping so!!! If not, I should have found a nice Indian girl instead...

 

So edgy.

 

Your ducks will never be in a row.

Just do it.

 

Horrrry shit Bryan, I didn't know it was ex....

Damn