The 3G Ramblings & General Discussion Thread (Trois)
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girls dont see the bigger picture.
all they see is 'right now'
keep calm and continue to do you.
keep biking!!
all they see is 'right now'
keep calm and continue to do you.
keep biking!!
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Very annoyed. For some reason, my now ex fiancée of eight years thinks that just because I missed a deadline to move, (an ultimatum) that I've chosen not to commit to her and that I've chosen not to be a part of her life.
Where does that seem reasonable? I drive to her every day off I've had. I've driven 51k in the last two years to spend every free moment with her. I was offered a decent job out where she is, after shit hit the fan, and I turned it down
I've never done drugs, I don't drink everyday, I don't verbally abuse her, hell, I don't even notice other women.. She has to point out other women to me. She'll ask, "OMG, did you see the tits on her?" And 99% of the time I don't notice.
Something is going on in her head, and I think there's outside influence from her friends that she goes wine tasting with. This isn't her, but I am getting very frustrated. People say I've done nothing wrong.. Part of me wants to text a mutual friend of ours and see what she has to say.
Where does that seem reasonable? I drive to her every day off I've had. I've driven 51k in the last two years to spend every free moment with her. I was offered a decent job out where she is, after shit hit the fan, and I turned it down
I've never done drugs, I don't drink everyday, I don't verbally abuse her, hell, I don't even notice other women.. She has to point out other women to me. She'll ask, "OMG, did you see the tits on her?" And 99% of the time I don't notice.
Something is going on in her head, and I think there's outside influence from her friends that she goes wine tasting with. This isn't her, but I am getting very frustrated. People say I've done nothing wrong.. Part of me wants to text a mutual friend of ours and see what she has to say.
Am I missing a critical tid bit of information or are you just being a suck up to her?
My completely uneducated guess is that you're being twisted around her little finger.
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Good luck with all that. Can't say I've been extremely successful in my love things. I'm single at the moment.
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Digging your new bike crazy. Hope the trails up in SLO treat you well! I found biking to be a great destressor whenever I just needed to clear my head, bad work day, etc etc. Good luck!
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For sure. Used to MTB all the time, now I'm staying on the road. Both are equally destressing to me though. MTB is great for the reflexes but road bike is nice because of the speed and taking every curve as fast as possible.
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Very annoyed. For some reason, my now ex fiancée of eight years thinks that just because I missed a deadline to move, (an ultimatum) that I've chosen not to commit to her and that I've chosen not to be a part of her life.
Where does that seem reasonable? I drive to her every day off I've had. I've driven 51k in the last two years to spend every free moment with her. I was offered a decent job out where she is, after shit hit the fan, and I turned it down
I've never done drugs, I don't drink everyday, I don't verbally abuse her, hell, I don't even notice other women.. She has to point out other women to me. She'll ask, "OMG, did you see the tits on her?" And 99% of the time I don't notice.
Something is going on in her head, and I think there's outside influence from her friends that she goes wine tasting with. This isn't her, but I am getting very frustrated. People say I've done nothing wrong.. Part of me wants to text a mutual friend of ours and see what she has to say.
Where does that seem reasonable? I drive to her every day off I've had. I've driven 51k in the last two years to spend every free moment with her. I was offered a decent job out where she is, after shit hit the fan, and I turned it down
I've never done drugs, I don't drink everyday, I don't verbally abuse her, hell, I don't even notice other women.. She has to point out other women to me. She'll ask, "OMG, did you see the tits on her?" And 99% of the time I don't notice.
Something is going on in her head, and I think there's outside influence from her friends that she goes wine tasting with. This isn't her, but I am getting very frustrated. People say I've done nothing wrong.. Part of me wants to text a mutual friend of ours and see what she has to say.
Not saying that's the case at all, but if someone is giving her unwarranted attention or bubbling certain emotions to the surface like family / friends, it could definitely have that effect. Could there be a health issue she hasn't disclosed? Could be several reasons, all of which, she doesn't feel the need to discuss with you it seems.
B, you really turned down the job up there. That means you put the stake in the ground. Not saying you shouldn't have, but damnnn.... you have a set on you. How do you put on pants? lol. I must say though, turning down SLO / Morro Bay / Pismo Beach area transfer from Fresno.. c'mon man. Fresno isn't as bad as Bakersfield, but that's a sweet ass transfer. And seriously, as a close eFriend, check out dem tittays mang!
I really hope it works out B! Like I said in SWEDT, her emotions are valid too, even though they seem crazy as fuck and illogical as fuck. I've had close friends go through up and downs in their relationships, and I can tell you that if it's meant to be, it'll be. Just be cool and it'll be fine, don't focus on her emotions or irrational feelings, focus on talking it through (no raised voices or frustration), and do it in person.
I know first hand that my guy thinking has put blinders on me at certain points and the wife lets me know. Then I'm like.. shiett.. I'm sorry hon. Back massage!! Me first!!
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Can one of you guys massage my shoulders, thanks, that would be great!
Srs tho.. some 16 yr old kid neck cranked the shit out of me yesterday in class. I gave him chance, I shouldn't have. I escaped, took his back, and...
Neck is sore AF right now. petergriffen.jpg
Srs tho.. some 16 yr old kid neck cranked the shit out of me yesterday in class. I gave him chance, I shouldn't have. I escaped, took his back, and...
Neck is sore AF right now. petergriffen.jpg
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Cum on over Maj, I'll massage ya
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I'm loved.
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I told her last night that I was considering taking a day trip to ride the bike out there, and that I'd like to see her and talk.
she said the thought of seeing me makes her nervous. Why she said that, I don't know. I told her that I wouldn't touch her, and she said that's not what she meant.
She said that she's said everything that she needs to say. I just need some sort of rational explaination, but I'll get more into the back story later. I gotta get clocked in.
she said the thought of seeing me makes her nervous. Why she said that, I don't know. I told her that I wouldn't touch her, and she said that's not what she meant.
She said that she's said everything that she needs to say. I just need some sort of rational explaination, but I'll get more into the back story later. I gotta get clocked in.
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Say what!? Nervous.. hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.........
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There's definitely more to the story on her end... *puts on sherlock holmes hat*
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ya'll were my favorite couple on az.
tyler and mitzi are runner up.
tyler and mitzi are runner up.
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Relationships are so tough.. I'm almost 9 years (in November) in with my current GF but you never know with these things...
Just like all things in my life, I run by the motto, "Hope for the best, but plan for the worst".
Just like all things in my life, I run by the motto, "Hope for the best, but plan for the worst".
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A guy told me one time, "Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner."
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9 years with you current gf... seriously, have you had 2 dogs, graduated jr high, high school, college, PhD, taken off in a space shuttle, orbited Jupiter, returned, did two tours in Iraq and three in Afghanistan in that time.
If you like then you better put a ring on it.
If you like then you better put a ring on it.
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9 years = both of us in HS; then me in college, her in HS; then both of us in college; then me graduating and her in college; and now finally both of us have graduated and she will start working.
The ring thing is inevitable.. everyone and their mother has been waiting for me to pop the question.. I'm the type that wants it to be just right: all the stars to the align, all our ducks in a row..etc..
I'll be waiting a while i think..
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Oh shizz.. he's out of prison. I thought they sent him up the river for good.
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Fuck.. looks like prison took it's toll.
At least he's gotten work..
At least he's gotten work..
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We Maj, we aint gwai-los or messicans
your analogy is irrelevant.
Prus, she's two years younger than I am.
your analogy is irrelevant.
Prus, she's two years younger than I am.
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took it's toll on his hairline.
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that perma curly from the 3 stooges!
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Your ducks will never be in a row.
Just do it.
Just do it.
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Horrrry shit Bryan, I didn't know it was ex....
Damn
Damn