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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 08:07 PM
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Masturbation after Marraige?????

ill be damned if the woman im married to will not satisfy my sexual needs to where i have to whack it
I understand doing it before then, but r there really people who masturbate after marraige?
is it because incompatibility, wont put out or what?
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 08:09 PM
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you can't expect a girl to put out 24/7... everyday of the year...

just most of the time (for me)... that's one reason why i believe sexual compatibility is critical to a long lasting marriage... i can't fathom (sp) why anyone would stay with someone if the sex wasn't there...
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 08:10 PM
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Ill still do it, and my man still will. its not being deprived...

I just said this to my fiance.. his response.. : its fun!!
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 08:13 PM
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Nothin' wrong with healthy masturbation at any stage of a relationship.

Just have the sensitivity of your partner in mind. They may not completely understand your actions and take it as a rejection of some sort.
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 08:14 PM
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To ask a question like that means youre a virgin or had a one time experience, which is cool, and when you do start having a long term sexual relation with a woman youll understand exactly why you will still want to masturbate.

It has nothing to do with a woman not catering your every sexual whim, and if you think your wife will do that and whenever you want, expect a quick divorce.
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 08:16 PM
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Originally posted by sarlacc23
To ask a question like that means youre a virgin or had a one time experience, which is cool, and when you do start having a long term sexual relation with a woman youll understand exactly why you will still want to masturbate.

It has nothing to do with a woman not catering your every sexual whim, and if you think your wife will do that and whenever you want, expect a quick divorce.
actually im married to my high school sweetheart for about 1 1/2 years now and she wants sex more than me almost

soo sorry your deprived
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 08:24 PM
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You dont read very well do you? did she graduate while you got left behind???

Masturbation has nothing to do with deprivation. Actually, masturbation is much more enjoyable when you are in a comitted relationship.
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 08:25 PM
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 08:26 PM
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Originally posted by sarlacc23
You dont read very well do you? did she graduate while you got left behind???

Masturbation has nothing to do with deprivation. Actually, masturbation is much more enjoyable when you are in a comitted relationship.
its not always about yourself. A lot of times I do it for him, and him for me..
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 08:32 PM
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im not selfish about it or nothing-its a fair exchange
im referring to masturbation when u have to handle things yourself, rather than being with your wife and doing it
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 08:33 PM
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or her not doing it for you
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 08:34 PM
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im sure theres plenty of marriages where the girl isnt good enough
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 08:38 PM
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hahaha, get a clue dude, youre young as fuck,..so is she...that shit dies down after awhile, youll be strokin your pole before you know it. a marraige isnt ?JUST about sex. of course its a VERY important aspect. but there are many other factors that start to come into play....kids....lack of time...and eventually, old age and bad health...
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 08:40 PM
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hahaha, get a clue dude, youre young as fuck,..so is she...that shit dies down after awhile, youll be strokin your pole before you know it. a marraige isnt ?JUST about sex. of course its a VERY important aspect. but there are many other factors that start to come into play....kids....lack of time...and eventually, old age and bad health...
ya i understand, i am young and really dont know! i was just thinking on doing a term paper on the subject and thought i could get a few ideas
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 08:41 PM
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 08:57 PM
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not marries woudlnt know?
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 09:00 PM
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 09:21 PM
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I do it, its a quicky in my book. Not deprived or unsatisfied in bed. Just get an inkling sometimes, and the timing isn't really appropriate to hit the wife up.
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 09:50 PM
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It seems like the more sex I have, the more I beat off. when I used to live with this stripper, we'd have mad sex everywhere. I'd even come home from work for a nooner. and i'd still spank the monkey nearly every day!
now i'm married and my wife is 8 months pregnant, so I haven't gotten any for a while i'm gonna go spank it right now...
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Old Nov 19, 2003 | 10:02 PM
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Old Nov 20, 2003 | 02:24 AM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
im sure theres plenty of marriages where the girl isnt good enough
I was in one of those.

Not fun.
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Old Nov 20, 2003 | 02:25 AM
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Old Nov 20, 2003 | 02:37 AM
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second that bulldog.


ahhhh man. I'm really worried about the day i get married guys. I mean, not to say that is anywhere in the future, but wtf.


i don't know, i guess i'm scared of being taken advantage of. whew, that god i don't have to think about this for a while.
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Old Nov 20, 2003 | 03:36 AM
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I am in a great marriage, plenty of sex, madly in love with my wife and we both masturbate. (Sometimes together!) Masturbation is part of a healthy sex life IMO.
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Old Nov 20, 2003 | 05:03 AM
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Originally posted by 1killercls
I am in a great marriage, plenty of sex, madly in love with my wife and we both masturbate. (Sometimes together!) Masturbation is part of a healthy sex life IMO.
TMI... I've seen your picture :P
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Old Nov 20, 2003 | 05:10 AM
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I beat off more when I was married.
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Old Nov 20, 2003 | 07:28 AM
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lol ash
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Old Nov 20, 2003 | 07:30 AM
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Old Nov 20, 2003 | 07:40 AM
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Old Nov 20, 2003 | 07:40 AM
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Old Nov 20, 2003 | 08:37 AM
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Old Nov 20, 2003 | 08:41 AM
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Women masturbating is never a bad thing. I tell my g/f regularly to 'flick her bic' if she's stressed.
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Old Nov 20, 2003 | 09:27 AM
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Women masturbating is never a bad thing. I tell my g/f regularly to 'flick her bic' if she's stressed.


Tossing the one bean salad is fun to watch.
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Old Nov 20, 2003 | 12:19 PM
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its not always about yourself. A lot of times I do it for him, and him for me..
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Old Nov 21, 2003 | 09:42 AM
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Old Nov 21, 2003 | 10:13 AM
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LOL do you know how long it took me to be comfortable enough to do that for him? like 2 years into the relationship
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Old Nov 21, 2003 | 09:04 PM
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LOL do you know how long it took me to be comfortable enough to do that for him? like 2 years into the relationship
its worth the wait.
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Old Nov 23, 2003 | 06:49 AM
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LOL do you know how long it took me to be comfortable enough to do that for him? like 2 years into the relationship
Doesn't matter! Fact that you do it!

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Old Nov 25, 2003 | 10:26 AM
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hey shitfucks! the problem w/ wives is that they think that once they get married they don't have to do shit as well as they used to b/c they already have a man. think about it most times at the beginning of a relationship the over all pussy in general is much better than it is once u've been going out or in this case been married for a long time. what u have to do is just get a few young hoes on the side to help u out when ur wife isn't doin the job. thats the way my niggas roll, as should u. see floggin ur dolphin gets to be a pain in the ass when u have to do it to compensate for a hoe not doin her job properly. trust me on this 1 the killer knows. stay fly homeslice!

Holla,

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Old Nov 27, 2003 | 10:56 PM
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either in relationships or single, i still take matters into my own hands. like others said, sometimes, its more convienient!
IMO aint nothin wrong w. jerkin off when ur married or whatever. as long as your NOT doin it for the wrong reasons (sex life sucks, etc.)

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