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Old Mar 27, 2006 | 07:03 PM
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You know what sucks....

Being with a girl that is 23 (almost 24) and haveing her parents not let stay at your place. The last couple of times we've hung out, we'd go out....come home...do "whatever", then fall asleep. BUT, I have to set the alarm for like 2:30am so she can go home...and sometimes I have to drive her. Theres nothing like being in a deep sleep and then waking up to drive for a 45 minute round trip!
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Old Mar 27, 2006 | 07:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Nicky Pass
Being with a girl that is 23 (almost 24) and haveing her parents not let stay at your place. The last couple of times we've hung out, we'd go out....come home...do "whatever", then fall asleep. BUT, I have to set the alarm for like 2:30am so she can go home...and sometimes I have to drive her. Theres nothing like being in a deep sleep and then waking up to drive for a 45 minute round trip!
Don't fall asleep...?
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Old Mar 27, 2006 | 07:09 PM
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you gotta play by the rules to get in her pants...
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Old Mar 27, 2006 | 07:12 PM
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In all seriousness, if you were her Dad, would you want your 23 year-old daughter coming home every night...? I bet you would...So, I don't see what the big deal is...
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Old Mar 27, 2006 | 07:14 PM
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Old Mar 27, 2006 | 07:16 PM
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She must live with her parents. Tell her to move out. Most parents are like that with their daughters when they still live at home.
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Old Mar 27, 2006 | 07:47 PM
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If she lives at home, then you have to play by her dad's rules. You still might be able to work out weekend trips (either real or imaginary) every once in a while to avoid having to drop her off every night.
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Old Mar 27, 2006 | 08:51 PM
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the scary part is that its not her dad...its her mom! She does live at home...but shes going back to school for her masters...which means she'll probably live at home for another 2 years.....
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Old Mar 27, 2006 | 09:25 PM
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When I meet a Girl like that, I always tell the girl you want to stay out the night , tell your mom your staying at a girlfriends house who can back you up, otherwise its lets fuck at 8pm and by 10pm lets call it a night....

Fuck that.. Deep sleep and I get awakened @ 230AM.... to spend the best part of 2hrs driving.


Well its either she gets a car or uses the friends the friends as an excuse....
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Old Mar 27, 2006 | 09:39 PM
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Just slip something in her drink to make her knock out for the night and don't set the alarm. There is no reason you should have to wake up in the morning to drive anywhere.
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Old Mar 27, 2006 | 09:59 PM
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Come on, any Mother/Father who has a daughter who is 23, who is out to 2:30am better damn well better come to grips with reality. Why is sex looked at with such a negative eye in this country, its not like no one's doing it!

Wait, Nicky said he had/has 2 STD's maybe caution should be taken!
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Old Mar 27, 2006 | 10:05 PM
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Have her move in with you
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Old Mar 27, 2006 | 11:09 PM
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My mom was just like that but I had to get out of their. 18 I was gone.
You want a girl that has got out and made it on her own anyway. Find you a sugar Momma!
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 08:25 AM
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Her parents have every right to dicate when where etc as long as she lives with them. Either live with it or help her move out...


of course they know she has sex, that isn't their point. It's THEIR house...their rules
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 09:23 AM
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I was gonna say VD.
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 09:48 AM
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Originally Posted by mfkitson
Her parents have every right to dicate when where etc as long as she lives with them. Either live with it or help her move out...


of course they know she has sex, that isn't their point. It's THEIR house...their rules
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 09:59 AM
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Originally Posted by mfkitson
Her parents have every right to dicate when where etc as long as she lives with them. Either live with it or help her move out...


of course they know she has sex, that isn't their point. It's THEIR house...their rules


As long as she lives with her parents, both of you will have to play by their rules. It sucks but exerting extra effort should not be a question if you really like her.
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 10:02 AM
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How do they feel about you staying with her at their place?
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 10:04 AM
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there are no buses running at that time?
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 10:08 AM
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I thought this thread was about physchoindenial.

I don't see a problem here Nicky.
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 10:14 AM
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Originally Posted by dom

I don't see a problem here Nicky.

ya, other than him having to do the driving this is actually a bonus.
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 10:43 AM
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 10:45 AM
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I had the same problem once. Then I decided to date women instead of girls.
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 11:35 AM
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Originally Posted by dom
I thought this thread was about physchoindenial.
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 12:46 PM
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On another note, why do you have to drive her? Make her drive her happy ass home. Better yet, have her mom come pick her up.
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 12:48 PM
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Originally Posted by phipark
Better yet, have her mom come pick her up.
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 12:50 PM
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Originally Posted by phipark
On another note, why do you have to drive her? Make her drive her happy ass home. Better yet, have her mom come pick her up.
Excellent point...
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 01:02 PM
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Originally Posted by fdl
there are no buses running at that time?
Cab?
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 01:12 PM
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Originally Posted by TLuscious
My mom was just like that but I had to get out of their. 18 I was gone.
You want a girl that has got out and made it on her own anyway. Find you a sugar Momma!


You had a problem coming home every night when you were in high school?
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 01:36 PM
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she's 23 and her mother wont "let" her?


hmmm...
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 01:41 PM
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she's 23 and her mother wont "let" her?
Nicky, is she Italian. That would explain it.
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 01:53 PM
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Originally Posted by dom
Nicky, is she Italian. That would explain it.
Or Asian, or Jewish...

Italians ain't the only ones...
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 01:55 PM
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Originally Posted by CGTSX2004
Or Asian, or Jewish...

Italians ain't the only ones...

I know. Just bringing it up because I think Nicky is Italian and is probly dating an Italian.
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 02:46 PM
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Originally Posted by dom
Nicky, is she a female? That would explain it.
Fixed.
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 02:48 PM
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Originally Posted by dom
Nicky, is she Italian. That would explain it.
She's 100%, and her parents speak english, but broken english at best.
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 02:53 PM
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Originally Posted by Nicky Pass
She's 100%, and her parents speak english, but broken english at best.

You should be thankful they let her stay out til 2:30.
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 02:54 PM
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Originally Posted by btsilver


You had a problem coming home every night when you were in high school?

Consider the source...
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 03:35 PM
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 03:35 PM
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better than a 1am curfew
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Old Mar 28, 2006 | 05:08 PM
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Its not really a curfew....her parents owna restaurant and they don't get home until 1am on the weekends anyways! They think that she should be home not much later then that! ALTHOUGH...she did have a "talk" with her parents today, and she said it went well. It would be nice for her to stay at my place every once and a while....
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