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Old 02-29-2004, 10:39 PM
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WTF??? Need advice

Whats the take on this situation? please advise b/c i dunno wtf is going on....


Abt a week ago, a female friend of hers introduces me 2 her best friend that i've never seen before...I have a nice conversation w/this chick (lets say her name is Lisa) and I get her phone number before I leave.....this girl Lisa and her best friend that introduced me 2 her tells me abt how lisa broke up w/her man and is looking for someone else etc... Lisa seems to be into me and that was why i took the initiative 2 get her number, while she took mine (transferred numbers 2 each other's cell)


Now I call her a few days later and she doesnt answer so i leave her a voicemail....she never returns my voicemail, but i call her 3days later (on wed) 2 see whats up...i grab a hold of her and she apologizes 4 not getting back 2 me after i left her the vm(she brings that up herself, i didnt mention it) and states that her cellphone was broken...anyways, we have a real nice conversation going on and she mentions how she's glad i called her and that she was afraid i had 4gotten abt her....i tell her lets go chill on monday (3/1) and she says cool and that she'll call me back on the weekend 2 let me know where 2 meet her up and when etc...


....sat night goes by and i call her since i need 2 know what going on monday (its my only day off and she knows that )....i leave her a vm and tell her 2 call me....she never gets back 2 me....i tried 2 get in touch w/her twice 2day, but same thing...voicemail...i left her a message and so far she hasnt gotten back 2 me and i doubt she will


the fucked up thing is that i had my brother call her from a blocked number a few min. before i called her from my unblocked cell phone number...she picked up my bro's blocked call but not mine (my number wasnt blocked, she knew it was me)! wtf?


anyways, i'm confused here...i mean this girl was really into me but now all of a sudden wont even talk 2 me? i dont even know her long enough 4 her 2 get pissed at me
...she knew i wasnt trying 2 be just friends w/her and she reiterted vice versa w/me


normally i dont care 2 much abt chicks, but i thought lisa was different in a good way....now i'm just confused as fuck


thanks 4 hearing me out, whats the verdict?
Old 02-29-2004, 10:42 PM
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btw, if she doesnt get back 2 me...i'm never gonna call her again at all
Old 02-29-2004, 10:53 PM
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Bro, she aint feelin you. If shes pickin up other peoples #'s, but not yours.......just aint meant to be. Just brush that dirt off ya shoulder.
Old 02-29-2004, 11:12 PM
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Originally posted by Katana18
Bro, she aint feelin you. If shes pickin up other peoples #'s, but not yours.......just aint meant to be. Just brush that dirt off ya shoulder.

i figured as much


just dont give a nigga mixed signals indicating that u feeling him and have him waste his time on u...nah mean bro?...some girls are such attention whores




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Old 02-29-2004, 11:25 PM
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Originally posted by unsure
just dont give a nigga mixed signals indicating that u feeling him and have him waste his time on u


Man, thats one of the biggest things I HATE. I'd rather have the heffa tell me straight up she ain't feelin me rather then tryin to play head games and shit. FUCK THAT. :angry: Thats one thing I really can not stand with women at all. Just had to bring this out to the open, cuz its pure bullshit. Dont waste my time, nor yours!
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Looks like a phone game. This stupid girl wants to see how much effort you'll give to see her. Teach her a lesson and don't ever call her again, at least not until she calls you for once. Don't let this girl play you out.
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Originally posted by Batin Dean
Looks like a phone game. This stupid girl wants to see how much effort you'll give to see her. Teach her a lesson and don't ever call her again, at least not until she calls you for once. Don't let this girl play you out.

thats exactly the plan my friend i was gonna follow lol



i aint calling that broad back ever again.....
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I agree with Dean...and by all means, tell you made other "plans
" for Monday if she asks to get together. Let her believe that she's not the only girl you're going after.
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Here's the deal, she just got out of a relationship.


She's hesitant to let things progress too far initially. You may have to be patient with her if you have serious intentions. I mean, you never know what else could be going on in her life. If you truly think it will go somewhere, then be patient, and get up with her friend that you met her thru and see what's up. Use the other girl as a source for information on Lisa.

Anything can happen once you put your mind to it. I wouldn't be too buckled up over her though. There's too much ass out there to be tied to just one.
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you aretrying to hard.. showing too much interest.. back off.. she aint interested!
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Don't call her, and when she calls you let it go to VM. She's playing games, fuck games.
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She watched Swingers too many times.
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Originally posted by Always Dirty
She watched Swingers too many times.
You are so money!
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u know wats funnie guys...this girl tells me that she doesnt like it when guys play games, thats why i was upfront w/her...but fuck it...i'm already moving onto the next prospect


and btw, she aint never ever getting a call from me
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Yeah I just got over this girl who's number i got....I called her a couple times and we would talk for like 5 min. and she would be like "oh lemme call you right back" needless to say that would never happen.

Point is a lot of girls are attention whores or don't like to be honest/straight up because they confuse that with being mean so they make shit up.
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Someone like that is a game player. Even if she's just out of a relationship, no reason to act like that.

You're dedicated. In my dating days, I would make one call. If no response, I'd move on. And if the game playing started, I was gone in a hurry.
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