Lets just say she’s the most gorgeous woman you have every seen, she’s funny, she’s smart, she likes sports, she likes X-Box, she can cook, all that good stuff. Her only downfall is you know where she’s been, whom she’s been with, and what she has done in her past. Would you still put a ring on her finger?

I ask this question because my friend has been dating this girl for about 8 months and is about to ask this girl who is by far one of the biggest sluts on the east coast to marry her! The girl is a sex maniac. She’s had sex with 5 lacrosse players on the floor of her freshman dorm. She’s given numerous blow jobs / hand jobs to all the guys in her senior high school class. She’s had sex with practically every guy in her town, and lord knows what she did in Cancun on spring break, but she’s gorgeous! Apparently she’s not like that anymore, but damn, why would you marry her?!?! I mean I don’t like buying a used car, so why would you marry a used up girl?

What do you guys think?

 

ignorance is bliss ... i'd pass

 

Well if she is STD free and doesn' t cheat then maybe.

 

Well, since it is girl on girl it doesn't matter because the marriage is not legal!

 

I think I'll move this thread to D&R.

If I knew all that, no fawkin way. Not my thing, but its up to the individual.

 

i don't think it's a good idea.

I know a "slutty" girl who married a virgin.

he can't fuck her anymore. they have had sex less than once a month for the past 15months.

imo, their marriage is doomed, he won't admit that's the problem, but i'm pretty convinced.

 

I will get her picture and post it when I get home!

 

Why can't he fuck her anymore?

 

it would probably be like throwing a hot dog down a hallway, so i think i'd pass.

 

People can change . But I wouldnt do it

 

it actually goes farther than that, he can't even change in front of her, sleep naked with her. it's a pretty shitty situation to be in. I think she'll rethink having a 6month engagement the next time around....

 

don't you judge me!!!

yeah, "slutty behavior" is definitely a hang-up. i'd be more concerned about STDs tho. or her emotional/insecurity/psychological issues. i mean, sluts aren't born, they're made right? so what sideswiped her into the path of irresponsibility and debauchery? what previous life experience transformed her into a sensational source of serious semen sipping? (that's a mouthful ... no pun intended)? and does she have any sisters?

but as we say in finance, "past performance is not necessarily indicative of future results." so perhaps she wants to start anew. perhaps she wants to leave her past behind. perhaps your friend can throw caution to the wind, like this girl has done her panties numerously, and give it a shot.

 

I'd say he should definitely marry her and start cheating on her immediately. That way, when the inevitable happens, he'll have beat her to the punch

 

people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones...

i guess it would depend on the person...

 

I wouldn't do it. But there is nothing inherently wrong with it.

 

(1) If she doesn't have any STDs, then proceed to lawyer.
(2) Get lawyer to draft up a Pre-Nup.
(3) Get slut to sign Pre-Nup.
(4) Shotgun wedding
(5) Begin constant intercourse

If she fools around, take her to the cleaners .

 

Is there any reason though other than her being a slut?

I still don't get we they can't get it on.

 

It comes down to the person, I don't care what a girl did before we were together and if I found out I may be upset, but it wouldn't change much. But that's me, I am very laid back when it comes to sexuality and think most of society is way to uptight. The flip side of that coin are other guys, I have a few close friends, who doubt being with a girl who's had 2 or 3 guys in their life previously. I like a girl with a little experience, as long as those days are behind her and she can deal with monogomy then I don't see a problem with it, and if she can't deal with monogomy I have been infatuated with the swinger lifestyle for sometime now

Every guy wants a girl who is a freak in the sheets, but no guy want's to know how she got that way. If you both love each other, you are both STD free and the sex is great consider yourself both lucky.

 

Once a slut always a slut. Dude leopards don't change their spots. Seriously, guys ALWAYS fall into this trap. It aint worth it.

And WHY can't your friend sleep with his wife anymore? Seriously what is the reason?

 

people can change. I've seen it. And it didn't require finding God.

 

Haha fine man, I'm glad you are an optimist. In fact, more power to you. I however will not take my chances on that. A slutty girl MAY be able to change, like 1 in 100, but why take the chance you get one of the other 99. There are plenty of girls out there so why hitch your life to a skank? It's illogical.

 

like I said.... I wouldn't do it.

 

 

Some of you guys are spouting bullshit. I'm sure some of you have slept with more girls than she did guys. If so, then should a woman think twice about marrying you?

 

Oh, and no, I wouldn't marry someone who's been around too much. It shows that they're not willing to accept commitment.

 

Why would I purchase something that everyone got to ride for free?

 

and no pics?

 

he probably wants to marry her, in part, because she is good in the sack. He may have some inferiority issues, and being with her makes him feel as if he were as good as the guys she has already been with. Like if you had a chance to sleep with a girl who had been with Bon Jovi, would you? I would, because then I would feel as if I rated at least as high as Bon Jovi. capeche?

 

get someone just like you... if you are kinda slutty marry a slut type... if you're virgin hold out and wait to find someone like you... it just works out better that way....

wouldn't it be creepy to marry her and then be out with her and she realizes that some guys she had been with are at the table in front of you.... would kinda make me feel cheap...like damn all these guys banged my wife already

 

Yup.

 

i like sluts

too bad they dont like me back

 

My answer is: No.

 

I was going to post her picture but with my luck one of you crazy fucks probably banged her or knows someone that did.

It’s a small world, besides that would be kind of fucked up of me, claiming to be somebody’s friend and bashing their girl on a forum. So she will remain faceless, for now. I will see how I feel about it when I see her at this Halloween party. If shes acting like her old self, I'll just say fuck it and post her picture up.

 

given the relative shortness of your life to date, "always" is a relatively codifiable term. Given that most women reach the age of sexual competence in their early teans, "always" for you is a 21-year old who has been sexual for six years. You have no earthly idea how someone got to that stage in that brief a period of time, nor do you have any clue as to where they will go with it over time.

 

photos from the neck down are acceptable to me. anyone else?

 

Women gete into depraved and debauched sexual activity pretty much the same way that men do, frankly, which is that some element of effective self-respecting and self-aware sexual education was utterly lacking in their youth. It may have been a passive lack, or it may have been active (sexual abuse). She may be "re-enacting" various forms of early sexual activity that were placed in her path. It has nothing to do with the "external package", but has, entirely, to do with the internal self-image and self-respect.

If that is the case, the issue is what she does with her behavior as she matures, becomes an adult. I know many men and women who were raised with negative self-image and a tendancy to "act out" as young adults who form mature, stable relationships as adults. It's called growing up.

And for every debauched girl slutting around in the streets is an equally debauched guy willing to go in for sloppy fifths. Sexism placed aside as an artificial social construct, their ain't much difference in the negative self-view; it is just that male debauchery is viewed as cocksmanship, and female debauchery is viewed as sluttyness. Psychodynamically, compulsive repetetive sexual behavior is the same in both genders - but women who have been sluts are far more likely to grow out of it than men who have been Casanovas........

 

Chasing Amy

 

Locked in like a goddamn chinese finger cuff

:ibclencheingbothpointerfingerstogetherandpulling:

 

Ok heres the difference. If she had slept with the same number of guys she had but at least under dating conditions in the future and then decided not to then thats one thing. 5 guys on your dorm room floor, jacking most your male friends off in high school?! Ok she is a grade A slut and she has some big time ISSUES! Can't turn a ho into a housewife.

As for guys on this board who may have slept with a ton of girls...they'll prolly cheat too

 

Would you marry a porn star?

The only difference between that girl and a porn star is she didn't get paid to fuck.