who's gonna be single but is going thru a divorce? I have a friend who keeps falling for these girls that seem nice and all, but they are all in a process of getting or finalizing their divorce. Some ppl have told him to not pursue it while others say its a chance to take sometimes and maybe risk it. What do you guys think? Would you do it?

 

not RIGHT after. I think after a long relationship, especially a marriage, you gotta give it time. cuz you tend to make a lot of wrong decisions bu rushing into a another relationship.

Look at me, i'm replying in all your threads!

 

Pussy is pussy. I say hit it all.

 

You are replying to my threads. Thanks! *MUAH*HUGS*

Yea, a person needs time to be him/herself. Rushing into another relationship after a divorce isnt going to help make anything any easier. I totally agree with you....

 

Or stalking her... man...

but about the dateing someone that is in the process... i don't think its right... if someone was married, then got divorced... i think both of them need some thinking time of what went wrong in the relationship that lead to that divorce so that they won't make the same mistake again with their next partner... Although, my beleif in all that is, if you are willing to get married to someone... why divorce them later in the future... shouldn't they have waited to see if the person was right for them before making the decission to hitch??? Once you find the right person... and you know that you can live with that person the rest of your life... thats the time to make the decission to marry... if you know in a year or two that you can not stand the person for so and so reason... (has to be a valid reason, not... "he leaves the seat up..." or in Shallow Hal... "her second toe is longer then her big toe...") then thats when you make the decission to break up before even making the decission to actually marry...

 

 

good and valid pts there, but you just b/c you decide to marry someone doesn't necessarily mean that that person is the right person for you in the long run. sometimes people fall out of love. i dont think you can be able to know how you feel now and then when it comes to being with someone. marriage is a big step tho, but its not wrong if it doesn't work out. sometimes not working out is something that could be good for both party. i think if you happen to be one of those lucky fews who have been bless to love and keep on loving for the years to come then i'm all for you...but if you are some of those who has turn the other way b/c it didn't work for some reason then i wish you the best. love isn't easy and sharing it w/someone is more than imagine.

thx for sharing spooky!

 

at this point in my life, I am down for whatever.....

I say do it if it is just for the sex, but if it is anything else, the girls is not going to be ready, a divorce or break-up is very emotional, and thus she is exibiting emotions that are not normal.... I wouldn't....

 

if she's willing then why should he care......if she was mature enough to get married and able to go through the process of divorce then she should have a better understandng of when she is ready to start messin' around.

 

In this case you have to take into consideration, what kind of guy am I? Do I think with my big head or little head? If you think with your little head, the answer is elementary. If you think with the big one, it could get more complicated. Women that are going through a divorce or a relationship usually are looking for someone to preoccupy their minds until all the confusion is situated. WARNING: This woman is still legally married to this man and men are territorial! This could cause conflict that could be hazardous to your health! Especially if the chick is a hot woman going through a divorce. Even worse, he still might be hitting it on the side when they are going through the ups and downs of the separation. All in all, in my opinion, it would not be a wise decision to get involved with a woman going through a divorce or is in a relationship. There are plenty of single women that are ready to "get jiggy with it", so don't waste your time, effort and possibly your paint job on your TL with women in that situation. Besides, if you are on a bad streak with women lately, there is always HALO 2! Don't worry about chicks because when you do, they will run! Women smell desperation like a bad cologne. Keep cool and you will have to fight them off with sticks!

 

I advise against it.

 

not a good idea. I kind of did it and it didnt work out at all. She does like me and wanted to start something with me but at the last minute she felt like we were moving too fast (wich we werent) but she was getting attached to me too fast and that scared her off. So my 2 cents to it is play it real slow.

 

I have been "used" by women going thru divorce. I didn't mind but realized it for what it was. One time me and this girl were sex crazed maniacs - told me she was divorced. about 4 months later she explained "well, not really divorced...separated"

I also know plenty of women who got a quickie divorce only to marry the next guy a month later.

kinda like my ex - married other guy a month after it was final and she got her money (well, my money...her money now)

 

The Bunny has spoken, take his advice.