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Would you date your friends' ex?

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Old Jan 7, 2006 | 08:30 PM
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never mess with friend's ex. bro's over ho's, amen.
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Old Jan 7, 2006 | 09:04 PM
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i wouldnt date them but i do fuck them
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Old Jan 8, 2006 | 12:07 AM
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I've dated my ex's friends too hah but never one of my girl's ex's. Chicks b4 dicks
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Old Jan 8, 2006 | 01:10 AM
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Originally Posted by strawb3rri3
Chicks b4 dicks

Unless ya hate the chic. My friend got in a fight with some broad b/c she hooked up with the girls ex. She tried to justify it by saying, " I hate the bitch so i hit her where it hurts"

still wrong though....
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Old Jan 8, 2006 | 01:52 AM
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I would say NO, 95% of the time... but it depends on how serious they were, how long ago it was... too.

My buddy Mark for example... he's married now, with a son... but when I first met him back in 95', we were both working at Nordstrom's... well, a couple months ago... we started talking about all the women he dated back at Nordstroms... some I knew about, some I didn't, some I forgot about... and ya know what? just about every one of those he dated were hot as hell... I dated'em (or hook up, or whatever you wanna call it) in a heart beat... and knowing Mark... I'd have his blessing...
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Old Jan 8, 2006 | 07:00 AM
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never, no matter how hot.....
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Old Jan 15, 2006 | 01:47 PM
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depends on how good of a friend. I mean if it was some dude you knew and were OK with no biggie, but if its like your best friend since the 2nd grade..... then
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Old Jan 15, 2006 | 02:09 PM
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It depends why they're an ex.

If they hate each other's guts, then no.

If they are okay with each other and still hang out as friends but the sexual part is gone, then I think it's okay. It's okay as long as things won't be awkward.
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Old Jan 15, 2006 | 04:35 PM
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No way, it's disrespectful to a friend. You should be on your friend's side and dating an ex is a sign of betrayal.
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Old Jan 15, 2006 | 09:41 PM
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Has anyone ever noticed that right when your friend breaks up with their ex, the ex always come looking for you or one of their other friends? I'd say part of it is revenge and the other part is just following up on a crush that they had with you while they were dating your friend.

This has happend to me about 3 times now and it's annoying a f*ck since the person knows what the consequences are to everyone, but they try anyways
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Old Jan 15, 2006 | 09:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Scottman111
Has anyone ever noticed that right when your friend breaks up with their ex, the ex always come looking for you or one of their other friends? I'd say part of it is revenge and the other part is just following up on a crush that they had with you while they were dating your friend.

This has happend to me about 3 times now and it's annoying a f*ck since the person knows what the consequences are to everyone, but they try anyways
True, resorting to revenge is just so low :shakehead
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Old Jan 15, 2006 | 10:29 PM
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I think it is acceptable if you can met the following conditions:

1)The break-up was amicable, or at least semi-amicable.

2)Your friend is now going out with someone else.

3)A few months have passed.
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Old Jan 16, 2006 | 12:25 AM
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hell no i wouldnt
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Old Jan 16, 2006 | 01:11 AM
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Originally Posted by sasha
True, resorting to revenge is just so low :shakehead
Probably the lowest

And you know, the worst part about it, is that rumors get blown out of proportion and eventually get back to your friend that you two are hooking up now, hanging out, etc

Last edited by Scottman111; Jan 16, 2006 at 01:13 AM.
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