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Old 05-27-2005, 10:36 PM
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Women, forelplay, and their orgasms

OK, the wife and I were talking this evening and we ended up on the topic of about how long do we usually fool around. That led to how long is necessary for her to orgasm, then we wondered were our times (her's really) about average or what.

Start to finish, usually in the neighborhood of 30-40 minutes for both of us - can make it last longer of course, but our time together is usually later at night and sleep awaits.

So, the question is how long do you girls (or guys with girlfriends) usually end up spending doing the deed, specifically we're trying to figure out if the wife is about average for "warm up" time or what. I know when you're just super horny then 2 minutes is too long, but you know, just regular one of you is in the mood and starts fooling around then.....Just curious
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That's the part where you say "Take your clolthes off."

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That's the part where you say "Take your clolthes off."

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i think it's different in every situation.

i need some making out and stuff first, then he sticks his hand down my pants, then the pants actually come off, then some manual stimulation, then oral, then orgasm. probably total time, 30-40+ minutes for all of that. add more if we take breaks and i give him some lovin' in between.

or: making out, pants off, manual, then actual intercourse. the time between making out and sex is usually a lot smaller time frame than oral. maybe 10 minutes, or just enough to get all "lubed up."

i prefer the oral, because i like to have an orgasm once in a while (no, i don't have orgasms during sex.) but i really do enjoy sex, there's nothing like being pounded really hard once in a while.
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
i think it's different in every situation.

i need some making out and stuff first, then he sticks his hand down my pants, then the pants actually come off, then some manual stimulation, then oral, then orgasm. probably total time, 30-40+ minutes for all of that. add more if we take breaks and i give him some lovin' in between.

or: making out, pants off, manual, then actual intercourse. the time between making out and sex is usually a lot smaller time frame than oral. maybe 10 minutes, or just enough to get all "lubed up."

i prefer the oral, because i like to have an orgasm once in a while (no, i don't have orgasms during sex.) but i really do enjoy sex, there's nothing like being pounded really hard once in a while.
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Originally Posted by Gpump
So, the question is how long do you girls (or guys with girlfriends) usually end up spending doing the deed, specifically we're trying to figure out if the wife is about average for "warm up" time or what. I know when you're just super horny then 2 minutes is too long, but you know, just regular one of you is in the mood and starts fooling around then.....Just curious

Answer a question with a question... How long do you let your car warm up???

Anyways... depending on the situation... if we want to be a romantic about it... it takes about an hour to "warm up"... The routin is usually... dimmed light... Lit scented Candles... bust out the scented lotion... do her from head to toe... kiss her here and there... carress her here and there... (if you know your partner... their "feel good points" )...

If its a hit and go... about 15 mintues... just go straight to hit the "feel good points" and get it over with within another 15 to 30 mintues...

So yeah... 30 to 45 mintues sounds about right...
Hope that info helps...
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I can generally get her off in under 5 -10 minutes.
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it all depends, I don't think you can make a standard length of time.
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i can make my girl come in like 30 seconds, no joke its really easy and i know which motions and speeds do it, shes got a little asian pussy and i got a alrite sized dick so do the math.....usually we get done hella quick, she will come on average of like 3 times in maybe 7-10 minutes and i will nut pretty quick too

then like 15 minutes later we do it all again

one time she visited me after being deprived of sex for a week, we straight up fucked on and off for about an hour and a half, she came 10 times i nutted 4 times, my record for makin her come in one sex sitting was 8 orgasms and that took like 30 minutes

so fuck foreplay i wanna nut
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i can make my girl come in like 30 seconds, no joke its really easy and i know which motions and speeds do it, shes got a little asian pussy and i got a alrite sized dick so do the math.....usually we get done hella quick, she will come on average of like 3 times in maybe 7-10 minutes and i will nut pretty quick too
then like 15 minutes later we do it all again
one time she visited me after being deprived of sex for a week, we straight up fucked on and off for about an hour and a half, she came 10 times i nutted 4 times, my record for makin her come in one sex sitting was 8 orgasms and that took like 30 minutes
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Originally Posted by Liftedoff420
i can make my girl come in like 30 seconds, no joke its really easy and i know which motions and speeds do it, shes got a little asian pussy and i got a alrite sized dick so do the math.....usually we get done hella quick, she will come on average of like 3 times in maybe 7-10 minutes and i will nut pretty quick too

then like 15 minutes later we do it all again

one time she visited me after being deprived of sex for a week, we straight up fucked on and off for about an hour and a half, she came 10 times i nutted 4 times, my record for makin her come in one sex sitting was 8 orgasms and that took like 30 minutes

so fuck foreplay i wanna nut
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Originally Posted by Liftedoff420
i can make my girl come in like 30 seconds, no joke its really easy and i know which motions and speeds do it, shes got a little asian pussy and i got a alrite sized dick so do the math.....usually we get done hella quick, she will come on average of like 3 times in maybe 7-10 minutes and i will nut pretty quick too

then like 15 minutes later we do it all again

one time she visited me after being deprived of sex for a week, we straight up fucked on and off for about an hour and a half, she came 10 times i nutted 4 times, my record for makin her come in one sex sitting was 8 orgasms and that took like 30 minutes

so fuck foreplay i wanna nut

Ummmm, where did I put it.............



























Oh yeah, here it is
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hahahaha man hate or disbelieve all you want.....maybe some of you just cant fuck...i lost my virginity to this girl too, she pretty much tought me everything........i think its mostly due to the fact she has a tiny asian pussy though and i got a german irish dick.....her ex had a china dick and he could never get the job done

i never thoght i could come 4 times in a row like that untill i had sex with this girl...for some reason my dick just goes up and up and will just keep coming, even tho the amount of members on my male swimming team drastically diminishes as the cumshots progress

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hahahaha man hate or disbelieve all you want.....maybe some of you just cant fuck...i lost my virginity to this girl too, she pretty much tought me everything........i think its mostly due to the fact she has a tiny asian pussy though and i got a german irish dick.....her ex had a china dick and he could never get the job done

i never thoght i could come 4 times in a row like that untill i had sex with this girl...for some reason my dick just goes up and up and will just keep coming, even tho the amount of members on my male swimming team drastically diminishes as the cumshots progress
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i dont kno why its so ahrd to believe......i'll break it down like this
every sex session we will do like 4 positions

her on top- she comes once
me on top- once
me on top put her legs in a pointing the ceiling position so it goes extra deep- once
from the back- she loves this one alot so maybe twice

i told my girl you guys dont believe me and heres what she said


KRA***IllIl: thas perfectly curved
KRA***IllIl: to hit my g spot
KR***IllIl: especially doggy style

hahaha if your white and dating an asian girl you should know what i mean, i doubt i could make a black girl cum at all
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german irish dick
So, is that like a small dick with hunger for power complex?
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go watch a porno of an asian girl getting rammed by a white guy and you will see how it is, dont be sad you cant please your women
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ill be honest i dont have a ron jeremy dick, but i heard the average asian girl is only 4 inches deep, and im almost 7 so that extra 3 has to be doin somethin


haha you guys are really funny, i really dont think this is that hard to believe.....my boy who was nicoya had a asian gf and he said the same thing....asian girls have small pussies and LOVE TO FUCK!!! GET OVER IT!!!

hahahaha
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I just made a joke at the term german irish dick, which is funny in and of itself.

Whether what you say is true or not...dont really care, thats for your pleasure alone.
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What is the deal with comparing race/heritage to size???

So far you have talked about Asian, White, German, Irish, and Black. My favorite is that your gf is the only girl you have ever slept with, then you say you could not get a "black" girl off........Why do you say that?
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My wife orgasims pretty easy too. Total time from start to finish is about 45-60 minutes. She will orgasim 2-3 times during oral in a 6-8 minute time frame, then about once every 3-5 minutes to start during intercourse, and finally taking more like 6-8 minutes for her to orgasim at the end.

Me, 1 shot and I am out....
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I can invest 30 minutes and get my wife off 3-4 times. I gotta eat her lunch box for the first one (more for my pride in knowing that I can do it than for her enjoyment), then she gets on top and rides me to a few more (sometimes as many as 4), then I either get on top for another or take her from behind to finish her off. Sometimes I just "get mine" and go away, and she is cool about that, too! (or so she says).
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
i prefer the oral, because i like to have an orgasm once in a while (no, i don't have orgasms during sex.) but i really do enjoy sex, there's nothing like being pounded really hard once in a while.
I think most men are under the wrong impression that the female 'hot button' is somewhere on the tip of the uterus.

Even the G-spot is great, but still no comparison to good oral on the CORRECT spot. I think most guys, about 30ish, realize where they should focus their time...it's definitely not about how hard/long the actual fuck(insertion) is.

That's why women need foreplay...cause they need to be sufficiently distracted so us guys can get what we need.
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That's why women need foreplay...cause they need to be sufficiently distracted so us guys can get what we need.
brilliant!!!
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my girl doesnt let me go down on her....watever


i said i probably wont be able to get a black girl off because they need big black men to fuck em, which is something im not, i will still give it a shot tho ahha
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my girl doesnt let me go down on her....watever


i said i probably wont be able to get a black girl off because they need big black men to fuck em, which is something im not, i will still give it a shot tho ahha
:wtf:

We're all the same species. A black woman can have just as much of a satisfying sex life with someone outside her race.
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the average black women has a deeper pussy than the average asian women, therefore while one dick might satisfy an asian girl, it probably woultn satisfy a black women
its been proven
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Liftedoff420 you must be the dumbest motherfucker on this site. This is four threads in a row you've crapped up with your bullshit.
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Originally Posted by Liftedoff420
the average black women has a deeper pussy than the average asian women, therefore while one dick might satisfy an asian girl, it probably woultn satisfy a black women
its been proven
Could you post some of those statistics?

I would love to see the study where they shoved a ruler up the hoo-ha of various races
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i dont remember where i read it, but its true for alot of things
the average size of an asian mans penis is smaller than the average size of a black mans penis, the average size of an asian man compared to a black man is significantly different as well, why wouldnt it apply to girls as well....you are stupid as fuck if you think that the 5'0 asian girl is as tight as a 5'7 black girl with the honeyham ass
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you are stupid as fuck
I think you've said all there is about your argument.
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