Wills and Won'ts in bed...
08-23-2007, 10:46 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
I think women prefer erotica over porn.
any suggestions? She reads those books with Fabio on the cover - she swears it's not for the nekkid parts, but of course I hope she's lying.
would you suggest just going out & buying some instead of asking, etc.?
08-23-2007, 10:50 PM
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Originally Posted by revitupwriteitoff
yeah...that was the 1st and last experience with walking on the 'wild side' 
I figured I'd give it a while before going for it again - we're moving toward more 'natural' means of extracurricular excitement rather than using things you can buy at stores (for now 
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I figured I'd give it a while before going for it again - we're moving toward more 'natural' means of extracurricular excitement rather than using things you can buy at stores (for now )Cool that you're finding something that works for you.
I'm just going to interject one thing. Good old fashioned passion beats all the toys, books, or movies you can get your hands on, in my opinion. Love her like you mean it. *stepping down from soap box*
(Not saying the toys, books, & movies don't have their place...
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08-23-2007, 10:50 PM
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Originally Posted by revitupwriteitoff
any suggestions? She reads those books with Fabio on the cover - she swears it's not for the nekkid parts, but of course I hope she's lying.
would you suggest just going out & buying some instead of asking, etc.?
would you suggest just going out & buying some instead of asking, etc.?
08-23-2007, 10:51 PM
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Originally Posted by revitupwriteitoff
any suggestions? She reads those books with Fabio on the cover - she swears it's not for the nekkid parts, but of course I hope she's lying.
would you suggest just going out & buying some instead of asking, etc.?
would you suggest just going out & buying some instead of asking, etc.?
Ex. Enchanted
The Best American Erotica 2006
08-23-2007, 10:52 PM
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Sasha & I are on the same page.
08-23-2007, 11:13 PM
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brilliant, guys...thanks for the help - I guess the list is a lost cause for those that can't get up the gumption to just do the talking, huh?
08-25-2007, 10:09 PM
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There is a book, I think it is called 101 nights of romance or something to that effect. It is basically 101 "sealed for him/her" things to do. For instance, they say for him to do to/for her or vice versa. The pages are sealed with microperforations so you don't know what you're going to get until you open it. They give you guidelines on the outside like requires planning, costs money, involves food, etc so you can kind of plan what you're gettting into, but you never know until you open it. Some of the ones I remember involved shaving, stranger seduction roleplay, and some more risque behaviors.
Basically, it's a good way to explore some boundaries as long as both parties agree to be bound by whatever they open up within reason. Some people have definite do not cross lines but you never know until you try. Look into it.
Basically, it's a good way to explore some boundaries as long as both parties agree to be bound by whatever they open up within reason. Some people have definite do not cross lines but you never know until you try. Look into it.
08-26-2007, 11:41 AM
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Originally Posted by Pete1burn
I'm not sure why you can't talk openly about things. I tell me wife all the things I'd like to try and vice versa.
She'll try most anything once, but I suppose it helps that my requests aren't very crazy. Besides a threesome (which she goes back and forth about) she's receptive.
SHE wants to try anal, but she says it hurts every time we try, so we stopped trying. Maybe someday.
She'll try most anything once, but I suppose it helps that my requests aren't very crazy. Besides a threesome (which she goes back and forth about) she's receptive.
SHE wants to try anal, but she says it hurts every time we try, so we stopped trying. Maybe someday.
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08-26-2007, 08:05 PM
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Any luck with getting some conversation started?
08-26-2007, 08:18 PM
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Originally Posted by wndrlst
Any luck with getting some conversation started?
meh...we were in Tyler for my dad's birthday, so there wasn't a lot of 'talk'...we'll worry about it sometime later
08-26-2007, 08:30 PM
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Yeah, the parents' house is not exactly inspirational...
08-29-2007, 10:43 PM
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Just be open with eachother and tell eachother what you like rather than what you DON'T like! If it gets to a point where it's a bit too extreme for her than at least she can voice them out w/o thinking you're a weirdo! Talking about it in that sense kinda loses the whole excitement of the actual act. So, just go with the flow. I would rather have a guy try to see if I'm game about having anal and show him that I don't like it by flipping his intentions to doggy-style! haha I mean, isn't that better than having an interview as to what you like and don't like and totally ruin the moment?
For the record, I don't think I would ever have anal sex! I cringe at the very idea of it.
For the record, I don't think I would ever have anal sex! I cringe at the very idea of it.
08-29-2007, 10:50 PM
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I think people should read "How To Make Love Like A Pornstar"-by Jenna Jameson. I haven't read it personally since eroticism come naturally for me :p But one of my friends read it and mentioned how the book says that it's better to use "saliva" rather than lube! Of course I already knew that
08-29-2007, 10:51 PM
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I think this thread would be kinda appropriate for this discussion: https://acurazine.com/forums/ramblings-12/8-forms-kinds-sex-371205/
08-29-2007, 10:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Yumchah
I think this thread would be kinda appropriate for this discussion: https://acurazine.com/forums/showthread.php?t=371205
You surprise me, Yummy. I thought you were going to link to your AM thread.
08-29-2007, 11:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Yumchah
I think this thread would be kinda appropriate for this discussion: https://acurazine.com/forums/showthread.php?t=371205
08-29-2007, 11:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Yumchah
So like...if anyone tries #8 and is successful, please share and post here.
I'm out.
08-29-2007, 11:04 PM
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I forgot all about his confusion re: which hair...
08-30-2007, 02:57 AM
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Originally Posted by revitupwriteitoff
^ 
Presumably his girlfriend doesn't shave or trim much down there...
08-30-2007, 05:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Will Y.
Read the thread-- much confusion over grabbing pubic v. head hair while saying sister/cousin/mother's name...
Presumably his girlfriend doesn't shave or trim much down there...
Presumably his girlfriend doesn't shave or trim much down there...
Thats a scary thought-imagine pulling down those panties and getting a glimpse of the untammed
08-30-2007, 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted by TSX Nightwalker
^^^^^ hahahahahaha That's just gross. I don't understand why some womena AND men don't get porn star trims down there. It's a MUST!
I trim, but my gf shaves it bald
08-30-2007, 11:28 AM
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Originally Posted by wndrlst
I forgot all about his confusion re: which hair...
Hey...Englishee is seken langidge.
08-30-2007, 11:36 AM
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Originally Posted by TSX Nightwalker
And going back to topic:
I would never allow a guy to give me "facials" and even "protein shakes" GAG! GAG!
I would never allow a guy to give me "facials" and even "protein shakes" GAG! GAG!
Why don't you like facials? My gf doesn't like them either.
And protein shake = swallow?
08-30-2007, 11:37 AM
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I love facials...
08-30-2007, 11:58 AM
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Originally Posted by hornyleprechaun
Why don't you like facials? My gf doesn't like them either.
And protein shake = swallow?
And protein shake = swallow?
I think it's demeaning to women.
And yes, "protein shakes" are just that :laugh:
, but I don't like getting them. :laugh: Never have, never will!
08-30-2007, 12:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
I love facials...
On the other hand, I don't understand how facials are turn-ons. My wife finds the concept more amusing than I, but it doesn't stimulate either of us.
Even porn that ends with facials is just annoying.
08-30-2007, 12:00 PM
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Originally Posted by TSX Nightwalker
I think it's demeaning to women.
And yes, "protein shakes" are just that :laugh:
And yes, "protein shakes" are just that :laugh:
08-30-2007, 12:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
I think eating out a woman is demeaning to man....
08-30-2007, 12:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
I think eating out a woman is demeaning to man....
08-30-2007, 12:44 PM
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Originally Posted by TSX Nightwalker
Then how can you say you like "facials" if a woman isn't on top riding your face? Are you getting your "facials" by another man or shooting one up after jerkin' it?