When do you know it's over?
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werd
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When do you know it's over?
At what point exactly do you know it's over and there's no point in even trying to fix what's wrong? Is there an exact point and time?
I guess it's a personal decision. Every relationship is different. But maybe I can get some insight from everyone here.
Can you guys and gals give me some opinions please? I'm going through b.s. with my GF and it's depressing.
I guess it's a personal decision. Every relationship is different. But maybe I can get some insight from everyone here.
Can you guys and gals give me some opinions please? I'm going through b.s. with my GF and it's depressing.
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From: ShitsBurgh
Best advise I ever got, was you have to ask yourself is it worth it. Is it worth going through what you're going through. Not is this the one, or do i love this person. Is it worth it for me, to put up with this. Love is about acceptance and learning to love and understand the little things and accept the little annoying things, however if the girl makes you miserable or it isn't worth it for you to deal with that, then jump ship and move on bro.
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Burning Brakes
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From: Saskatchewan, Canada
Originally Posted by FuriousGeorge83
I always say when you feel like the other person is no longer trying its over.
exactly...
although, yes, it is kinda tough to distinguish between what you WANT, and what's the BEST DECISION...i went through that search my threads...
the simplest way i can put it is, when the bad outweighs the good...(and you need an OBJECTIVE opinion on this.....ask a friend)
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From: Indiana
I agree with everyone else, if you are posting about it, it's done, don't waste your life on something that doesn't make you HAPPY! If you ain't HAPPY, noone in the relationship will really be HAPPY
When you started typing this thread.
In my previous relationships that failed it was when I started seeing all her faults rather than what I liked about her. If you have to rationalize why you're with her, it's done. And lastly, if you'd rather do just about anything else, than spend time with her.
In my previous relationships that failed it was when I started seeing all her faults rather than what I liked about her. If you have to rationalize why you're with her, it's done. And lastly, if you'd rather do just about anything else, than spend time with her.
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Originally Posted by Purple Yam
When you pay her for sex. It is really over.
It should be when she straight up asks you for money instead of dancing around it like dinner, jewelery, wasting time on something she wants to do, a painful conversation etc.
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Originally Posted by Titand19
We always have to pay for sex. Maybe you should rephrase.
It should be when she straight up asks you for money instead of dancing around it like dinner, jewelery, wasting time on something she wants to do, a painful conversation etc.
It should be when she straight up asks you for money instead of dancing around it like dinner, jewelery, wasting time on something she wants to do, a painful conversation etc.
