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Old Aug 6, 2004 | 01:31 AM
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Whats the rule on giving and reciving?

Ok, is there some rule were your suppost to take turns one some night and then next person a few nights later or somethin?

Do you guys expect to get the favor returned right after?

The reason I ask....It always seems like between my and my girlfriend, im always the one making the first move...then im always giving the favors first...then shes all relaxed and just wants to cuddle or some shit while im left over here killin myself...

i donno...its just drving me nuts...she like adv.'s like once a week while im lucky for once every 2-3 weeks.....it sucks nd im gettin sick of it,

Soo what do you guys tihink??

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Old Aug 6, 2004 | 10:46 AM
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Jesus once said it's better to give than receive
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Old Aug 6, 2004 | 11:52 AM
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Well, talk to her about it. Bring it up and ask her why your giving it, but not recieving it? I don't know for some, but I usually give and then receive. If she isn't down with it, then dont give it to her, so that way she sees how your feeling when you dont get any at all. If she wont go down at all, then see what else you can do. If not, maybe look for another partner that is willing to do the same thing for you perhaps? Just my
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Old Aug 6, 2004 | 06:09 PM
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bang her sister/friend on the side
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Old Aug 6, 2004 | 07:47 PM
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ask and you shall receive.

and if she refuses, keep your tongue in your mouth until she blows your dick.
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Old Aug 6, 2004 | 10:08 PM
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If you give, then you SHOULD receive. If not the same day, it better be the next day you see her.
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Old Aug 6, 2004 | 11:37 PM
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damn that sucks...after you eat her pus why not just ask her to suck you off? tell her your horny as hell and need to nut! or shit...just fuck her while she lays there...or if she is easy goin just talk to her bout it...cuz bro that shit aint right imho
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Old Aug 7, 2004 | 12:37 AM
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Originally Posted by 98AcuraCLpimp
damn that sucks...after you eat her pus why not just ask her to suck you off? tell her your horny as hell and need to nut! or shit...just fuck her while she lays there...or if she is easy goin just talk to her bout it...cuz bro that shit aint right imho
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Old Aug 13, 2004 | 05:04 AM
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give and receive the same night! that's the way it's supposed to be....damn sith, better marry me quick!!! j/k
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Old Aug 13, 2004 | 05:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Acura3.0CL
Ok, is there some rule were your suppost to take turns one some night and then next person a few nights later or somethin?

Do you guys expect to get the favor returned right after?

The reason I ask....It always seems like between my and my girlfriend, im always the one making the first move...then im always giving the favors first...then shes all relaxed and just wants to cuddle or some shit while im left over here killin myself...

i donno...its just drving me nuts...she like adv.'s like once a week while im lucky for once every 2-3 weeks.....it sucks nd im gettin sick of it,

Soo what do you guys tihink??

Dr. LoveSICK here. Ya'll need to talk. Many people are simply afraid to talk about oral sex. Just one day when your talking bring it up and say "Hey it really feels good when u do me, I noticed I do u more, is something wrong"? Talk about it.

She'll feel better.











































Either that or u are horrible at eating coochie.
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Old Aug 13, 2004 | 05:36 PM
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Maybe you should read the "shave or not to shave" thread, it might help....
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Old Aug 14, 2004 | 07:41 PM
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If shes to tired to return the favor, next time you should tease her alot, kiss her all over but dont actually do it. This way you'll get her in the mood and you make her want you the way you want her. Basically the goal is to get her to go down on you first.

Or just get a girl who feels guilty not to return the favor.
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Old Aug 14, 2004 | 09:03 PM
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yea, don;t give her shit or maybe you could just bite her hard and spit on her shit! HAhaha! Do you guys shower first? Maybe your meat n potatos are stinky????
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Old Aug 15, 2004 | 03:02 AM
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So you have never received back ?
I have literally had to take a girls hand and place it on my package.
She: "what are you doing ?"
Me: "Cock, Balls!"

She may be nervous that she wil not be doing it right or soemthing of that nature, I've heard the "I'm no good at it", Me " I'll be the judge of that"
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Old Aug 15, 2004 | 03:46 PM
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PS...

it has to be quality. quality over quantity. as quality increases, so does quantity.

if you want good head, you need to lick good clit.
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Old Aug 18, 2004 | 08:04 AM
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every chic is different...mine pleases me, and then wants to cuddle...not wanting anything in return...she says she just wants me to feel good..she can even suck dick for an hour without feeling bad if i dont return the favor...aint life grand??? hehe
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Old Aug 18, 2004 | 11:41 AM
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69 bro... that way you both get it at the same time... if not... get her started and just STOP.... then start jerkin the gerkin in her face... if you played your cards right... she'll be ready to suck the chrome off a bumper...

thank god i dont have that problem
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Old Aug 18, 2004 | 01:41 PM
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
ask and you shall receive.

and if she refuses, keep your tongue in your mouth until she blows your dick.
Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
PS...

it has to be quality. quality over quantity. as quality increases, so does quantity.

if you want good head, you need to lick good clit.
Listen to this woman, she is wise.




One more thing to think about.......but if getting GOOD blowjobs (because beleive it or not, they are not all good), is important to you and your girl doesn't enjoy giving you good blowjobs, then you need to curb her. I can deal with sub-standard head, or even no head from a fuck buddy, but if we are doing the monogamy thing then she better be sucking my cock like it's got the antidote in it.

Oh and to answer the question I usually receive and then give. It's perfect because I get that first nut out of the way, then I can work on her for as long as it takes, then while she is still on a high from oral I am ready to go again and I can keep the pleasure going for her while working on my second nut aka the long pull. Usually we end up with at least 2 orgasms a piece, or just one for her if she can only come one kinda way (either clit or penetration) sometimes more if she's a multi-O chick.
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Old Aug 19, 2004 | 04:54 AM
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in order to truly give a wonderful, blow your mind head, the woman must love doing it for her man. She needs to get more pleasure out of giving it than he does receiving it....that is when you are a master and that is when the man is getting the best of the best....
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Old Aug 22, 2004 | 05:59 PM
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except when they do it wrong...man..I need some healin...damn teeth scraps on my boys head aint right . Feels like the first few layers of skin are gone. walking sure is a pain this morning wearing the boxer briefs.
When Bernie Mac said in (Orginal Kings of Comedy) "...then they try to do the $hit wrong so you'll tell them to stop....f*** that, they got to learn, they got to learn...." Well I say F*** that...they can learn on someone else.
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Old Aug 22, 2004 | 07:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Waddy
be sucking my cock like it's got the antidote in it.

CHRIS ROCK
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Old Aug 22, 2004 | 07:35 PM
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Originally Posted by RaptorCLS
except when they do it wrong...man..I need some healin...damn teeth scraps on my boys head aint right . Feels like the first few layers of skin are gone. walking sure is a pain this morning wearing the boxer briefs.
When Bernie Mac said in (Orginal Kings of Comedy) "...then they try to do the $hit wrong so you'll tell them to stop....f*** that, they got to learn, they got to learn...." Well I say F*** that...they can learn on someone else.

Just knock a few chicklets loose, and buy her some dentures to replace 'em...

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Old Aug 22, 2004 | 08:09 PM
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What a sad story. I always recieve/give in the same day. Or, like someone else said, go for 69.
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Old Aug 23, 2004 | 12:16 AM
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Originally Posted by sixgearcl
she'll be ready to suck the chrome off a bumper...
Dont u mean "suck the chrome off a trailer hitch?"
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