So I've been seeing the girl that I met on my birthday for a few weeks now and its obviously valentines day today. Now my problem is I dont know if Im expected to do anything. We havent really been dating or anything, she just kind of comes over, we get some booze, watch a movie and then have some fun. No official dates or anything of that matter. Talked to her on sunday but I was passed out and dont really remember what was said, I dont think vday was mentioned at all. Anyways, should I call her today and be like hey happy valentines day, come over? or just wait and see if she calls me later? I think she told me shes working a double shift today so I dont have to worry about going out or anything. I hope. Ehh. Im thinking I might call and leave a message but then again I dont want to be that guy that ruins a good thing by doing something stupid.

 

"have fun" does that include any kind of sexual activity? If you don't call her today, she'll be upset.

 

A "Happy Valentines Day" is in order.

Just to clarify, say "Happy Valentines Day" to her. Don't get all crazy and buy a purse.

 

Get the mint condoms so she'll enjoy it more tonight...tell her you were thinking bout her when you got them.

 

Working a double on valentines day huh?

 

= she's with her boyfriend tonight

 

How is it there are two different thread titled "What would you do?"

I surprised the website allowed that

Anyway, call her and be like sup.

 

 

Boyfriend? probably not, Girlfriend? maybe. She hasnt called back so I guess shes getting some from someone else.

 

uh oh, here comes the friend ladder movement.

 

there is no friend ladder movement, we arnt dating. She actually just called a few mins ago and is on her way over. woot not a lost vday anymore!

 

the purse part made me LOL ^5

 

so she's going for her second round of the evening then?

 

Sloppy seconds

 

haha She was actually like "i wasnt sure if you wanted me to come over" and all that and is like I got you something. She shows up with lingerie and a bottle of champaigne and a big smile. It was a fun night to say the least.