Allright fellaz, I was talking w/ one of my friends, and he decides to talk to this one chick. This chick was talking to some guy neither of us knew, and when he approached her and said hello, she told my friend striaght up that the guy she was talking to was her man. He was like "oh, my bad, sorry about that" and some other shit, and the guy didn't mind it too much. When my friend came back, I just laughed and laughed, and told him he just a crazy mofo.

But seriously though, what would you guys do?

A) Keep a damn close eye on this prick that tried to talk to your gurl while you were talking?

B) Tell this foo straight up to neva talk to her again?

C) Warn him sayin if he tries that shit again, you'd drop him like a lil bitch?

What are your ideas, in case the ones I gave didn't meet your style, or didn't like them at all? Remember, no right/wrong answers, just YOUR OPINION. With me, I'd probably go with A. No arguments, just what you'd do, thats all.

 

First time, no reason to do anything, he apologized and left.

just keep a mental note, and if shit happens again, take it from there.

 

wait so he tried to hit on the girl while her bf was talking to her?

 

The girl pretty much took care of it.

That's what i expect of my girl. I'm only "needed" in that situation if he approaches her again or something like that.

As far as keeping a "close eye" on my girl...too much trouble and not really effective. Either your relationship is solid or it isn't. No amount of keeping an eye on her will help (prolly will hurt in fact)

 

pretty much silvia.


who cares. just brush it off. The girl can make her own decisions and she doesn't need a bodygaurd.

For some reason, i'm reminded about one of my friends who gets all upset when his girl talks to one of her ex's an such.

I keep telling him there's a reason that he is her EX and not her boyfriend.

any girl that ever brought up her ex boyfriend to me, just proved that she was comfortable enough to mention it. I don't get jealous, mainly because i don't attach an emotional value at first too. Don't hate, just let the girl know that you're comfortable with her speaking about it. she'll respect you for understanding

 

you do nothing but take it as a complement that you have the girl and the dude that is trying to get her dosent...

i mean it's only one time..anything after that is a problem..

 

I highly doubt he was tryin to hit on her, he already has a gurlfriend, but talks to chicks and shit. I guess he wanted to talk to her, but was a bit occupied at the moment, lol.

 

 

 

Smoke that nigga in the alley dog.

 

I'm pretty much in agreement with everyone else. She took care of it. No reason for her b/f to get all paranoid just cause another guy wanted to talk to her. Like Mikey said (and I can't believe I just wrote that)(j/k, Mikey ) I'd take it as a compliment that another guy was approaching her. I mean, how was your friend supposed to know that guy was her b/f and not some random dude?
However, you said your friend already has a girl. I have to wonder what his motivation was in approaching another girl in the first place? Is he just looking for new friends, or is he the one that wants a little sumthin-sumthin on the side?

 

I am sure he knew the chick, but didn't know her man at all. I dont know if he does wnat some on the side, cuz I see him tryin to talk to chicks here and there and shit. But who knows.

 

Doesn't sound like anything too serious happened there. Everyone seemed cOol with the situation and like Pull said, the girl pretty much took care of it

 

just give em the stare down act like a bad ass bitch and forget about it...:whocares:

 

 

whateverthefuck

sucks bein wingman huh?

grow balls, then talk to girls w no worries

 

Allright, sorry to bring this shit up again, BUT, I did talk to my boy today, and this is what he said, as he was walking towards me cuz he needed to ask some things about a project in our class, he glanced over, they made eye contact and SHE smiled at him. So he decides to go over and takl to her while some other guy was there, and then she tells my friend that the other guy is her man. Now, who's here to blame? I say her. My friend has never met this chick before, nor has he ever talked to her. I am not saying that my boy was completely innocent, cuz it takes two to tango, but u get the idea.

 

Yuppie, I wasn't trying to be his wingman, I wasn't doing anythign for him either, I was talkin to another chick at that time. i wasn't bitchin or complaining that HE was takling to chicks while I wasn't, I thought it was funny that he's ballsy enough to talk to a chick while another guy is talkin to her, not knowing the facts ahead of time, thats all.

 

i think i wouldn't mind if some guy came up and tried talking to my girl while i am with her, as long as its not some rude or perverted comment, i know my girl can handle herself too cause on time some guy asked her to go on a date with him and all she had to do was flash the fat ass diamond ring i put on her hand and he backed off. i was pretty proud of her.

to summerize if a guy came up to talk to my girl while i was with her i would just grab her hand show him the ring and say "she's busy"

 

whatever, ive doen the flash the diamond ring bit and that still doesnt deter guys.

i get shit like i bet i can treat you better than him.