ok so then why have this thread posting the orig question.. GO HIT IT THEN!!!! fawk everyone else!!!

 

I've always had trouble getting over the hump when it came to girls with boyfriends. 3 months ago, I banged this Puerto Rican chick. She told me she was married only after I banged her and I said, you shoulda told me before. She said, what's the big deal? I said, that shit's not cool and she doesn't want to talk to me now. In this situation now, the bf means a lot less than a husband, but I don't know if I want to deal with the bullshit of a suspicious bf and shit like that. That's why I posed the question on this thread.

 

ummm... If she was hot Ill bang her!!! Kids, Husband, whatever!!!

 

I can't cross the marriage line. I'll see if I can PM you her number, but I don't think she'll want to talk to me so don't be disappointed if I can't get you the number.

 

try and talk to her... see if she wants some ===D and send her my pics...lol taht will get me the #.. or give me her AIM name and ill work her over!

 

Well she lives in the Bronx so she's just south of you. I hope you like big girls, she's 5'10''! She's really hot, big tits, not fat, pretty face. I really hate her being married cause I'd still be tapping it, but I have my rules you know.

 

Give it up bro'. Dey plenty otha bishez in the pasture.

 

same here, i was going to post "are you gay?" hehe

 

Yeah but this girl is kinda diggin me. I'm not the delusional type to say any girl who talks to me likes me, I just got the feeling she digs me, but her mentioning the bf was either a stupid answer or she was just being honest when I asked her, what did you do for Christmas? And she said, I went to my bf's house.

 

I always hated it when I had a boyfriend and yet other guys would still try to get with me. It's like, if I wanted to hook up with you, I wouldn't have told you about him, all right?

You guys are all assuming that this chick is a slut and that she positively will let him hit it... chances are, since she told him about the bf in the first place, it's because she doesn't want to hit it.

 

She's a girl though. I don't want to hear about what gay guys do and how you don't tell your fellow gays that you have a boyfriend if you don't want to be asked out. This is a whole other ball game, dude.

 

Um, I'm a chick. Thanks a lot though.

 

OOPS! I thought you were a gay guy giving advice. Have a nice day, Miss.

 

It's okay. I guess it's hard to tell that I'm a girl since my name doesn't have anything to do with butterflies, princesses, stars, angels, or unicorns.

My advice stands, however.

 

bahaha PWNED

 

Then what's up with the hugs and kisses every time I walk into her diner? She's a waitress there and I've never seen her kiss another customer. You sure that's typical behavior for a waitress?

 

Is she a Hooters waitress?

Oh, but one more thing... have you ever hung out with her outside of the restaurant? Because a lot of times waitresses play up to the customers in order to get bigger tips. If she thinks you'll give her more if she's "friendly" then she may be acting.

 

Definitely not a hooters, strip club, or anything like that. This place is a pure eatery and nothing else. Wouldn't this girl be kissing up on other customers too if she just wanted big tips?

 

Well, assuming that you go in often (or at least have been in more than once), she may just know that YOU give a good tip when she treats you that way. Different customers react to different things; you have to know your "audience", so to speak.

Of course I could be absolutely wrong. You're just going to have to go for it. Debating the issue won't really do anything, just go try!

 

Just hang out with her and see what happens. Certainly don't listen to the guys that are telling you to hit it and run, thats the dumbest advice you could get. But there is no reason for you not to - as you put it - get in line. Just keep doin what your doin and if shes into you, then she'll eventually lose the b/f. No reason to take a stance at this point since she has a b/f. She could be very happy in the relationship, or it could be on the rocks. Just ride it out and wait until he is out of the picture.

 

Ehh i dont think "riding it out" is a good idea. that's a good way to fall into the trap of being used as a "cuddle bitch" or just for attention. IMO either make a move or look for somethin else in the meantime....basically don't sit around and wait for her.

 

Cr.ash79 pics?

 

I figured it out when u called somebody hun.

 

I'm sorry, I don't have any pics. I'm terribly ugly... deformed from birth, and I would like to maybe talk to some people who haven't seen "the eye." If you don't mind.

 

Ahh, but that is also a term widely used in the gay community.:gaylaugh:

 

Pics Cr. Post some pics!

 

maybe but i can kinda tell from ur messages. It was either you were a fag (an extremley girly gay dude) or a girl. Damn i knew it, there going to be 19 pages now asking for u to post ur pic. This aways happens when there is a misunderstanding like oh i am a girl not a dude. Then everybody wants to see a pic.

 

I'll post pics of the waitress soon.

 

I really don't have a pic. There's no point asking, so don't. Everybody hates the 19 page threads, including me, so lets not make one. K?

 

I go back to the diner she works at and she was pretty cool. She gave me 2 kisses on the corner of the lips then... Her coworker, some waiter dude, cockblocks me severely. This idiot tries to keep her away from me as much as possible. When I was leaving, he put her arm out in front of her to block her path and made sure there was no goodbye kiss. What an asshole.

 

she is working you for your tip

 

Then how come she's not working other guys? I've seen her work other tables with guys checking her out and no kissy feely stuff from her.

 

who knows, but if you have seen her multiple times and still nothing has come out of it, she's just having fun w/ you. I know a few girls who waitress and they talk about how they flirt all the fucking time w/ guys. None of them want to take it anywhere, it's just a fun thing for them to do.

 

You could be right, anything's possible.

 

I say you smash that Booty, then move on.

 

Tell her you're packing nine inches!

 

Your exgirlfriend misinformed you, goose, it's 12 inches.