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MrStak, you had a good chance to get her number bro, don't beat yourself up. If you really like her do whatever it takes to contact her and be real with her about it. If she likes you she will like that you went the extra mile just for her. If it all fails then it wasn't meant to be. On to the next one. 2 cents
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sorry man, that sounds boring. you want a first date something for her to remember you by. i doubt she'd go for that but who knows?
my first date with my gf started out by her wanting to meet at barnes and noble. but since it was october then, I suggested we take it up a notch and went to a local oktoberfest festival. had some bratwursts, checked out the different displays and went dancing the night away.
art exhibits at a museum is more like an 8th or 10th date man. just speaking from experience. last thing you want since you're trying to make an impression, is to seem boring. thats just what an art exhibit is, unless she is very much in to that.
my first date with my gf started out by her wanting to meet at barnes and noble. but since it was october then, I suggested we take it up a notch and went to a local oktoberfest festival. had some bratwursts, checked out the different displays and went dancing the night away.
art exhibits at a museum is more like an 8th or 10th date man. just speaking from experience. last thing you want since you're trying to make an impression, is to seem boring. thats just what an art exhibit is, unless she is very much in to that.
I would just drive out there but apparently nursing is an "all consuming" thing for her. She told me she basically eats/sleeps/drinks school. She seems pretty school oriented so I'm not going to mess her shit up unless she's definitely got time for me.
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Also.. you might think she's not, but you don't know her well enough.. so she could be. Judging people who you barely know is in error. You might think she's an angel, but only time will tell. Don't create someone in your mind yet.. that's how you slip, get emotional, clingy, etc. Be real.
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Yea art exhibitions aren't really my thing either. Only thing that interested me about this one (and this interested her too) was there's a huge slide that goes down 2 stories. We both don't get the concept of abstract art and all that crap...we're both just interested in the slide. hahah and she said she likes shake shack so I'm thinking exhibit for slide then shake shack and something else after? Won't happen till around Thanksgiving anyway so I got time.
Also.. you might think she's not, but you don't know her well enough.. so she could be. Judging people who you barely know is in error. You might think she's an angel, but only time will tell. Don't create someone in your mind yet.. that's how you slip, get emotional, clingy, etc. Be real.
How do you know?
Thanks. Will keep in touch with her but I won't be overly pushy on meeting up.
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The hard part is done. Like stated don't be a dbag, don't rush or bother her, just throw out some ideas on things to do. Pick some sort of activity to do when you meet up, something where you can talk. You already have an easy topic, can talk about the wedding; who got drunk, did something dumb, etc. Don't go to a movie where you'll have to be quiet, you have built in conversation already so that is good.
Don't be pushy or aggressive, end the date on good terms, email/text her the next day saying you had a good time and leave it at that. If she replies that she would like to do it again, you know you did well.
Don't be pushy or aggressive, end the date on good terms, email/text her the next day saying you had a good time and leave it at that. If she replies that she would like to do it again, you know you did well.