415ua5

so heres the situation. for the last month ive been planning a road trip with my boys, and its coming up this weekend. i have 4 available seats in my car, one was pretty much confirmed but not set in stone yet. my GF and two of her friends were also roadtripping down to the same place that weekend (halloween santa barbara)...

well last week she tells me that her ride flaked and they need a ride. i had 4 seats available so i gave them 3. now heres where the problem starts, with the one available seat. my friend Doug was gonna come down with me, so i left that seat open, not promising anyone. well the other day my GF tells me that she told another one of her friends that the seat was open. i was like WHOA, and told her no, that seat is still in question, and i had to call my friend Doug and confirm that he was riding down with me. i called doug last night and he said that he is riding with me...so now the shit hits the fan.

well about 30 minutes ago my girl told me that she promised her friend the seat was open. i was like "NOOOOOO!! i called doug and hes riding in my car". well my girl goes apeshit...saying that i ruined her friends vacation and hers, and that shes not going anymore.....going completely insane, all this. shes pulling the guilt trip on me and all this crap.

now i think im correct, SHE IS WRONG. she should have NEVER promised her friend the seat untill i confirmed it was free, which i never did. she went ahead and assumed it was free last night and told her friend that. this is bullshit. what the fuck is wrong with her....if im not mistaken IM THE RIGHT ONE...RIGHT?????

415ua5

cliffnotes....
-roadtrip with 4 open seats
- GF and 2 friends take 3 seats
- last seat is for friend, but GF promises another friend the seat
- says that im wrong, and that i ruined everyones vacation
- shes the one who started everything because she promised a girl a seat that wasnt hers

JJ4Short

Your girlfriend is a stupid cunt that you need to leave NOW!
Not even joking man
Any bitch who goes apeshit over that needs to get slapped.

Mizouse

just have a girl ride on your friends lap, problem solved

415ua5

shes been getting really mad about stupid ass shit lately too man


last night a homegirl from high school left me a comment on myspace. she asked how i was doing and asked when i was gonna visit her (which is about 4 hours away, not really trying to). well i said "i might come up if some friends of mine roadtrip up", which honestly wont really happen

well GF saw this and flipped out and got mad at me...i almost imploded. what the fuck is wrong with her??? she was never like this before

415ua5

and then to top it off last night she was really drunk and sick, so i was up untill 430 AM helping her...not really complaining about that but after doing all that work she still has the balls to get mad at me about this?!?!?!?!?

o yeah....GF if you read this i dont care...GROW UP

Ol Blue Eyes

why don't you put your GF's myspace link up so we can tell her ourselves

NEVERaDuLLmoment

are you her permanent chauffeur(sp)???

i didn't think so. tell her or one of her friends to drive.

Don't screw your boy over and cave in to her, otherwise you will aquire the "whipped" status

Ol Blue Eyes

title changed to 'Frizzle'


hilarious

415ua5

NO WAY IM TELLIN MY BOY HES NOT GETTING A SEAT

weve been plannin this shit for a long time. i will not cave in.....i feel sorry for her 3rd friend because she was promised a seat and thoght she could come...but due to my GF shes been let down

GIBSON6594

You could always post nude pics of her here as a payback

NEVERaDuLLmoment

tell one of her friends to drive, simple as that....

415ua5

ehh they dont really have a car...my GF doesnt have liscense, and her friend drives a bucket volvo that has overheating problems

i was kinda counting on their gasfade...they are totally covering me plus extra money for booze

415ua5

HAHA well.,...i suggested i look at her friends car and see if it could make the trip...but she pulled the same bullshit again...."shut up, you just dont want us in your car, if you dont want us to go dont" what the fuck....why do periods significantly block a girls brain from working>???

mrsteve

iTrader: (1)

She sucks. Leave her before you go on vacation. You'll have a lot more fun.

415ua5

word.....i just think this is a petty reason to break up with her

she is on the rag....if that means anything lol. i'll try to put the pants back on in this relationship becuase i think she has the idea that she does. if no budging maybe thats an option

JJ4Short

punch her in the ovaries

415ua5

i love the advice i get on here... haha im gonna go punch her in the ovaries now

and then get my ass brutally kicked ahah

mrsteve

iTrader: (1)

Pussy

Tripp11

Grow a set of nuts already......then punch her in her ovaries.

415ua5

jesus christ im not going to physically beat my girlfriend, none of you would either. im just gonna beat her with words...chill out

Tripp11

JC would want you to grow a set of nuts though....and he would want you to refrain from raising a hand against your GF.

Seriously, you yourself said it was a guy's weekend, right? So, where did all your boys go? Or are they big wussies like you and bow before their girlfriends?

Couples need some time apart. You had planned a weekend with your boys so that's what you and your boys should have done. By giving in, even just a little, you've let her run the entire weekend.......just like she does every weekend, I'm sure of it.

sasha

Well, there you go...

You guys had some sort of compromise and she didn't really keep her end of the deal by insisting that the other seat goes to her friend. She's blowing this out of proportion... are you sure there are no problems in your relationship? Sounds like her behavior is a manifestation of some unresolved issue.

iTimmy

How old is your GF? this sounds like high school drama, none of them have a car that can make the trip, your gf doesn't even have a license and their giving YOU shit. They claim you ruined her friends vacation and her's, fine, simple solution they are no longer welcome to go with you because they are going to ruin you having a good time.

Also you seem to be young yourself, and are suffering a communication barrier, I'd strongly suggest reading Men are from Mars, Woman are from Venus. This way in the future you will understand what she really means and how to de-fuse the a problem before it turns into what you have to deal with now.

Right now it sounds like no matter what you do someone is going to be pissed at you, shity situation.

iTimmy

This situation probably has little to do with what's really on her mind.

sasha

Some girls act like bitches when they are not completely happy & satisfied with the guy.

415ua5

im not sure about unresolved issue, shes just been a real bitchfest lately....every little fucking thing turns into an argument, where i just say fuck and leave

btw were both 19. this is the boys weekend, so far its just me and doug going down and visiting HS homies, and then another car is going down saturday with the rest of the gang

now shes saying i should apologize to the girl (shes sorta my friend too).....im probably gonna tell her sorry that things didnt work out...but i want my girlfriend to know that this whole mess is HER FAULT...i honestly dont think shes gonna budge....fucking korean attitude and stubborness is a bitch to deal with...

Tripp11

Totally agree......that's part of their subtle hints they like to drop when they are displeased with you; however, if she really does want to end things with him and has been acting up as of late, why invite herself along with other friends on his little getaway.

My guess is that this type of shi* happens all the time in this relationship because it's been a one way street waaaaaaaaay too long and from the inception.

That's just me Dr. Phil'ing a guy I don't even know. :-)

415ua5

ahha thats probably the best thing ive heard so far....i can honestly say that im not a good boyfriend....but im at the point where i dont want to be a good boyfriend if shes gonna yell at me and blame every little fucking thing on me

god dammit...

Tripp11

Self explanatory then.....

Life is long.

Life will bring changes.

Enjoy life.

sasha

I call it the downward spiral of unhappines. Someone can't get what he/she wants out of the relationship, leaving him frustrated and lashing out to other person. The partner reacts defensively which only further aggravates the situation.

Someone has to initiate a dialogue and prevent this from getting out control. But if you think the person is not worth all the trouble, then it's time to say goodbye.

415ua5

BTW shes not hanging out with us this weeekend...shes going down with her girls and hanging out about 10 minutes away with some people from her HS...no idea who they are...they are all asian and me and my boys are a bunch of rowdy drunken city dudes

doopstr

You are on the slippery slope my man. Seriously now, if this is a recent (not just because of the period) change in her attitude towards you, there is another rooster in the hen house.

Decode: She may be getting, or wants to get, the cawk from somewhere else.

415ua5

i wouldnt worry about her getting another cawk....i keep pretty close tabs on her...we go to the same college so it would be very hard to cheat...plus we got alotta mutual friends up here so im not too worried about it, i definately take notice to evidence and so far i havent found any i deem threatening

gary_william

I'd slap the stink out of her tampon, man.

and I hate to admit it, but JesusJuice is 100% right.

mfkitson

relationship is doomed. Get out, relax, find new fun

CL Platano

Drop her ass off in Tijuana and move on..No need for all that drama, and not smart posting things on Myspace that you don't wanna get seen.

Tripp11

Or this site for that matter....you think your girl imploding from this little incident? Wait until she finds this little gem of a thread...

agean

so she wants you to drive down with a carload of her friends? that sounds like a blast.

what exactly does she plan on you doing when you get down there with just her friends in tow?

bro's before ho's

leolebo28

on the bro's before ho's....your boys will always b there for u no matter what. Your girl definately has some issues bottled up aside from the trip. As far as her offering her friend a ride in YOUR car w/o asking u is just complete bullshit. You shouldnt have to apologize to her friend for shit, you didnt do a damn thing wrong. She's the one in complete fault, and if I were you I would b/c otherwise she'll ruin your weekend that you had planned with your boys. Relationhsips are hard work I'll admit but you shouldnt have to put up with this immature and petty bullshit.