What questions do you ask on a first date?

besides: do you have kids...
are you married?
parents married?
do you have a problem with our age difference?

 

Can I ?

 

not on the first date... I'm not looking for a slut.

Then again, if she says yes, I'll know what I have on my hands...

but i'm looking for some real questions here.

 

"Do you mind me asking probing questions on a first date?"

 

"Do you have a penis I should know about?"

 

"you seem to be a 36D. Hope I'm right because that is my favorite"

 

Seriously, stay away from boring "job interview" type of stuff. Whatever you do make it exciting and not dull.

 

Casual stuff: family, line of work, favorite past time... encourage her to talk about her travelling experiences and hobbies.

Basically, try to get to know her without being too intrusive.

 

True. On a more serious note...

I just get them to talk about themselves. People love to talk about themselves.

No talk about past relationships/dates in anyway shape or form. This one chic just started going on and on about her ex husband. CHECK PLEASE!

 

and

It's really easy to learn about someone if you just let them talk about themselves.

 

I haven't had a first date in 6 years. I don't know what I would do. I would hope my conversation would have changed since I was 19.

 

None of the above? Also, if you are asking #4, then you must be dating girls in the 15-18 range.

I know people like to make the first date a job interview, but I'd push for not doing too much heavy talk until at least the 2nd date. The first date should be to just have fun and see if you two have chemistry together. If a girl started popping all sorts of personal questions on the first date, I know she's a pushy girl and that turns me off.

 

yeah, now that i think about it #4 wasn't a good question. obviously she already knows how old i am and it doesn't bother her. but from my previous experiences, a lot women my age and older are looking to either have a baby or get married... with that said do you think I should ask her if she's looking for a relationship? more than friends relationship?

 

I didn't realize this was suppose to be serious. First rule is DO NOT have a planned set of questions, it will be a huge turn off, woman like spontanity. Secondly, be yourself and just go out to have a good time with someone, roll with the punches and see what happens. I've found the trick to first dates is to be so laid back and easy going that my date forgets to be nervous and we can have a good time and see if we get along. A sense of humor can help breaking the ice, I am sure something funny has happened to you, relate it to what ever your talking about some how and see how she responds, and take it from there.

Just be yourself and see if you get along, there is no point being someone your not to impress a girl you are serious about starting a relationship with. If all else fails, ask her if you can

 

oh...forgot to comment.

I would never ask those kinds of questions on a first date and if a woman asked me those there probably wouldn't be a 2nd date. 1st date is to have fun, not a checklist.

 

you're right, I've been through some crap with my ex and I don't want this to go near that stage. I don't want to feel like I have to ask her does she have stalker tendencies (trust me, I wont ask her that). So I feel the urge to ask certain stuff because I really had a tough time with getting rid of her and I need to be more selective and attentive to the people I date and their behaviors.

 

You're from Baltimore, Maryland so the absolute very first thing you need to know is if this girl has gonorrhea...and i'm not kidding.

 

<--hasn't been on a "first date" since 1994.

 

<----hasn't been on a "first date" since 1991

Oh and

 

 

coincidentally, thats also how to get laid on the first date. rolling with the punches with the girl to make her feel at ease and having fun is key.

 

Get a urine sample too.

 

why are you asking the age question. how old is she?

 

HA!

<---- hasn't been on a date since 5/22/1984

 

is that your birthdate?

 

Scared to ask, but have we seen pics of you here? Are all your parts where they should be?

 

Yeah, that won't scare her off.


Go for the stool sample first.

 

Ask her about her last relationship... you'll learn alot.


wtf! Im feeling very emo today.

 

Probably the worst question you could possibly ask

 

You always know a couple on a first date at a restaurant because the guy is looking and listening to the girl for like 2 hours straight. No way a couple is doing that after going out together.

One time this poor schmo was on a date with this decent looking but slutty girl. She started talking to me and my two friends with that poor guy right there and we started daring her to make out with other girls, us, etc. for shots and she did it all in front of him while he was holding her purse. Don't let this be your first date...

 

It can be kinda hard sometiomes though, especially when the answer to question #2 is yes.

The funny thing is that I should have asked ALL those questions on the first date. That's ok, it all worked out in the end I love you baby!!

 

I love you too schnookums!

 

27

 

Older single women are screwy, keep to the younger ones. Although 23 / 27 isn't so bad. I'm talking the single ones over 30. Just broke up w/ a 34 yo. Talk about a ticking time bomb. I had a feeling of a marriage cloud over my head after the 3rd date.

 

Spit or swallow?

This will let you know if there is going to be a second date.

 

tic-tic-tic. Man they hit 28-29-30 they are on an agenda.

"gimme that baby!!! I want that baby!!! Gimme that baby!!!! I want one NOW!!!

 

i assure you that having kids too late is NOT in your best interests. we want healthy normal babies. i'll leave it at that.