Ah man this brings back memories. I remember a girl I dated for a year we started off by studying together. Ah man, she had these hazel eyes, about 5 foot 1, perfect skin, light brown colored, long hair....I loved her....she just got married too...son of a bytch!

 

Hooked up with this one chick that we had a group project. After a Saturday group meeting we went to Chili's. Then we went to my place after I told her I got satellite and asked her if she wanted to go my house to watch satellite.

 

Amen. Why someone in college wants a relationship with this much drama -- a long distance one at that -- is beyond me.

Don't waste your time, skinhead

 

so im ending it because she calls me crying asking why i didnt text her...i did...wtf ahhhh...im drunk

 

You know you haven't done anything to cause her lack of trust in you... right...
Then what has she done to cause this lack of trust towards you???

Usually, not always, when someone loses their trust in someone it's because they've done something that broke their partner's trust even when that other person doesn't know it... they just feel guilty and don't know how to say it...

Just something to consider... especially with the distance between you two...

Enjoy your college life, have fun, and make a lot of good memories... there's enough time after college for that kind of drama...

 

im sure the rest of the replies have said this.

lose her. youre young and you dont need that kind of emotional instability.

 

unfortunately us giving you the advice doesnt necessarily mean you will take it. you have to come to the conclusion on your own that she obviously has some sort of issue that hasnt been brought to the forefront yet. all we can suggest is you take our advice.

we may not be relationship counselors, but we all have given you advice based on experience. i can lay out a couple of reasons why you should break up even though they've already been said.

1. you, like me, are 19. i live in NJ, and am going to school in NC next month. i broke up with my ex (granted there were a lot of issues, but the point is i have not attempted to get back together regardless because of the distance i will be going.

you need to get out there, make friends, go to parties, and not feel held back or be labeled a cheater for your actions.

2. ive been accused of cheating in the past as well. it sucks to be called a liar when youre not one. who needs it? if you find yourself wanting to pull your hair out after every other convo with her, she is not having any positive effect on your life, and is probably causing other aspects of your life to suffer because of your relationship problems.

3. long distance will only leave you thinking whether or not she is being loyal to you, and i guarantee half of your conversations will be about whether each of you are "behaving"

4. damn man, youre going to UF... you are going to have shit loads of fun, and im not your parent or anything but concentrate on whats around you (developing a social life in the area and especially staying up on your grades !!!)

you've got plenty to look forward to in the future, and you dont need any negativity of the past to bring you down. hopefully you make a good decision that helps your life.

sorry for the long post lol. good luck

 

Similar to 03bl...

I broke up with my high school gf before leaving for college and I was only going 3 hrs away. This was a great relationship too - we just mutually agreed that her being in HS and me going to college was too much. Met my wife 12 months later, married 18 years next month. Point is you're about to have a huge adventure with lots of possibilities. Don't limit yourself. Distance without drama is hard enough. Distance with this kind of drama....don't even waste your time.

 

Go get laid and stop crying about this bullshit! The more time you spend thinking about this girl, the less time you have for you and some real fun! She fucking your head up long distance man! Just think about that! Fucking long distance mind fuck!

Fuck her and go fuck...you will feel much better and you will be a few pounds lighter...

 

its done...

 

What? You got laid or kicked the bitch to the curb?

 

she "kicked" me to the curb, she told me she wanted to break up, i dont really care cause i was going to do it tonight anyways.

 

have your friend confirm to her that you are cheating, that oughta get her good