View Poll Results: Is it weird to be in a relationship and still watch PORN?
Absolutely not! 
96
88.07%
Yeah, it's weird if my significant other is not watching with me.
3
2.75%
Yes, it's weird.
10
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Is it weird to be in a relationship and still watch PORN?
09-15-2011, 11:50 AM
#41
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Oh there are some other traits I believe ur conventiely leaving out. Lol.
09-15-2011, 12:05 PM
#45
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You trimmed your balls? dumbass.
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09-15-2011, 12:22 PM
#48
You should respect her opinion about it.. doesn't matter if it's weird..
Maybe the pics belong in the crabs thread. 
09-15-2011, 12:43 PM
#50
Jstin, you're a class act. 
lol...honestly, telling a girl what you DID should be just fine. Grew up VERY liberally with very hippie-ish parents. It's the truth and is a compliment...don't see why any girl would read into it any more.
PS...my girl is ok with things now, we just needed to have a talk about it. It was partially MY fault because I assumed how she'd feel about it so I GOT weird every time it came up and it made her think I was hiding something like maybe being into 11 year old Cambodian boys or something. Once we openly talked about it, it became kinda funny and absolutely fine. I still don't "rub it in her face", so to speak...I like to keep my private manual stimulations pretty discrete.
lol...honestly, telling a girl what you DID should be just fine. Grew up VERY liberally with very hippie-ish parents. It's the truth and is a compliment...don't see why any girl would read into it any more. PS...my girl is ok with things now, we just needed to have a talk about it. It was partially MY fault because I assumed how she'd feel about it so I GOT weird every time it came up and it made her think I was hiding something like maybe being into 11 year old Cambodian boys or something. Once we openly talked about it, it became kinda funny and absolutely fine. I still don't "rub it in her face", so to speak...I like to keep my private manual stimulations pretty discrete.
09-15-2011, 01:21 PM
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No big deal IMO, I just happened to see my girl watching porn by herself the other day. We watch it all the time and we totally agree it does more good than harm to the relationship
09-16-2011, 11:20 AM
#54
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Let the girls answer this, and I bet the yes/no percentages switch.
10-08-2011, 02:16 AM
#56
Nope! Off topic: One of my old roommate's girlfriend hated that her boyfriend watched porn. One day I came home and his girlfriend seen him wacking off through a crack in the bedroom door and she went ape shit. Talk about awkward.... Dude started putting drapes over the doors and shiz.. 
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10-09-2011, 01:05 PM
#60
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A good woman makes sure her man doesn't go hungry. 
10-09-2011, 08:13 PM
#61
^^^yeah, but that'll cost ya, plus, it's proven scientific fact. Women don't want to fk as much as us and when we start humping their leg it turns them off even more and makes them not want to making us get pissed off and eventually fight with them about something really stupid.
I don't jerk off to save the world, just to save my relationship. Then, I'm able to wait until she feels like it and it's so much better.
I don't jerk off to save the world, just to save my relationship. Then, I'm able to wait until she feels like it and it's so much better.
10-11-2011, 01:32 PM
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Good luck finding that "good woman". Not that there arent a few young women with sex drives like a man's, but the majority of women who act that way are insecure and do so b/c they feel it is necessary to keep their man happy. Truth be told, there are not many happy, equal, loving relationships that can sustain this for long. The weird part of all of this is that a women's sex drive peaks around middle age, 40-50 yrs old, while a man's peaks toward the end of adolescence, 16-25 years old. I think Ashton Kutcher is really onto something here.
10-11-2011, 02:13 PM
#64
Chapter Leader (Southern Region)
Reciprocation and spontaneity.
..and fellas.. all ladies have a checklist, sacrificing your time to cross off the checklist will clear her mind so she can focus on you.
..and fellas.. all ladies have a checklist, sacrificing your time to cross off the checklist will clear her mind so she can focus on you.
10-11-2011, 02:14 PM
#65
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If there is no spark.. watching porn and having your SO catch you fapping to it won't help. Although watching together might..
Majofo has no need for pron.. although willingly accepts profit noodz.
Majofo has no need for pron.. although willingly accepts profit noodz.
01-23-2012, 05:03 PM
#66
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I hate women who have a problem with guys looking at porn or even looking at other women. However, my guy has to give me the same courtesy!! I check out both sexes when I'm right next to my husband and probably watch more graphic porn than he does. To those women who are all uptight about it: deal with your insecurities--as long as your guy comes home to you, it's all good...
01-23-2012, 05:15 PM
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To bad youre married...
01-23-2012, 05:20 PM
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01-23-2012, 07:53 PM
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Yes, but I'm saying it's bad for me 
Anyways if my SO put out enough, I'd probably give up porn
Anyways if my SO put out enough, I'd probably give up porn
01-23-2012, 08:39 PM
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I'd never give up my "me" time, no matter how often I would get laid...but like Sara said, it's about being confident.
Plus, a NO NO is saying no thanks to your significant other to wack it. I actually think it's a good tool to have in your belt (so to speak
) since it helps balance out how often you want and ask for it vs how often your partner wants and asks for it.
Also, watching porn like watching TV...THAT I don't get. That's a good way to get decensitized to the point where you have to have a cucumber in your ass and thumbtacks in your nipple to get you off.
Plus, a NO NO is saying no thanks to your significant other to wack it. I actually think it's a good tool to have in your belt (so to speak
) since it helps balance out how often you want and ask for it vs how often your partner wants and asks for it. Also, watching porn like watching TV...THAT I don't get. That's a good way to get decensitized to the point where you have to have a cucumber in your ass and thumbtacks in your nipple to get you off.
01-23-2012, 09:36 PM
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Jeremy. That last sentence caught me off guard.
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01-23-2012, 09:51 PM
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01-23-2012, 10:23 PM
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Don't forget having a grapefruit on your johnson with a rope around your neck.. so I've heard. 
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02-29-2012, 02:19 PM
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Well apparently it is weird to my GF. Her computer was acting up while I was home and so I decided to fix it for her. I let her use mine while I was working on it and I haven't cleared my browsing history lately so when she typed in an address she wasn't pleased. Apparently she now feels like me looking at it is like me cheating on her. 
02-29-2012, 02:39 PM
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02-29-2012, 02:39 PM
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02-29-2012, 02:50 PM
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