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Yeah, it's weird if my significant other is not watching with me.
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Is it weird to be in a relationship and still watch PORN?

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Old 09-10-2011, 11:43 AM
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Is it weird to be in a relationship and still watch PORN?

the title speaks for itself...
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hell no.

+1 if she watches with or without you.
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i'm excluding 'watching with'...anyone that thinks that's weird has something wrong with them.

i want to do a poll on this but i dont know how to. i'm pretty sure i know the answer but just curious.
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It better not be.
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Im weird if it is. As is everyother dude that has the interwebz.
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^what he said
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No, it's not weird.

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Let me create a poll for you.
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Is it weird to watch porn while in a relationship?

Creating a poll and will merge with john_wrap's thread.

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it's weird if you don't watch porn
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Originally Posted by sasha
No, it's not weird.

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Awesome! Thanks
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Absolutely! Anyone that watches porn whether in a relationship or not, is a pervert!
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
Absolutely! Anyone that watches porn whether in a relationship or not, is a pervert!
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Originally Posted by sasha
No, it's not weird.

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uh. Sasha.. where is the whisker's option? I believe your moderator status depends on this.
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I'd say it's normal, porn keeps a sane man sane. lol
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Originally Posted by sho_nuff1997
it's weird if you don't watch porn



My wife suggests on a regular basis that we watch some porn...
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Originally Posted by Will Y.



My wife suggests on a regular basis that we watch some porn...
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I'm weird
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Do I really need to put my answer down on this?
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Sorry dude but it is weird if you DO NOT still watch porn.
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I watch it all the time....gets me all ready to go every time!
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Not weird but wife thinks it's nasty
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I'm weird
Get some more shore leave sailor.

We've watched it together and both enjoy it. Not weird at all for me. I even like my solo rounds of watching
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My girlfriend FREAKED OUT when I told her I've looked at porn since we started dating almost 3 years ago. She feels like I look at porn since "she's not good enough", which isn't the case at all.
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Originally Posted by CLtotheTL32
My girlfriend FREAKED OUT when I told her I've looked at porn since we started dating almost 3 years ago. She feels like I look at porn since "she's not good enough", which isn't the case at all.
Sounds like she is needs some reassurances bro.
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^^^Yeah, I agree.
I had this whole talk with my fiance...because it came up a few years in. I made her understand that it's still my thing, it doesn't detract from my relationship. I mean, everything in moderation, obviously...like, don't go watch porn and desensitize yourself to the point of not being turned on and skipping out on intimate time with your significant other. But when she ain't in the mood...I'm like, "I'm going upstairs" and she knows what that means and is ok with it. Our relationship got so much better when I felt like I wasn't hiding some weird secret anymore.
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rockstariloveyou and tyler....ya'lls girls are weird.
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She knows I love her but she doesn't think porn belongs in a relationship whatsoever.
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Originally Posted by CLtotheTL32
My girlfriend FREAKED OUT when I told her I've looked at porn since we started dating almost 3 years ago. She feels like I look at porn since "she's not good enough", which isn't the case at all.
I have this same issue and I agree it is not the case at all
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Thank you, someone on my side here

It's not that I'm NOT physically attracted to her, because I am. BUT when she's not around and I can't sleep, well, you know.
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ya'lls girls are weird. to the maxxx.


I told my ex.....Damn!!! you're hawt! you loook exactly like the latina pornos that I watch!!!
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And that's why she's your ex?
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my bad, didnt explain it well.

she was flattered!!!!!!!!!!!!!!she most likely jumped my bones when i told her that..i'm not sure. i dont remember.

she's my ex because, welll.....thats another story.
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LoL when I think of hot chicks a lot of the times they are porn stars. They're names come to mind haha.
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Originally Posted by justnspace
I told my ex.....Damn!!! you're hawt! you loook exactly like the latina pornos that I watch!!!
First off, what was the thought process behind this statement?...

Second, what kind of girl would be flattered by such a statement! Lol.

No offense man, just sayin'...
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^some one who likes to have sex. unlike yours and cccs.


I was in a different state of mind when i wrote that.
all women want to feel wanted and fantasized about.
in my own sort of way, i was telling her that i fantasized about her.

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Originally Posted by justnspace
my bad, didnt explain it well.

she was flattered!!!!!!!!!!!!!!she most likely jumped my bones when i told her that..i'm not sure. i dont remember.

she's my ex because, welll.....thats another story.
bc you PM us her noodz..
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Originally Posted by justnspace
^some one who likes to have sex. unlike yours and cccs.


I was in a different state of mind when i wrote that.
all women want to feel wanted and fantasized about.
in my own sort of way, i was telling her that i fantasized about her.
in other words I choked my chicken to my own personal porn star.


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