But i made it. Lol

 

he always does...
you should have seen the fucking excuses for not showing up when he lived in flaky ass South Florida.
I used to have to wake him up with a text or call, drive to his house and give him a handy so he wouldn't pee in his own face through his Gloria's morning wood...
and then cook him lunch...
just to get him to a car meet that started before 1pm.

 

Come visit Houston. We'll have a car meet.

 

 

I think the loss of my father in law and needing to be there for my family was pretty acceptable in my not being able to come to this one...

 

What in the actual fuck happened here?

Update: All will be said and done in September. We've got all the finances and other stuff figured out. Still on friendly enough terms.

 

I was talking about Jonathan, Dave...
I knew why you couldn't and I'm sorry to hear that btw.

 

I know who you were talking about...my reply was to Jonathan.

 

Glad to hear, Ken. And the corgi?

 

Both dogs stay with me

 

Holy shit! Wasn't expecting this thread to turn out like this.

Good deal. Glad everything is going well for you guys. Same for you, J. Also sorry about the divorce.

 

i did say you had a good reason for not making it but still was disappointed.

 

Hopefully, I'll make the next one.

 

Good stuff Ken and don't feel bad for J, new girl is hot (hot is all that matters, right)?

 

wait...maybe not.

 

if you wanna be happy for the rest of your life...

 

ain't that the fuckin truth...I know how that ends.

 

Boner

 

 

Going through the same.. Plus six other couples I know..seems like this time of year is when shit hits the fan. We split/called off the engagement this time two years ago, got back together, I quit my job, moved to where she is, got a new job, and 1.5 years later, I'm living in my aunts vacation home until I figure out what I'm going to do.

 

Has it at least stayed amicable?

I have a good friend going through the same. Shit blew up and they waited too long to deal with it.

 

Yeah, so far we are. I'm hoping to keep it that way.

 

Good luck brother. Mine should be finalized in a month or so.

 

 

WTF....I didn't realize you were splitting as well. When did this place become Divorce-zine?

 

With all the 20 something year olds in the early 2000's, some were bound to get divorced including yours truly by now. Some of us also upgraded :wink:

 

I was just thinking the same thing. Sorry to hear about all of these divorces.

 

Been separated for 2 years. I didn't really discuss it.

 

No comments yet on the upgrade. But i will say, I've known her for almost 15 years so at least I know what I'm getting myself into.

 

My ears are burning...

No really they are really burning!

P.S. Update, but I left the gay sex toys in the dungeon. srry

 

Good luck, hope things continue smoothly, so close.

 

Cheers to that...I do hope it goes smoothly too.
I guess I really was lucky at how well and quickly things went for me...
although after taking the high road, the only real bs I've had to deal with is my ex wife's perception
of how things were and are and how scorned she was at my upgrade once she decided she didn't want to be with me anymore.

 

He left his wife for Justin Crabby Pants

 

he is my bff

 

How are you, Maker? I haven't been around much lately. Your girls doing well?

 

Who knew maker was a hot pepper big chested Latina??

 

Was the old job good tho? Maybe you needed a detour to head in the direction you really meant to go.
Or she crushed your dreams and your life. Probably the latter.. but there's plenty of crazy rebound latinas in the barrio.



or

 

Definitely upgraded...
otherwise, what's the point?!?

 

[QUOTE=Majofo;16048626]Was the old job good tho? Maybe you needed a detour to head in the direction you really meant to go.
Or she crushed your dreams and your life. Probably the latter.. but there's plenty of crazy rebound latinas in the barrio[QUOTE]

Im much happier with the new job..I'm making less per hour, but the hours worked and overtime more than make up for it. The only thing I miss about that job was the benefits..I was on the top tier plan.

but yea.. It's been difficult. You get used to being with someone for ten years, then bam, you're on your own. I'm not sleeping much, and I'm having anxiety. I'm only able to stay in this house short term, but it's been kinda nice having this gorgeous place to myself. Probably going to move in with a coworker this weekend in Nipomo and do uber on the side for some extra funds. Not ready to put the nail in the coffin just yet..she's hurt me, and she's not easy to be with...anyone else would turn their back on her, but I still love her. It's kind of a long story..I might make a thread to not clog up this one if you guys want the details.

 

I would love the details if you decide to make a thread, B...