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Old Jul 23, 2006 | 09:56 PM
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Two questions rolled into one...

Whats up guys...

So in a roundabout way that im not going to share to the forum, I got a girl's sn over the internet like 2 years ago. We hit it off, started talking on the phone more, but she lived in mass and i was in cali at the time. I ended up moving back to CT, and we still keep in touch now. I have absolutely no doubt that shes is who she says she is now, im not worried about that, but does anyone have any experience in relationships starting this way? im thinking about going to see her tomorrow, the offer is on the table, but i dunno i guess its just intimidating... 2 years of talking, definite sexual interest, we both know what eacother look like, i dunno.... would you go for it?

Second issue, no introduction needed. im 21, shes 18. Thoughts?
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Old Jul 23, 2006 | 10:00 PM
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Just say it to her, but pace yourself. Honesty is a good thing when it comes to this topic. You're close to each other now, and have probably shared a lot over the last 2 years. There are probably signs that there is interest. To answer your question, yes, to an extent. Go for it. Just talk to her about how things are going.

Come to think of it. Have you 2 ever even met in person? If not, that does change things a little bit.
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Old Jul 23, 2006 | 10:02 PM
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no thats why its weird, if i go see her tomorrow it willb e the first time
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Old Jul 23, 2006 | 10:18 PM
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I don't see a problem. sure you have just been talking for a long time without meeting, but I met my girlfriend in an online chat room, and we've been dating for over 2 years now.

don't expect much though, you might just end up having sex.
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Old Jul 23, 2006 | 10:38 PM
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check her ID, then fuck her, that's the best relationship I've ever had with a chick, lasted all of 1 hour
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Old Jul 23, 2006 | 10:42 PM
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ya i think im gonna go for it.


not to hijack my own thread, but im pretty much over 1 night stands. maybe a drunken night at the bar, but id rather have sex with the same girl a bunch of times than 1 time with a bunch of girls, the sex is always better that way. Gooooooo fuck buddies!
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Old Jul 23, 2006 | 10:53 PM
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let us know how it goes
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Old Jul 24, 2006 | 01:21 AM
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Originally Posted by ghost_masterCL
don't expect much though, you might just end up having sex.


There's this 21-year-old chick on the backside of Japan who likes to talk to me all the time. Thankfully, an ocean keeps me away from a certain set of tits in a blue kimono. :whew:
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Old Jul 24, 2006 | 05:23 AM
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Whats up guys...

So in a roundabout way that im not going to share to the forum, I got a girl's sn over the internet like 2 years ago. We hit it off, started talking on the phone more, but she lived in mass and i was in cali at the time. I ended up moving back to CT, and we still keep in touch now. I have absolutely no doubt that shes is who she says she is now, im not worried about that, but does anyone have any experience in relationships starting this way? im thinking about going to see her tomorrow, the offer is on the table, but i dunno i guess its just intimidating... 2 years of talking, definite sexual interest, we both know what eacother look like, i dunno.... would you go for it?

Second issue, no introduction needed. im 21, shes 18. Thoughts?

I don't see a problem with it I say go for it and to the second issue she is legal so that is not a problem either.
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Old Jul 24, 2006 | 09:13 AM
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go for it, and see what happens... not like you have anything to lose
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Old Jul 24, 2006 | 12:32 PM
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Originally Posted by cibs
go for it, and see what happens... not like you have anything to lose

unless its a big burly man at the other end
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Old Jul 24, 2006 | 01:29 PM
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So, what's the point to keep talking to her if you never want to meet or never do meet?
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Old Jul 24, 2006 | 01:30 PM
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Wow... two year chat relationship and she's just now "barely legal". But you're only 21, so I guess it's all good now.
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Old Jul 24, 2006 | 01:35 PM
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Originally Posted by cTLgo
unless its a big burly man at the other end

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Old Jul 24, 2006 | 01:40 PM
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Originally Posted by cTLgo
unless its a big burly man at the other end
Or worse yet... an undercover Dateline expose on Internet pervs!
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Old Jul 24, 2006 | 01:48 PM
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Go for it. What do you have to lose? Have you even seen a photo of her? It's kinda odd if you haven't. I met a girl through one of my friends and we talked over IM for a couple months before we actually met, but at lest she sent me pics of herself.
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Old Jul 24, 2006 | 01:58 PM
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Could you post a pic of her pls? kthx
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Old Jul 24, 2006 | 07:43 PM
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Hey...Just as long as your not some dick who would marry someone he met online...you should be ok
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Old Jul 24, 2006 | 07:55 PM
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if someone explains to me how to host pics i will
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Old Jul 24, 2006 | 08:29 PM
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Originally Posted by cali TL
if someone explains to me how to host pics i will
Go Here

http://imageshack.us/

Upload your pics

Take the URL and post it up in here.
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Old Jul 24, 2006 | 09:37 PM
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we want pics
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Old Jul 25, 2006 | 02:12 AM
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How'd it go?
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Old Jul 25, 2006 | 12:47 PM
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Old Jul 26, 2006 | 10:27 AM
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i meet this chick back when i was still in high school online did the whole IM thing yada yada yada been married 4yrs 6 total together
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Old Jul 26, 2006 | 10:40 AM
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WTF....no pics yet.
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Old Jul 26, 2006 | 01:02 PM
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dude, where are the pics son?
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Old Jul 26, 2006 | 06:42 PM
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if someone explains to me how to host pics i will
Forget explaining, just email them and we'll take care of the rest.
My email alig_nola@yahoo.com
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