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Old 06-14-2005, 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted by jts1207
Having read this whole thread, those who told him to fess up were WRONG! Even if he gets back together with her the relationship will never be the same.
Sorry, but the relationship was forever changed when he cheated, not when he told her.
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Old 06-14-2005, 01:25 PM
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Originally Posted by jts1207
I disagree. If he wanted to be with girl he should have never told her. I unlike you would never be able to stay with someone I caught cheating. Having to lock your doors because of my opinion on this is ignorant.

It's not because of your opinion. Feel free to have your opinion. Your opinion however is not what I'm attacking but the character morals behind that opinion. It's because of the mentality that it's ok to lie or sneak behind peoples back, especially after being caught, is why I made the statement I made. To think anything different or insinuate that it's ok to do just that, is ignorant. Society agrees with me on this one, as do most of the board I'm sure.

With friends and acquaintances that would lie and cheat me, who needs enemies?
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Old 06-14-2005, 01:26 PM
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Originally Posted by TLover
Sorry, but the relationship was forever changed when he cheated, not when he told her.

can i get an AAAAMMENN
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Originally Posted by TLover
Sorry, but the relationship was forever changed when he cheated, not when he told her.
, and

Abso-ing-utely...
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Old 06-14-2005, 02:51 PM
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I remember reading in the other thread that if the two of you broke up you would post pics of her naked. Remember to keep your promise or you will be

Hope things are ok
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Old 06-14-2005, 05:49 PM
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This whole thread is very ghey! :ghey: I am just dumbfounded.


WHY xeno? Only if you were looking to break up otherwise, just bad idea. I am done with yuz, no one is listening.

On a side note, the gf could get it, hot piece of ass. It's just goes to show, no matter how hot she is, there is always some guy sick and tired of her shit.
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Old 06-14-2005, 06:25 PM
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Maybe I missed it, but I didn't see anyone say what kind of "friends" this girl has if they would knowingly have sex with a "friend's" bf. Plus, I'm sure once the hot piece of ass gf finds out, she'll probably be more mad at her "friends" than at xeno, and I highly doubt they'll still be friends after that. And you might wanna put her on suicide watch after that, since she'll pretty much feel betrayed by everyone.
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Old 06-14-2005, 08:55 PM
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Good god Im gonna have to explain alot of things to you people...Think about this while I write...kenz is summating our relationship right now, and shes weighing my pros and cons. As far as I know, I only have one con. Should I look at this as a positive situation? For all I know shes just thinking about this stuff before she breaks up with me
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
Good god Im gonna have to explain alot of things to you people...Think about this while I write...kenz is summating our relationship right now, and shes weighing my pros and cons. As far as I know, I only have one con. Should I look at this as a positive situation? For all I know shes just thinking about this stuff before she breaks up with me
Personally, I think if she's going to break up with you, she'll do it after one last talk with you, so your next conversation will be make-or-break for you.
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Old 06-14-2005, 09:17 PM
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Well that one con is no small thing, in fact it's probably one of the worst things you can do to someone second only physical/verbal abuse.
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Old 06-14-2005, 09:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
Good god Im gonna have to explain alot of things to you people...Think about this while I write...kenz is summating our relationship right now, and shes weighing my pros and cons. As far as I know, I only have one con. Should I look at this as a positive situation? For all I know shes just thinking about this stuff before she breaks up with me
yea that sounds about right. It's kinda like what happened in that movie, where the girl was weighing the pros/cons of the relationship she was in to see whether it was worth it to stick around.

Good luck though.
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Old 06-14-2005, 09:35 PM
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Originally Posted by jts1207
^^^Why would a "fuckbuddy" out him?
Originally Posted by CGTSX2004
Because one of the girls he fucked is a friend of the gf.
Wouldnt happen because They dont know about each other. I would be in trouble from two of her friends...one of them being her BEST friend

Originally Posted by wck3
I'd rather face the consequences of my actions and own up to my faults than to be doubly shady and compound lie after lie . I believe Xeno feels the same.

There are very few things in this world that can never be taken away from you. Honor and integrity are in that group.
This is true.

Originally Posted by Gixxster
I remember reading in the other thread that if the two of you broke up you would post pics of her naked. Remember to keep your promise or you will be
I never said naked...I said all the pictures you want.

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It's just goes to show, no matter how hot she is, there is always some guy sick and tired of her shit.
I dont think I could ever get tired of her shit...I cheated because of the thrill to do it.

Originally Posted by Mike97 3.0P
Maybe I missed it, but I didn't see anyone say what kind of "friends" this girl has if they would knowingly have sex with a "friend's" bf. Plus, I'm sure once the hot piece of ass gf finds out, she'll probably be more mad at her "friends" than at xeno, and I highly doubt they'll still be friends after that. And you might wanna put her on suicide watch after that, since she'll pretty much feel betrayed by everyone.
This is all true too...Women are crazy. I banged one of her friends early in the realtionship, when I didnt give a fuck, I banged the best friend recently because it was an interesting proposition that I thought would never come out seeing that we would eventually breakup....Under different circumstances of course.
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Old 06-14-2005, 09:38 PM
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And with the friends...They wanted me first It wasnt me making the moves.
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Old 06-14-2005, 10:35 PM
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Good luck with getting the verdict . The worst part of anything is the calm before the storm, simply waiting for something to happen.

Totally off topic, when i got busted on New Years Eve my parents just didn't talk to me for 4 days, and those were the longest 4 days of my life. then they grounded me for 3.5 months , but it's over now. And while my situation was alot different, the calm before the storm blows. You have my sympathy
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Old 06-14-2005, 11:11 PM
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
And with the friends...They wanted me first It wasnt me making the moves.
Dude...ever heard of just say no???
That's just an excuse for you to do what you really want to do...pass the buck!
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Old 06-14-2005, 11:18 PM
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what's no?
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Old 06-14-2005, 11:18 PM
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Originally Posted by amisconception
what's no?
That's something only women say.
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Originally Posted by DarkSithGirl
Dude...ever heard of just say no???
That's just an excuse for you to do what you really want to do...pass the buck!
What man refuses sex from hot women when he isnt thinking with the brain? Maybe if you women kept your damn hands to yourself I wouldnt be in this situation
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Old 06-14-2005, 11:22 PM
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Originally Posted by TLover
That's something only women say.
Well slap a wig on me and call me Susan!
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Old 06-14-2005, 11:26 PM
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Originally Posted by amisconception
what's no?
Seriously though, I've said no many times. I've never cheated on a GF; never will. I've been tempted and have come close, but never actually cheated.
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Old 06-15-2005, 12:24 AM
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Originally Posted by Xenogen


I never said naked...I said all the pictures you want.

well all the pics we want... that includes nude!
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Old 06-15-2005, 12:29 AM
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well all the pics we want... that includes nude!
Look this is bullshit...Maybe YOU need to start posting pics of bitches
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
Look this is bullshit...Maybe YOU need to start posting pics of bitches

ain't got no bitches. Why do you think he keeps asking for pics?
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Old 06-15-2005, 12:40 AM
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Originally Posted by TLover
ain't got no bitches. Why do you think he keeps asking for pics?


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Old 06-15-2005, 05:57 AM
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Wow, if I could only be there to see your girl lash out at her best friend once she finds out about the bad news. Seriously who does that? Women, ahem girls like that are selfish and evil and "should die of gonorrhea and rot in hell"
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ain't got no bitches. Why do you think he keeps asking for pics?
Yep! He lives vicariously through Xenogen!
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Old 06-15-2005, 10:49 AM
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mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm pictures of Xenogen's woman..
I mean, pictures of naked women in general (except the fat ones)
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Originally Posted by jts1207
Having read this whole thread, those who told him to fess up were WRONG! Even if he gets back together with her the relationship will never be the same. Every fight he gets in to, he will lose on the "Well at least I didnt fuck somebody else" argument. Never own up to shit! Even if caught red handed, DENY,DENY,DENY!

That is all.

Spoken like a true pimp.....lol...My girl found condom wrappers in the back seat of my rental car (car was in the shop) and I blamed the whole thing on previous renters......that is not the only occassion either......innocent until proven guilty........my girl could catch me naked with my dick in it and I would DENY, DENY, DENY.......always remember that....I hate snitches especially those that snitch on ur self and even thinking about snitching on her friends too..... .....
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Spoken like a true pimp.....lol...My girl found condom wrappers in the back seat of my rental car (car was in the shop) and I blamed the whole thing on previous renters......that is not the only occassion either......innocent until proven guilty........my girl could catch me naked with my dick in it and I would DENY, DENY, DENY.......always remember that....I hate snitches especially those that snitch on ur self and even thinking about snitching on her friends too..... .....


Sorry man...but, you are just too cool. My hero.
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Originally Posted by BigPimp
I am done with yuz, no one is listening.

Whatever "BigPimp." And you wonder why no one is listening? Maybe it's because your advice is bad.
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Seriously though, I've said no many times. I've never cheated on a GF; never will. I've been tempted and have come close, but never actually cheated.
No point in being in a "monogamous" relationship if you're going to cheat.

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Originally Posted by amisconception
No point in being in a monogamous relationship if you're going to cheat.
How can you be in a monogamous relationship AND cheat? Once you cheat, you're no longer in a monogamous relationship.
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Anyway, I think what wck3 said is on point. Just talk to her as a friend, she knows you're sorry (I think).

But I also agree with GoDucks. If you do stay with her, chances are the truth about sleeping with her friends will come out, and that'll shake everything up again. Not worth it IMO.

Just a guess, I think she'll take you back.
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How can you be in a monogamous relationship AND cheat?
er, a PERCEIVED monogamous relationship.

i.e., having a girlfriend/wife.
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Originally Posted by amisconception
er, a PERCEIVED monogamous relationship.

i.e., having a girlfriend/wife.
Ah. I see.
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I wonder what jimcol would have to say if he were here lol. Actually, I have a pretty good idea? What ever happened to him BTW?
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I wonder what jimcol would have to say if he were here lol. Actually, I have a pretty good idea? What ever happened to him BTW?


I dunno...Just a guess.
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I am kinda wondering what happened to 55M2G7L...

He was quite the PW...
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I wonder what jimcol would have to say if he were here lol. Actually, I have a pretty good idea? What ever happened to him BTW?
For being a dousche

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I am kinda wondering what happened to 55M2G7L...

He was quite the PW...
He is 55. He has been posting less though.

But thats not what this thread is about, so lets not get off track.
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I am kinda wondering what happened to 55M2G7L...

He was quite the PW...
FiftyFive = 55M2G7L
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