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Old 06-13-2005, 11:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
I think I would have to do something ridiculous to get her back, like make myself look like an ass in front of alot of people because I dont give a fuck what they think.
How about go to her place of residence and pull an Ashton Kutcher stunt, like play a guitar and sing a song to her? Or camp out in her yard until she agrees to see you.
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Old 06-13-2005, 11:34 PM
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TLover, not nuts, just not into big booty bitches.
To each their own. I'd love to smack dat azz.
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Originally Posted by txathlete
How about go to her place of residence and pull an Ashton Kutcher stunt, like play a guitar and sing a song to her? Or camp out in her yard until she agrees to see you.
Hard to do in an apartment complex...Though I could attempt that in the lobby, but yet it would still be pointless
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To each their own. I'd love to smack dat azz.
Perhaps when we get back together....I give her one for you
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A 7 is a workable number.

You could try to hand write her a letter a day (send it postal) about how you feel about her, place flowers on her house/car in the morning or send them to her, Take shoe polish and write on her car how much you love her, take some bleach and write out "I'm sorry, please forgive me" on her lawn, Sing her that Bryan Adams song "Please Forgive me."
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
Perhaps when we get back together....I give her one for you
I'm for you. BTW, don't call her. When she's ready to talk, she'll call you.
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Originally Posted by txathlete
A 7 is a workable number.

You could try to hand write her a letter a day (send it postal) about how you feel about her, place flowers on her house/car in the morning or send them to her, Take shoe polish and write on her car how much you love her, take some bleach and write out "I'm sorry, please forgive me" on her lawn, Sing her that Bryan Adams song "Please Forgive me."
Thats too needy in my opinion
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Old 06-13-2005, 11:41 PM
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Originally Posted by TLover
I'm for you. BTW, don't call her. When she's ready to talk, she'll call you.
thats what I really wanted know...Havent called at all
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Old 06-13-2005, 11:43 PM
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damn bro good luck getting her back, and even if u guys get back together, she'll always have that shit over your head.
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damn bro good luck getting her back, and even if u guys get back together, she'll always have that shit over your head.
True. Women forgive, but they NEVER forget.
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I'm just throwing out some suggestions. I've never really had this happen to me.

Although, I told a chic I was dating over X-mas break (years ago) that I would never take her back if she ever slept with anyone besides me (while we are seeing wach other). I asked her if she would take me back if I did that to her and she said that she would take me back. What a retard. Then she calls me up during Spring Break to see if I wanted to go to South Padre with her all bills paid, so I said sure. At Padre, she met my later-to-be fiance (funny thing is that they both had the same name). Sometime during that week, I was able to leave her and hook up with my current fiance. When we got back into town (and after I did the deed with her), I told her she really needs to see other people...b/c the long distance thing wasn't really working for me. She tried to throw in the 3-some thing, but my mind was already made up. I have to admit though, she was really fun in the sack, up for anything. I hope I didn't damage her too much!
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Old 06-13-2005, 11:55 PM
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I don't know dude. You have to find a way to convince her that you are the best thing that has or will ever happen to her. She needs to come off thinking that even though you cheated on her, multiple times, she could forgive you this one and only time. Maybe let her breathe for a week, then if she hasn't called, you might want to give her a call.
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Old 06-14-2005, 12:09 AM
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could it be?

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could it be?

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Old 06-14-2005, 12:14 AM
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maybe its your ex then i bet its one of ya'lls woman...hopefully none of mine
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Originally Posted by GoDucksCLSPride
maybe its your ex then i bet its one of ya'lls woman...hopefully none of mine
Seeing that I currently dont own an Acura...There is nothing that would convince her to look here. I also disavow all knowledge of my presence on this site
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Old 06-14-2005, 12:29 AM
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
Seeing that I currently dont own an Acura...There is nothing that would convince her to look here. I also disavow all knowledge of my presence on this site
would be easier to disavow if you hadnt already posted pics of several girls you've cheated with....and we hadnt right click saved as
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would be easier to disavow if you hadnt already posted pics of several girls you've cheated with....and we hadnt right click saved as
I have no idea what you're talking about
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Old 06-14-2005, 12:48 AM
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Originally Posted by GoDucksCLSPride
maybe its your ex then i bet its one of ya'lls woman...hopefully none of mine
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get some flowers, go over and see her. She'll not want to see you or speak to you, but deep inside I'm sure she wants to. So go over today and get some ass, you know you still wanna hit that, and don't forget to take some pictures and post them online..
we wanna see more of that fine ass
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Old 06-14-2005, 08:06 AM
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They covered this exact topic on entourage on suday night, a little too late i know. Might sound bad, but i think the only reason to confess would be if you want an easy break up, but you may be right, if you want to keep her, you are gonna have to do something that will cause you the same embarrassment or stupidity that she is feeling right now. good luck.
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What I learned from this thread...

Never take relationship advice from the mofos on this board.
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What I learned from this thread...

Never take relationship advice from the mofos on this board.
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Want to know what to do??

Don't do that sappy BS crap. Don't turn down the lights, don't play music, don't do any of that shite.

Dude, you F'd up. You admitted some of it. She's going to be hurt and upset. Best thing you can do is treat it like she's just a friend. Take her out for coffee and just listen to her. Seriously dude, she's not ready for all that other crap. It's too much for her at this point.

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side note:

she may not even want to talk to you yet.

also, if her friends want to come scope you out, let em. If she put them up to recon you, she wants to know what you are doing. You'd be better off following the advice I posted earlier ^^
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What I learned from this thread...

Never take relationship advice from the mofos on this board.
You had to wait for this thread to learn that??

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MikeMc, you're 17, come back when you're a bit older. Until then your opinion ain't worth
Are you implying that this 17 yrold hasn't seen his fair share of ass? Because I would beg to differ
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Are you implying that this 17 yrold hasn't seen his fair share of ass? Because I would beg to differ

Ooooh he's a cocky one...
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Are you implying that this 17 yrold hasn't seen his fair share of ass? Because I would beg to differ

Have lots of Magazines and Videos do you?

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Have lots of Magazines and Videos do you?

Zing!
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Having read this whole thread, those who told him to fess up were WRONG! Even if he gets back together with her the relationship will never be the same. Every fight he gets in to, he will lose on the "Well at least I didnt fuck somebody else" argument. Never own up to shit! Even if caught red handed, DENY,DENY,DENY!

That is all.
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Have lots of Magazines and Videos do you?

Ooo...burn!
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Originally Posted by jts1207
Having read this whole thread, those who told him to fess up were WRONG! Even if he gets back together with her the relationship will never be the same. Every fight he gets in to, he will lose on the "Well at least I didnt fuck somebody else" argument. Never own up to shit! Even if caught red handed, DENY,DENY,DENY!

That is all.
As opposed to him being outted by one of his fuck buddies and having her hate him even more for lying to her?

Come on...we all knew this relationship would never be the same the moment he started being a man-whore and sleeping around. It's not like telling her was the point where things changed.
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^^^Why would a "fuckbuddy" out him?
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Originally Posted by wck3
Want to know what to do??

Don't do that sappy BS crap. Don't turn down the lights, don't play music, don't do any of that shite.

Dude, you F'd up. You admitted some of it. She's going to be hurt and upset. Best thing you can do is treat it like she's just a friend. Take her out for coffee and just listen to her. Seriously dude, she's not ready for all that other crap. It's too much for her at this point.

I got it! Just give her the SHOCKER, she'll be back in your arms in no time!
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Originally Posted by jts1207
Having read this whole thread, those who told him to fess up were WRONG! Even if he gets back together with her the relationship will never be the same. Every fight he gets in to, he will lose on the "Well at least I didnt fuck somebody else" argument. Never own up to shit! Even if caught red handed, DENY,DENY,DENY!

That is all.

I kindly disagree. There are millions of relationships that survive this exact type of situation.

However, to lie, even after being caught red-handed shoots to your moral character. I'd rather face the consequences of my actions and own up to my faults than to be doubly shady and compound lie after lie . I believe Xeno feels the same.

There are very few things in this world that can never be taken away from you. Honor and integrity are in that group.

To those of you that think he shouldn't have spoken the truth, you are the reason we have locks on our doors.
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^^^Why would a "fuckbuddy" out him?
Because one of the girls he fucked is a friend of the gf.
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I kindly disagree. There are millions of relationships that survive this exact type of situation.

However, to lie, even after being caught red-handed shoots to your moral character. I'd rather face the consequences of my actions and own up to my faults than to be doubly shady and compound lie after lie . I believe Xeno feels the same.

There are very few things in this world that can never be taken away from you. Honor and integrity are in that group.

To those of you that think he shouldn't have spoken the truth, you are the reason we have locks on our doors.

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Originally Posted by wck3
I kindly disagree. There are millions of relationships that survive this exact type of situation.

However, to lie, even after being caught red-handed shoots to your moral character. I'd rather face the consequences of my actions and own up to my faults than to be doubly shady and compound lie after lie . I believe Xeno feels the same.

There are very few things in this world that can never be taken away from you. Honor and integrity are in that group.

To those of you that think he shouldn't have spoken the truth, you are the reason we have locks on our doors.

I disagree. If he wanted to be with girl he should have never told her. I unlike you would never be able to stay with someone I caught cheating. Having to lock your doors because of my opinion on this is ignorant.
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