I use the phone test to see whether a girl is worth pursuing or not. If you call and leave a message, you must get a call back. No call back, don't waste your time. I've seen too many of my boys persist and get nothing but egg on their faces when all they had to do was stop calling and move on to the next girl.

 

Good move.

 

Thanks, but to me it's common sense. I don't know why some guys refuse to give up on a girl.

 

that is nothing but common sense, why anyone would keep pursuing at that point is beyond me. unless she was totally hott, and all you wanted to do was hookup. but for a real relationship, no way.

 

ya, makes a lot of sense. some girls are bia's like that. my friends usually implement the "2 call rule". chick gets 2 calls, if she doesnt answer or doesnt respond she's out, not worth your time. if she calls back later on eventually like couple days to a week later, thats when u gotta decide whether she's worth it.

 

If she doesn't answer, it's no big deal, not everyone has caller id, but if she doesn't return a call after a message was clearly left, you have to cut her off.

 

its a good rule, but tough to follow sometimes. we've all had "that girl" that we just had to have no matter what, that we refuse to give up on. but you are right, its better to cut 'em loose if they don't respect you enough to return a message.

 

if the chick has verizon and you are calling from a verizon phone there is a way to check if she got your voicemail...i used to do that to a girl that always told me she never got my messages..low and be hold she was checking them right after i left them..

peaced her out real quick..

 

good rule, even for pursuing a guy. No idea why people keep going after someone who is not interested enough to give a call back

 

it seems to me if the girl is hot and u dont show interest like every other guy they see you as a challange and we all like a good challange. so they inturn pursue you. you gotta use reverse psychology on them.

 

I follow this rule, basically is common sense as stated before. But it sucks when on old girl has some of your shit and you are trying to get it back. sorry, ranting for my current situation.

 

hehe but some people can't tell the difference between someone playing hard to get and being dissed

 

can you please explain how?

 

shit i keep find my exs clothes around my house and it reminds me of how that bitch fucked me over.i hate it i wish i would stop finding shit she left here

 

you have to have her number memorized or handy. dail into your voicemail and 'press 2 to send a message' then it'll say enter the number, press pound record your message. after that i think it's press 0 for more options, then 3 is delivery confirmation. you get a new vm when the message is heard telling you the exact minute it was heard. works like a charm.

 

Yo Batin what kind of message do you leave for a girl? I have two theories that I have been trying out and I'll post the success rate in a few months once I get a larger sample, but her are the two ways:

1. Call and leave message like this "Hey 'Big Titty Honey', this is The Wadinator just giving you a call to say wassup, give me a call back when you get the message at 1-800-HUGE-CAWK-4-U"

The concept behind this is I don't say where we met, I just say my name because if she is as interested as I am she would remember my name and be excited to hear from me. If she doesn't return the call that means she is definitely not interested, if she was interested even if she forgot my name she should at least remember meeting that cute guy and be curious to see if that was him that left the message.

2. Call and say "Hey 'Big Booty Babe' this is The Wadinator we met at Bubba's Slip and Slide Swingers Club on saturday, I was hoping we could see each other again tomorrow night at Bambi's Lingerie Depot around 8, give me a call back at 1-800-PIITB.

This one leaves her no chance of being unclear, you say your name, where and when you met and immediately suggest a place for you to see each other again. This shows that you are a take charge kinda guy, and at the same time allows you to know without a doubt that she is not interested if you don't hear from her in the next day or two.

 

I say, "hi, it's Dean, give me a call later".

 

U gotta at least leave a number, like you said not everybody has caller ID.

I have a similar rule I call it "3 strikes".

1. Call, if you don't get her don't leave a message
2. Call, if you don't get her leave a simple message: "This is waddy, give me a call later at xxx-xxxx
3. Call, if you don't get her leave a message: "Bitch if you didn't want to holla why'd you give me the digits, you dumb whore I coulda fucked you into oblivian and made you thank me for it, your loss slut.......call me later ok.

 

Waddy, you's a pimp.

 

I like it! I tried your first advice about "Hey 'Big Titty Honey', this is The Wadinator just giving you a call to say wassup, give me a call back when you get the message at 1-800-HUGE-CAWK-4-U" but she didn't appreciate the 'Big titty honey' comment none too much!

 

NO, the first time you need to leave a message. waddy.. weren't you the one who told me to leave a message w/ that one guy i mentioned a few posts ago??? yeah that's what i thought

after that, don't bother leaving a message, they get the point.

and yes, that is a good rule. girls don't call back if they're not interested. and, well, neither do guys.

i am seeing a guy right now who is SO good with his phone.. it's exciting!!

 

damn you caught me

Batin you da pimp, you give good advice and don't take crap from chicks like a real man.

u crazy son!

 

 

what happends if she gives u her number and dosent go to voicemail or answering machine and it just keeps ringing? maybe no caller id?? what do u do...

 

Keep calling until you reach her. Get her to hang out, if she fronts, give her your digits and tell her to call you when she's free. No call, cut her off. If she actually hangs out on your call, try to bang her.

 

lmao @ waddy


i usually just call once, unless shes a dime then i give it 2 or 3....

what i dont get is why they give out the digits but dont pick up, maybe they are just to nice to say no to ya in front of ur face...

 

call, leave a message. if she doesn't get back to you, don't make a second effort. If she was mutually excited to get your call, she would return it.

 

i am so glad i am not in the dating scene

 

Or they were drunk when they met you and have since changed their minds. Prime example:

Friday I met this chick at a club. I was dancing with this girl Tamra who is sexy as hell and can dance her ass off, so naturally everybody in the club is looking at us.

NOTE: Guys if you can dance, try to find girl who is hot who can also dance, even if she is a "platonic" friend or your boy's girlfriend (if your boy doesn't mind). It's a surefire way to get noticed by every chick in the club because:
1) they were already looking at the sexy ass chick thinking "I hate that bitch, she probably thinks she's so hot" and.....
2) chicks like guys who can dance WITH girls, they think it's sexy, sorry breakdancers and....
3) they figure if hot chick like that is so into you there must be something about you that they need to get in on.
I've lost count how many times I danced with a hot chick for an extended time and less than 2 minutes after we are done dancing, I had another hot chick introducing herself me afterwards because she saw me dancing.

Back to the story. So not even 30 seconds after I am done dancing with Tamra and she walks away than this chick bumps into me as she is passing. She says she's sorry and I reciprocate, then she turns to walk away then she stops and says to me "Damn, you're looking so sexy right now". SCHWING I'm in right?

Jury's still out on that one, I could tell she was a little drunk, not sloppy drunk, but she had the I'm-at-my-limit eyes going on. We danced for a few songs flirted a little, I got her number, she said "make sure you call me" on 4 different occassions. So I called her Sunday and left a message, I have yet to hear from her, I mean WTF? She's all over me for 20 minutes, we have a good conversation, and she practically begs me to call her, then I do and zip, nada, nothing

Chicks man, you can't take the shit that they do personally, they can't predict what they are going to do next half the time, so it's hopeless for us to even try to figure it out.

 

 

i love it when you are actually dancing with the girl and they start bumping into you to steal you from the girl. Chics love a guy that can dance........

 

 

funny this thread came up cause i have been in some situations like this.

this past 2 weeks i got this girls number, called her a few days later, no answer and i didnt leave a message. the next upcoming weekend i called, no answer, left her a voicemail to call me back, she never called back.

then this past friday i saw her at the same place i was at night, went up to her and asked what the deal was, she said she never got the voicemail. then i asked if she still wanted to go out sometime, and she said yes. so saturday i called her, no answer, left a message and no call back.

the next time i see her im gonna ask why she would give me her number if she doesnt wanna hang. then i might say "well im getting my number changed so if u wanna call me, heres my new number, and the new number will be the "rejection hotline" number.

that will teach the biotch.

 

You're contradicting this great thread. The whole idea is to never call her again and move on to the next girl.

 

already done..........number deleted

 

Good man.

 

its all about playing the game. you cant make them think you like them or want to hang out, otherwise they might get scared off or realize they have u in the bag and then do nothing.

you kind of have to play hard to go in a sense. so if i called this girl like 3 times with no answer, if she ever calls, dont answer the phone and get her to keep calling you.

sure u might miss out on a potential piece of ass but u will treat her the same way she treated u.

 

What? If she calls you, you have to nail that ass! You teach her a lesson by no longer calling, but if she calls you, let her make it up to you by giving you some ass!

 

i guess it depends on the situation, but their was a time when the girl called back, i didnt answer, she called again and left a message, she called a week later, i answered and told her to fuck off and have never talked to her again.

it was one girl, and sure i was regretting it at first, but moving on to the next weekend was something to look forward to.

hard to explain, but i play headgames with some girls, like they do to me and sometimes its for the good and sometimes it ends up backfiring on me......ya live ya learn

 

I wish I could learn from this thread......but alas, I'm in the group of "maybe something went wrong somewhere"